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writes:im struggling to keep my relationship with my bf alive due to his family. first of all is he is a long distance bf which i can only see around every 4-7 weeks for maybe 4 days. also we can only speak on the phone 2 hours a daythe main problems that are killing our relationship is:1)his mum demands money so he very rarely can see me or even afford to do stuff with me when we are together last time i was round he saved up £120 and once his mum found out he had £10 which went on bus fares to take me to the train station2) his family always gets him to do housework when im there e.g. made him get out of bed to get hair dye at 3am 3) we never have any private time to talk on the phone with out them asking stupid questions which could wait until after he has finished talking to me he trys to stand up to his family but they just kick him out the house and he has no where to go and cant afford a place atm. how can i make this relationship last?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 You should be more understanding of his living conditions and be patient till he is able to move out and be independent.
Just don't expect too high an expectation from him. You and him would feel better that way.
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