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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

My little sister missed a period, but she has never had sex. Could something be wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Hey i was wondering if some one could help me help my little sister. Shes 14 but all most 15 and shes never had sex. But she hasn't had her period this month and shes never missed one before and she hates talking about it so she came to me.I was ...

Sticky itchy clear dischage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I need help ive been having this sticky itchy clear discharge for a few weeks now ..... I dont have insurance to go to the doctor but my boyfriend wants to have sex. Does anyone know whats wrong with me or what i can do about the situation..... ...

Vagina tightening cream?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

31 December 2009 (?) - has anyone tried the vagina tightening cream Manjakini.does it work? and how do you use it?...

I want to encurage my g/f to lose weight!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Hello, I've been with my girlfriend for 8 years. We both grew heavier than we used to be. This year I was able to lose the weight I'd gained by changing my diet. I would like my girlfriend to lose weight and get back into the shape she used...

Stomach pains after prostate massage... Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - I did some experimenting on my body tonight. I was masturbating when I noticed a cylinder shaped object about 12cm long. I decided to use it on my prostate (you know what that involves) using oil as lubrication. It was a pretty amazing experience, ...

Can using condoms & morning after pill be effective to prevent pregnancy and STDs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - out of genuine curiosity. my first time having sex with my boyfriend and we been together just over 9 months. we are long distance relationship but live only like 20 miles. we had our ups and our downs but we love each other nonetheless. ...

Shooting Blanks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is scared he's shooting blanks. He has one brother who is setrile and another who has like super sperm three kids in three years with birth control and condoms super sperm. He's scared that he is shooting blanks which i highly doubt but ...

I have developed asthma and want to leave the military sooner than they are taking, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hello. Is there any one out there that can give me advice? Ive been in the millitary for five years now. I've developed asthma last year. The medical desission is taking to long and now they have me on deploying status. I currently have a temp pro...

I feel sad, I cry a lot, have low self-esteem, can you help me in some way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I don’t really know what’s wrong with me, or how to write this. Basically, I’m very unhappy, and I have been for a year now, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve had various issues with self-esteem, sleeping, my mood, confidence, appetite and energy ...

Its complicated...please some objective input?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...

Is it wrong to wish he'd just pass away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My dad has been a severe alcoholic most of my life. He was emotionally dead when I was a teen and went through a brief point of sobriety when i was in my early 20''s. for the last couple of years, he's cheated death several times. he has survived ...

Pregnant: yes or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I am shantha am an indian 33 years old i have irregular period, i took a treatment vide ayurveda. After treatment, past five month i have regular period. last month i missed my period and also i got pregnancy symptoms, like frequent urination, ...

It sticks out a bit. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - It is a bit embarrassing to talk about. So,I have a large clitoris. I wonder ,if it means anything.Some people says ,I could be more of a lesbian because of that. I', confused. Is this normal? Its not like a penis,but if there is a naked picture, ...

What do I do...Nina or Lily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - I'll try to make this short. I'm a teenager and I have stupid teenage love problems, but I'd really like some help. There's this girl I was in love with for a few years, Lily, she was my first everything first girlfriend, first kiss, lost my ...

No period but I know I'm not pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - sooo i been feel throwin up for 3 days now , and i didn't have my period for a month . But i know i ain't pregnant because i didn't have sex ! but like 3 days before i was drunk . I don't know what's wrong with me ! and like 3 weeks ago i was ...

What are some of the early signs of pregnancy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - my question is about before a missed period and pregnancy ... what were some mild symptoms before finding out ur preggo... not the throwing up stuff but more like ain in ovaries and stuff like that?...

I have OCD which is affecting my life, how do I get rid of this mental disorder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I am 15 and I have OCD, (Obsessive- compulsive Disorder). I'm not a big fan of this but I have had it for about 6 Years. It's really starting to annoy me now, I am ALWAYS paranoid that my boyfriend is cheating, paranoid ...

Does masterbation cause health problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - hi there again, this time i want to ask that do masterbration effects health?? I mean i masturbrate 2-3 times daily and day by day i am feelling weaker! I asked a friend and he told me that masterbrating too much can also cause AIDs! So i want to ...

I think I have a split personality

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I think there is something wrong with me. I have split personality's. It sound's strange but true. One day I can be the most happiest person alive. I talk a lot sing loads, I buY lot's of nice expensive things for myself and I become very sel...

Height increase

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - My daughter is 16 years old and she is 4.8 feet height. I know this is very under height. Can anybody help her to increase height? I will be very much grateful if anybody helps and it does works out....

Young male, pretty overweight - how should I dress to hide this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I'm a young male, but I'm pretty overweight. Not morbidly obese, but pudgy. How should I dress/appear so that I am more attractive to women?...

How do I overcome all my problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hello I figure it was time for me to write all of my thoughts down as it has been a long ride so far. When I was growing up I did not have a great social life. Actually I did not have one at all. From preschool to 8th grade I went to a small priva...

Am I worthless??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Evening everyone.I just feel so worthless at the moment....You know how everyone has something they are good at? Well im rubbish at everything. I failed my driving test, i didnt get a work promotion despite working late and training up several ...

I got slapped on Boxing day, he says he will not drink again, I'm scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - i have been with my fiance now for 2 ans half years we have a 9 month old baby together. the whole time through our relationship was amazing i knew he had a temper because i had seen it towards others whenwe had been out, he always get very ...

I have insomnia and it affects my work, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Hey just thought I'd say first hope everyone had a good Xmas and happy new year when it comes. I have this problem nobody seems to take seriously but I have quite bad sleeping problems. I don't seem to get tired until about 4am and because of that ...

My lips are very dry and swell.....why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - I'm not sure why, but ever since going on roaccutane 2 years ago (I've been off it for a year), my lips have been incredibly dry. I use blistex/paw paw ointment several times a day and have had pregnazone to try ease swelling. Any ideas?...

How can I make my breasts bigger, apart from surgery?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I have an extremly small breast and it makes me feel so shy when i see ma friends with big ones. Im 21, if there is any means of making it bigger apart from going for surgery. I'll really appreciate ur help....

I think I've desensetized my penis due to masturbating, if I stop this will it get better? How can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - Hi there. Im 20 years old and i have been masturbating since i was about 12-13, and problaby 2 a day since i was 15. Now when i was about 17 i started having sex and ever since that time i have had problems ejaculating. Recently this problem has ...

Trapped! How do I get out of this rut?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I get that there are people worse off than me... but it just breaks my heart that i have hopes, dreams, and talents that are going to waste and my life is passing me by because I don´t have the money to fulfill my hopes and dreams. This sounds li...

No period but yet..no sex! What could be wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I haven't had sex for months and I have had my period since apart from this month I am also experiencing nausea at night, lack of appetite and I'm not tired until early hours of the morning what could it be? ...

I seem to dwell in a hole of lonliness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I'm 35 years old. I had a great childhood but once I hit puberty I became depressed (at the time I just thought I was going through a stage). I was mildly depressed through college. After college I was mildly depressed. People cannot see this ...

Home remedy for a yeast infection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Hi, So I had gone over my guy's house and was on my period, but we still had intercourse. When I'm on my period usually we don't use a condom, except this time i got kind of dry during intercourse. When i had gotten home i had noticed I was itchy "d...

Abusive brother and drinking problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - I dont like having ACCIDENTS, spent 6 hours in A and E.Dislocated my shoulder told people i fell over. A bit os laughing gas and then a morphane injection and my shoulder was back in place but at the time i was in agony. Doctors refused to put me to ...

26 Living at home and not a great salary - anyone else in the same boat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - Is anyone else out there in the same boat as me? I'm 26, living at home, changed career so not on a great wage (less than £20k a year). I don't have much to complain about tbh, I have my health, good friends and a brilliant family. But r...

Everything in life seems against me right now

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

25 December 2009 (M) - Look I don't know why but I always find myself depressed. I lost all my friends. My family is a broken one in which I have no one to relate to. My school work is terrible at this rate i don't see myself succeeding much in life. I'm also gay it's all ...

How do I improve our intimacy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and for most of the time we had a good sex life as well as intimacy. Ever since I was recovering from Breast Cancer our love making as well as any form of intimacy has become non existent...

Should I have sex with ANY guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - should i have sex with any guy. i am always horny and i am always chanting online with guys and it always end up with we talking about sex should i hook up with this guy....

Trying to lose weight the easy way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - I wanna loose weight do anybody have any advice on a diet pill or drink..I was lookn into the kardashians quicktrim diet but fda hasn't approved it but gnc will be saling it really soon..pros and cons or anything that you have takin that can help ...

I told him I had been treated for genital warts after we had sex? Would you forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - I slept with someone and didn't tell him I had been treated for genital warts nine months ago. I felt guilty and told him after we had sex. Would you forgive me?...

Do other girls do this? He's changed things up in our sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and our sexlife is great, but the last month, he has been changing things around and I'm wondering if any other girls do this. He will start with vagina sex, then go to anal, then immediately after ...

During kissing/cuddling/etc I suddenly orgasm without stimulation! Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - Me and my fiance are both virgins, we are saving our selves tell we got married, but we do have kisses and cuddling....etc The problem is some of the times when we are kissing i suddenly orgasm !!!!! It been concerning me, should i seek for medical ...

I had sex for the first time and am now worried I might be pregnant

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other ...

His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a universi...

How can I increase my self esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - what are good ways to increase yourself esteem?...

Why is my hair greasy at the moment?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hey all i have a wierd problem at the moment i have washed my hair three times in the past 2 days and i have a patch of really greasy hair :S i have used a new product (heat protector) and i think it may be that so i have stopped using it so ho...

Young girl with a big problem...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I seriously need help. And I have absolutley nobody to talk to so if u could, tell me ur advice. I turned 18 and moved a state away from my whole family to be with a 34 year old man. Now, don't get me wrong, I love him with all of my heart. And I ...

She is too tight, how can we solve this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - me and my gf have tried intercourse 5-6 times. my penis is not circumcized and I am her first sexual partner. I have had sex before, but this girl is just too tight. my penis penetrates just about an inch inside her and my foreskin is pushed back ...

Can I get pregnant if ....................

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Can i get pregnant if my boyfriend cums on my vagina but then wipes it off? It wasnt all the way inside but i kno they swim. He wiped it really good but im not sure if theres a chance i can get prego....

I can't do this anymore... I'm obsessed with his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm losing grip, and I'm losing my mind... I've written on here before, but I'm still suffering. Things got better, and now they're falling back into a place that is haunting me, and it's a place that I can't escape. I am 20 years old (almost 21),...

Fingering hurt really bad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Today I got fingered by a guy for the first time and it hurt realllllly bad. I was really wet and im comfortable with him but i kept stopping him because it hurt so bad. i want him to do it but its hurts too much. is this normal and what should i ...