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*ustmeScarb
writes:I feel that I suck in bed. The main problem is that I don't last very long during sex, the average is usually under 2 minutes. This also occurs when I masterbate. When I was younger I could last much longer, about 10-15 mins usually, but not now. I hate that I can't last, it's very fustrating when intercourse is so short. It feels too good when I/we do it and I can't hold it. I can't enjoy myself and pleasure my partner properly. We have tried oral and manual stimulation but she wants intercourse more and to last longer. I've tried the pull-out and squeeze method but it doesn't help. I even tried kegals (sp?) exercise to no eval.I also want to have an orgasm again. I cum (as you can see too easily) all the time. I have had only 2 orgasms in my life. The first time was when I masterbated for the first time ever, when I was 18. Yes I discovered masterbation late in life. The second was when I was 22 during intercourse with my lover at the time. I know I had an orgasm because I felt like nothing did before. It feels so intense that it echos through my whole body. During the first one, I was in the shower when it happened. My knees almost gave out and almost fell over it was so intense. The second time I was in bed and I got a bit dizzy and collaped in bed.I want to feel this again. I've tried again during masterbastion, using different techniques. Trying to relax and let go more during sex with my parnter, but nothing works. Please help!
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 First off if you ejaculate then this is you having an orgasm. Im guessing those both times were just more intense for you than all the other times. I guess the only problem here is that you cant last that long. So there are a few things you can try to last longer.
While you are masterbating dont let yourself ejaculate. Just take your time with it and spend 15 minutes on masterbating. Just take things really slowely and stop if you feel that you are going to ejaculate. After you have had sexual intercourse with your partner, take time out to arouse her by using your fingers and mouth and try and go for round two. Its proven that men can last longer at intercourse second time around also change position to her on top and ask her to go slowely this position allows the man to last longer as there is less stimulation. The more you think about having an orgasm the more sooner it will come (ejaculation) therefore dont think about it concentrate on your partner look at her eyes her hair concentrate on your favorite parts of her and dont even think about orgasms as it will bring on the ejaculation quicker. If none of those work then head to your doctor, he can prescribe you prozac for a week or two that usually stops men ejaculating to soon. So go to your doctor and ask about that. Goodluck.
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