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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I'm worried I may be paranoid about them laughing behind my back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Basically I met this group of girls through my job. I've been there about 8 months now and I would like to think I get on with everyone, however, generally I just do my work and go home. I don't do 'office gossip' if you will. I am quite introverted ...

Feeling guilty about walking away from my drug addict guy. Was I wrong to take some distance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I have been in a relationship for a few months with a guy who is a drug addict. He uses coke, meth, heroin, etc. We recently spoke about his drug addiction and I told him that I will be there to support his recovery. He just has to ...

I am still embaressed by my actions of two years ago.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I'm normally pretty good and forgetting and getting over embarrassing moments. I normally don't really care and laugh it off but for some reason this is different..probably because this is the most embarrassing thing that has happened (or at the ...

Need help dealing with heavy periods

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Hey I'm 13 and I have really heavy periods which are usually accompanied by horrible cramps. My cycle lasts for 3-4 days; in a day I manage to get through 4 pads!? Is this normal? I don't wear tampons because they seem really unfomortable. Like when ...

To anyone who has had therapy for depression, what was your experience like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Hi, I have a quick question. I'm 25 and I have just been diagnosed with depression, and will be starting therapy soon. I guess I just wanted to hear from anyone here who has been to therapy about what to expect. I'm curious to hear about your ...

The man I love can't give me a baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - So my husband and I were having some trouble concieveing. We are in a very fortunate financial position despite our age and feel we can give a child a good upbringing. With me, everything seemed to be fine, but my husbands test results weren't so ...

Should I tell my Mom the things my cousin has shared with me about my father and the affair my father is having?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My cousin [We'll call him R] came with me today with news that really shocked me. He told me my dad has been seeing a woman he graduated with who has a lot of money. The other day, R came to my house (I still live with my parents) and I wasn't the...

I'm scared to commit because of my temper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm mature enough for marriage but lm scared to commit cause of my temper. I got Angry quickly, cry and give up easily bt l really wana settle down. Pliz help...

Why does my boyfriend get chatty/flirty with girls when he's had alcohol?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - Why does my boyfriend get very flirty chatty with girls when hes had alcohol but is not like this at all when sober and would never disrespect me by even checking out a hot girl in front of me! Should I worry? I do worry in case he gets really d...

My parents are up fighting and talking at night and I can't sleep!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - My parents don't let me sleep at night! In 2013 I developed an eating disorder followed with random binges due to a lifetime of my dad's bulling and being a sensitive person, and continued despite all of this. He also abused everyone in my f...

Can I get sick from doggy style anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - hi everyone plz help me n my bf we meet in 3mnths ago we madly in luv but everytym we hv sex (dogstyl) we do it in my ass n it painfull sometimes i cnt even seat for dayz becouse off the pain im feeling when i tell him he said he enjoys the dogstyl ...

What does a women do if her BIOLOGICAL needs clash with her psychological UNMET NEEDS

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3746 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - What does a women do if her BIOLOGICAL needs clash with her psychological UNMET NEEDS. The problem is that I stayed in a long-term controlled relationship for 8 years and made many attempts to leave but I was way to brainwashed and it was only ...

I feel like my mother's insensitivity is ruining our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I need some help with a problem I have been having with my mother. I am 18, 5'11 and around 66kg. I've been modelling on-off for the past two years but I've always found it hard as my body type is more athletic than most ...

I feel unsuccessful, unhappy and lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

23 August 2014 (M) - Hey everyone I got out of long term relation ship which lasted for two and an half year. After that I started to work out and lost 20pounds quitted smoking. as a medical student my internship is about to start but I feel desperately unsucces...

I cant talk or text the friend I love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - im in a friendship with a guy i love ever since we met and i dont know what to do because hes in a drug program that prevents me from talking to him and texsting him and i love him so much it hurts but my question is what should i do about this ...

Is it possible to love your husband but contemplate leaving him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have 2 beautiful children together. Since we got married, our marriage was always been a little tumultuous as my husband tends to be very moody and suffers from anxiety. He has refused professi...

My grandmother has fallen into a depression

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3749 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - Hello, My Grandmother has recently fallen into a depression. Her best friend (my godmother who had lived with us all since i was born) passed away a year and a half ago. Also all six of my nans grandchildren (including me) have moved out now. O...

I found performance-enhancing pills -- should I ask him about them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - I'm in a new relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months, it's going very nicely. Infact we confessed our true feelings a few days ago and told each other we love each other, we're both so happy :) My concern came about today when I came across so...

Something just hasn't clicked in my life and I'm perpetually in a rut. Has anybody felt this low and how did they bounce back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

19 August 2014 (M) - Right this is a issue I have had for years and it wont go away. I feel life is pointless and void and really feel like I have no chance of a future, I have no hobbies as nothing greatly interests me or I loose interest in it. I do try to have energy ...

How to love someone who has never been loved before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - Basically I'm in a relationship with a guy who is 25 but never been loved in his whole life, not by his parents, friends and never before been in a relationship. Because of this when something goes bad in his life he becomes very isolated because he ...

With an abusive family, at what point do you say enough us enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - My father used to physically abuse me all the time when I was a child, and my mother and older siblings (I'm the youngest) used to back him up in this, emotionally abusing me and telling me that I deserved it. My father was also on the verge of ...

My fiance accuses me of cheating.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - My fiance of four year has accused me of sleeping around. I have given him my undivided attention within the 4 years we have been together. He suffers from depression and iv been there always through his ups and downs. I cannot exept theses ...

Just thinking about her gets me excited ....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

19 August 2014 (M) - I really fancy my neighbour and have been aroused by her for a long time now, she is single and is friendly to me. I've not asked her out but am falling in love with her, the problem is I get very stiff erections whenever I see her now and have eve...

Worried that stretch marks are going to ruin my body, even after I've dropped 3 stone. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - This is quite a common problem and I need some advice on it. I am a young teen girl verging on being 18, and some of you may of read from my previous questions that I am trying to lose weight. Its going very well I have gone fro...

Is it possible to get tested for cold sores when a sore isn't present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3165 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - AKA HSV-1. I don't have any symptoms now, but in the past I had a few things that I thought could be a cold sore but I was never 100% sure that it was. Like I had a sore or pimple on the edge of my lip before; never knew what it really was I think I ...

My recovering drug addicted boyfriend has gone AWOL .... again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I come here in despair, hoping to gain some insight from objective people. I have been dating a guy who is a recovering drug addict. We have been together for just over three months. At the beginning of our relationship, h...

My boyfriend isn't bothered by the difference in our body sizes, but as a bigger girl I feel awkward about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - Hello, I am a 30 year old virgin and have recently started dating an older man who is 34 and I suspect he is also a virgin. My main worry is that I am a UK size 22 and he is very very skinny and only a couple of inches taller then me. The whole ...

My Daughter in Law is very hateful and angry all the time.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - My youngest son had a previous marriage and has two sons from that marriage. After the divorce, he met a woman online from another state who has one son that he is married to now. His new wife was unhappy about the child support he was p...

Why do people always stare at me and what should I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I'm unusual looking, average am over 35, pale, (bad skin which im trying to improve, and yes I do wear light make up to cover spots..) I am thinnish, I wear average clothes, glasses at times when I don't wear contacts, as I have very ba...

The scar from my boyfriend's circumcision makes me sad

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I could use some advice here. My boyfriend is circumcised, and often when we're intimate I notice his scar and I feel really sad about it. Like, he was born perfect and then his parents/doctors decided to cut off a really sen...

I have trouble climaxing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

16 August 2014 (M) - I am having a sexual problem. Basically I can't cum when I have sex. Condom or no condom. This is over multiple partners over about two years of being sexually active. So far I've never been able to cum with a partner. I'm not sure if it's a ph...

I haven't had a real relationship since leaving my abusive ex-husband, and after learning I have genital herpes I'm wondering if I should ever try for one at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - Two and a half years ago I left an almost decade long relationship/marriage to a morbidly jealous psychologically abusive man - he always accused me of cheating, but I never did. I stayed too long, and left at the last minute, before he could suck ...

I think I am too attracted to this girl who likes me only as a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

15 August 2014 (M) - i am 22 year old boy and have no real friend with whom i can share my sadness.. i feel alone al the time. i have no friends and i am not good at making one. a girl came in my life and became my friend. and that also because her family knows my...

I want to hear him say something nice about me! Is he still attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3756 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - So, my husband and I have been together for 5yrs and married for 2yrs. My husband use to compliment me all the time, and me being a woman I need these lil compliments to make me feel better! We've had many of problems in our relationship down to ...

Why am I so uncomfortable with one of the most natural things out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - Okay so this might get a little lengthy but I have to share it because it's bothered me all my life and currently I can't sleep at the moment because the thoughts won't leave my brain. I do have to give some background about myself but to su...

How can I stop hating myself because I forgive her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

15 August 2014 (M) - Short and sweet. My best friend of 5 years and girlfriend of a year just up and left me. I found out she messed around with 5 other guys while she was with me. The only way I found out was one of the guys that she was messing with told me cuz he ...

I've researched about STDs and how they are transmitted! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - Ok, I don't want to catch any STDs so I've researched alot, but I want feedback from people with real experience: Fingering, Mutual Masturbation, Dry Humping with underwear on, and anything through clothing, no STDs can be transmitted right? Also...

I think my husband has a drink problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - I believe my husband has a problem with alcohol, and I am just not sure how to deal with it anymore. Everyday, after work, he'd go to the off licence and buy vodka quarter bottle, and sit and drink it all while watching TV after work. He says it...

My anxiety is destroying my relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

11 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks so much for helping. I get extremely stressed/anxious over tiny things, and overanalyze everything, whether it is with friends, my boyfriend, or a random person. Generally, my anxiety is unwarranted: for example, if my b...

Does life get better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

10 August 2014 (F) - I'm a beautiful girl, skinny nice body always at the gym. But I'm insecure with my boobs , I want implants I don't have the money. I want change in my life , I'm 19 and tired of the same things. When does it all end ? When do I get a better job , ...

He's only passionate about me when its convenient for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - I feel like this is just going to be one long rant but I can't help it. I need to get this out. I've been with my fiance since June 2010. We've been engaged since January of this year. Our relationship started off as me with a desperate need t...

I contracted the herpes virus in 2011, now I feel I will never be able to look forward to a relationship or a sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3763 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I was sleeping with someone I liked in 2011, only things went wrong and I contracted the herpies virus from him. The virus never goes, although it lies dormant, I now have it for life. Well I met one of my neighbors three mont...

I'm finding it so hard to accept that my ex has disappeared out of my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

8 August 2014 (F) - Hi, I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, which he finished in January this year. I know there were a few problems between us and it was hard to accept that he didn't love me any more. He said there was nothing left. I did hurt him, an...

Boyfriend seems to only mention marriage when I am depressed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

8 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't been together a year yet but he already brings up marriage. We are expecting a child, it was a complete accidental pregnancy, I was on birth control and we were using a condom but somehow I still got pregnant (My mother ...

I am addicted to shopping!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - I have always been an impulsive person, and for quite some time now, I have been spending money like there is no tomorrow. I am buying things very impulsively when realistically I can't afford to. But in the moment, I don't care, its like I "need...

I don't want to block him because he is a nice person but I'm freaking out now because he will take my rejection very badly, how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - I have been chatting to a man online for a few months now, he seemed ok and I would offer him advice as he had mental problems...he has a borderline personality so I did google the illness and realised that people who suffer from that tend to act on ...

I'm worrying about my bf's possible behavior while on his vacation with single friends. Justified thoughts or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - Hello dear Uncles and Aunts, Thanks in advance for reading my story. I'm a little bit (perhaps a lot) insecure about the most stupid things ever and it's driving me crazy. is the next thing I'm going to tell you, justified on my part or....

Family problems are causing too much stress and nightmares! Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - I am incredibly stressed out. I've been having nightmares for the past week. I'm waking up 2-3 times a night due to this. When I'm awake I'm feeling nauseous and having stomach pain. I've bitten all my nails down so far I literally can't bite them ...

My anger is turning into depression - I want my husband to leave

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I have been married for four years. My husband has been emotionally abusive. He ignores me, wants me to plead for attention, for sex, calls me a whore, tells me he cant kiss me because am disgusting and all sorts of stuff. I have kids, and he does ...

My depression is making it impossible for me to find the strength to leave my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I’m having trouble leaving my partner. Been together about 15 years, married, divorced and back together again. I don’t love him like I did, too much damage has been done, can’t be intimate with him at all. I am very unhappy and desperately want to ...