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He makes me feel like I'm his mother or his household help!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I'm having a hard time with my husbandhe's 25. He's failed at so many things in his life. I've been with him for 2years but known him for 4years. Ever since after his A levels. He flunked and i was there for him. I tried applying for him at colleges ...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend after we had anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had anal sex for the first time and the next day she was complaining that her butt-hole hurt and it bled when she tried going to the restroom. is this serious should I be worried?? Please help!!!! (Note this was our first time)...

How do you lose fat from your inner thigh?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am needing to lose fat off my inner thigh. Dose anyone have a suggestion over it. Cause it could really help me out. I mean I have try everything. ...

Penis size insecurity...Why is size such a big deal??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - ok well id like to know why guys worry so much about the size of their penis? why is it such a big concern for them? why is it a competition? i dont hear girls comparing the size of their vagina. what is it about it that makes them feel such varity ...

I heard fried chicken gives a guy an erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Okay, my BF and I get really close when we hug, but he never gets a bonner, ever! I've always heard that even fried chicken gives a guy a bonner, why not me?...

How scientifically legitimate is Jelqing?

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31 January 2011 (M) - How scientifically legitimate is Jelqing? I know theres a little bit about it on Wikipedia. but it seems to give a very ambiguous picture that doesn't allow for a decision to be made. (it says no studies have proven it, yet I can't find a study even ...

Is there anyway I can ease the pain in my throat after I give my boyfriend oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been teaching me gradually how to deep throat. I really enjoy pleasuring him in that way, and I'm getting really good at pulling him in deep. The only problem? It hurts! The next day, my throat is very sore and inflamed. Unplea...

Does ejaculation volume influence the effectiveness of the pill?

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30 January 2011 (M) - Maybe I'm thinking too much into this, but does ejaculation volume influence the effectiveness of the pill at all? My girlfriend and I did it the day after her period ended, and it was a longer, more intense session that had an abnormally large...

Most of the girls in my year smoke and I want to try. Do boys find girls who smoke attractive.

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30 January 2011 (F) - Ok, I'm 14 and most of the girls in my year have smoked. I really want to take a few drags and see what it's like, but one of my friends is TOO overly protective and will tell my guidance teacher! Also, do boys think it's cool if their girl smokes? ...

Does the size of a girl's "pearl in her flower" matter to men?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Ok guys, please be honest! Does the size of girl's "pearl in her flower" matter to you? I didn’t think mine was big till my boyfriend said, “wow your "pearl" gets so big when you’re turned on.” He makes jokes about it. Now I’m self conscious about ...

I don't want girls to run away because my pubic hair is all over the place?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - ok im quite embarrassed abart this but my pubic hair is really long around my genitals and on my bottom. every time i look down there or see my bottom in a mirror it looks very messy and horrible to look at. i don't want to get rid of it all i ...

Receiving a blowjob from my girlfriend does not feel good to me! Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been going out for three months. We have a history together and I love her with all of my heart. There's just one problem. To me, it doesn't feel good when she gives me head. She's gotten me off from her hand every ...

Worried about leaving my kids with their father who is an alcoholic. What should I do?

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30 January 2011 (F) - My existence here in this country depends on my ex. I don't know why I say he is my ex as we still live together. He was supposed to move out once he had the money. Since I've been working (3 months) I've been paying all the bills myself so he can ...

What can I do about my noisy stomach!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I have a problem at school with being nervous during class because I think my stomach is going to make noises because it's so embarrassing. When the class is quiet my stomach starts to make noise but I realized that the only time my stomach makes ...

My husband always has the air conditioning on even though it bothers me and the baby

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30 January 2011 (F) - i know some of guys may think it baby like but i dont have friends and this site helps me. my husband has a very high body temp. if it cold amd you touch him he will be hot. in the car he turns on the air con in the house he turns the fan. the ...

Should I ask him why he doesn't speak to me at school?

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29 January 2011 (F) - There is a guy i talk to every day, and who goes to my school. I have sooo much in common with him. He likes me, i think he's two years younger than me, he never used to talk to me before, he's sooo shy at school. it's like i dont exist and everyone...

Why are bigger breasts bigger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - How to learn to love small breasts? I have small breasts, and I don't like how they look. I know women can look good with small breasts, like Kate Hudson or Natalie Portman, but I just don't think they look sexy or hot, just pretty. I'm also...

I love her but my brain wont let me stop thinking about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - I was wifes first kiss her one and only love but I broke her heart. She later went and had sex with another man for a minute and told him to stop because she knew it was wrong and it didnt feel right because she still loved me. The man did not ...

I feel like I have to do everything for him, for us.

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29 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We are'first loves'. We've been living together for about a year, and I'm getting to the point where I don't know if I want to stay with him, but if I think about leaving him, the ...

How do I explain to friends that I don't want to be touched because of my disfigurement?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - It's me again. I have people who are pressuring me to be in a relationship, but there's just one problem...I'm permanently disfigured. I used to have tits, and then I had surgery. It still doesn't look normal and the Doctors don't care. But the ...

Time of the month she turns into someone else.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

29 January 2011 (?) - Hey everybody, Really need your help so here goes. Thanks in advance. I've been dating this girl for a couple of months now and everything was going well up until a week ago. It's the time of the month and I don't want to sound like just a ...

Adding girth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Ok so I just wanted to know if there are anyways to increase gerth, I know that those penis enlargmEnts don't work, but what about adding gerth? Anyone try something out and have good results? Thankss...

I haven't had my period in 3 months and I'm not sexually active

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - im 15 almost 16 and ive had my period for almost 2 months now...its comes and goes when it wants but its usually ever month but at different times and different flows but it has recently started 2 not come a month then it went 2 months now it is 3 ...

Is this really just part of my cycle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - hii.. just a lil question im just needing s few opinions from the outer world to compare with mums answer but ok ill jsut tell u lol.. its part of beeing a teenage girl -at 16- according to mum; whenever i go to the toilet i always find some sor...

The pain during periods is so intense I feel like I am dying, and to top things off I saw my ex boyfriend with another girl...!

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28 January 2011 (F) - I have tried everything - pain killers, hot water bottle, chocolate, etc. Nothing works! My doctor said that my uterus lining sheds too many nerves, and that's why I get so much pain. Well, I am fed up with it. I'm 17 years old and the last thi...

Just need advice on how to lose the weight and tone up and also how to get rid of stretch marks.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I'm 17 and about 5ft. I've wrote on here about my weight and everything but I need some advice of diets and losing weight. When I was 14 I weighed just over 7 stone and then put a bit of weight on when I was 16 so I was nearly 8 stone. I didn't p...

I really need an answer for how to stop being so needy and clingy!

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28 January 2011 (F) - Hi; I am 45 and have been single for almost 19yrs. Everyone says I am a great person and very good looking. But my friends also say that I am needy and clingy. How do I stop being so needy and clingy? My thought were the reason was becau...

Is this pain normal?

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28 January 2011 (F) - Any time my boyfriend fingers me I feel pain; I am a virgin. And after the act I get this burning sensation and it lasts for about 3 days. I want to know if this is normal?...

I get a bit limp when sex gets energetic......

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28 January 2011 (?) - I am curious about a minor ED problem I seem to be having. When I am having sex, I can stay rock hard indefinitely. But it seems like when I get my heart rate up, like when I'm on top pumping hard, I start to lose my erection. It's like the blood ...

Should I leave this abusive relationship now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I really hope you can help. I am in an abusive relationship. I do love the guy but he seems to be be intent on saying that his physical violence towards me is justified - i.e. apparently I 'press his anger buttons' when I get annoyed with things. ...

I believe my boyfriend may suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Is it safe to be with this kind of person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. When we were discussing something, my boyfriend told me he loves to see a women naked i.e. naked with all her feelings and vulnerable. He is very self centered and never much cares about my needs, it's always about him. He abuses me mental...

I constantly seek validation from men, and compare myself to other women! It has turned me a bitter woman at age 22, so how do I stop caring about men and relationships?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - How can I stop caring about relationships and what men think of me? You know, when you have stupid problems and you fight against things you just can't fight against. For instance, I hate society, I hate how society works, and how most people go b...

Is it normal to get a sore jaw after giving bf oral?

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27 January 2011 (F) - is it normal to very quickly get a sore jaw after giving my bf oral and will it go away in time? its often too painful to continue for any length of time...

Any good back exersice to help ease the pain from large breasts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I know I shouldnt be complaining because most girls would love to have this problem im sure, but i have a 25 inch waist and size 32DD breasts on a small day. Normally this is an amazing gift, but my upper back and shoulders are always in really bad ...

His kids are always sick!

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27 January 2011 (F) - I am currently pregnant and expecting my first child with a man who has 3 children from a previous relationship. His children come over and visit every 2nd weekend. One of his kids is ALWAYS sick though... Ever since I first met her she either has a ...

My 19 year old boyfriend wet the bed! Why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - PLEASE TELL ME WHATS WRONG! Me and my boyfriend are sort of living together for like 2 months. And he has an early shift so he gets up 06:00AM. (we sleep together). He woke me up and told me that he peed the bed! AND HE IS 19! HE seemed really f...

I don't want my boyfriend to see me with all of this acne!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - Hi all! Hope y'all are doing good! :) In a way this isn't a relationship type of question. But I really have bad acne, I have tried every thing to get rid of it and I don't know what to do to get rid of it. I have an online boyfriend, we ar...

Erection problems since my injury

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I got shot in a car jacking about 4 months ago and had to have back surgery they put 2 rods in my back to hold my spine together. The dr released me back to work but I've been having major issues getting and keeping an erection. If I do get one it ...

I feel that I suck in bed!

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26 January 2011 (M) - I feel that I suck in bed. The main problem is that I don't last very long during sex, the average is usually under 2 minutes. This also occurs when I masterbate. When I was younger I could last much longer, about 10-15 mins usually, but not now. I ...

Is my boy friend cheating on me or does he have a drinking problem:?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I've been seeing someone for seven months. We see each other about once a week. We talk on the phone once or twice a week, but otherwise we communicate by email. He used to have his two kids with him most of the time and now his ex-wife has ...

I feel like I can't be happy or positive enough, to match my boyfriend.

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hello My issue is that I have a really nice boyfriend who is a very happy guy, most of the time, which is good, but I feel guilty when I have bad day/tough week or am just emotional because I feel like I probably break the happiness. Most ...

No closer to getting her back and no idea how to cope with that!

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26 January 2011 (M) - So there's this girl I've known for six years. On and off again we've loved each other and we've "dated" a bunch of times. She lived in a completely different state than I did, so it was childish. Finally, we're in college. It's great, she moves...

Can I skip my placebo pill and go straight into the next pack so I don't get my period? Are there any side effects?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I am scheduled to go on vacation to Mexico in the middle of march for 8 days. I am due to get my period right on the second day there, which is highly irritating. If I were to skip taking my placebo birth control week and start right away with the ...

Is this normal for an uncircumsized male?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hey well i'm 21 and it is my first time being with someone uncircumsized. But i admit the skin freaked me out, but got over it. he got hard and when i went to touch his penis he complained it was very sore why is that ? i barely touched his penis....

Are my gentials abnormal?

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26 January 2011 (F) - This question has to do with the design of my genital area. I do not have that loose flappy skin that kind of looks like a thinner floppy second set of lips in between my vaginal lips. I've seen women in this x-rated magaizines with that. Is ...

How do I improve my self esteem?

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26 January 2011 (F) - At school all the boys say how ugly I am to my face, and also behind my back. But all my Friends say i am pretty. and I try to eat less but i generally think i don't eat a lot but all the guys say how fat I am. But i don't weigh that much I ...

Should I make him choose between drugs and me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Wow, so I don't really know where to start. This may be longer than I expect, so I apologise in advance. I started dating this guy not long ago, he is older than me, which is fine, age to me has never been a barrier. But is it not strange how things ...

How can I get through to my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I need advice on something. My mother has been fighting cancer for 4 years now. Recently it went to her brain and before that had spread throughout most her body. The chance of survival is quite slim. Currently she cannot drive or do a lot of stuff. ...

Don't stop enjoying oral sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - There was recently a programme on called 'is oral sex, safe?' During this doucmentary i realised that everyone has a virus called HBV. However, it is 5x more likely that men have a futher effect of this than women. If the HBV Virus is not treated, ...

Boyfriend's chin stubble is irritating my face. Any ideas to prevent this?

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25 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has quite a bit of stubble on his chin. I love it, but I often get rashes and wondered if there was any way to prevent them, or make them less noticeable? thanks x...