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writes:pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other guys. last night. things got crazy and i ended up having sex with him. he didn't have a condom but he pulled out before he came. he went out with his ex for a year and never used a condom and never got her pregnet. my period has been very irregular . i'd miss it for months. i havent had it in a while but thats normal for me. i dont know if its regular or if im pregnet what should i do????
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou so much i've decided to talk to the guy and heres how it went. i told him i've been very irregular due to stress before even having sex for the first time. i haven't had my period in a while, but hes buying me a test and friday i'll know. thankyou for the support. i've really just been freaking myself out lately. im glad i have somewhere to turn to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): hiya talk to your mum or someone close to you im 13 aswell and i want a child soon but not now you need to enjoy you life i know it sounds wierd but even if you got a brother or cousin ask them to get you a pregnancy test for you.... and if you are pregnant tell your mum and ask her to take you to the docters.
its the only thing you can do.
good luck chick..x
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (27 December 2009):
 Talk to your parents and buy a pregnancy test. Don't listen to guys that tell you they never gotten a girl pregnant because they pull out. Pulling out isn't for sure because there is always precum. While it may only be a few drops a few drops contain over 1 million sperm. So never ever listen to that load lol. But you are young and shouldn't have to be worrying about things like this, you need to enjoy your time as a teenager! You have plenty of years to grow up and have and enjoy sex, then to have a baby when you are grown and ready. Keep that in mind, and remember use a condom everytime and if you dont want to use condoms then use birth control okay? good luck
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reader, nico1 +, writes (26 December 2009):
ignore the idiot who said you would die just talk to your mom.she will probably blow a gasket but its better her find out now than later . and that guy (sorry to say) is to old for you .i know you may dissagree but he is . and im not gonna tell you not to have sex although i should just please PLEASE be safe the worst thing you can do is get a std or get pregnate at such a early age wait ther is nothing wrong sure youve done it once but look at the fear you feel is it really worth that? if he realy is difrent then he will undersand if not leave him before you get hurt
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reader, briah_love +, writes (24 December 2009):
I'm 16 years old and I lost my virginity at 14..right after my 1st time I thought I was pregnant and still to this day when after having un protected sex I worry..I think it is just guilt that eats you up..EVERYONE I kno has had this problem..dont stress it too hard but ask him the "what if's" just in case..its probably just guilt so b ABSOLUTELY sure before you tell your mom..
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (23 December 2009):
 You need to tell your mother, NOW.
I´m concerned about possible illnesses as well... not to scare you but this behaviour is risky.
There´s a drug called nPeps... non industrial post exposure prohpylactics... if you have been exposed to an illness, perhaps there is still time to get this drug and reduce the risk of your getting sick.
Your mom needs to take you to the hospital, ASAP. Don´t wait another minute, TELL HER!!!
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reader, dollybolt  +, writes (23 December 2009):
you should buy a home pregnancy test. it is important to used protection. especially if you are sexually active at such a young age. no matter what the guy says, use protection! if after taking the test you still don;t feel confortable, got to the gynecologist. since you are underage, you need an adult with you. However, if you don't want your mom/father to know, ask a friend who is old enough to accompany you.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (23 December 2009):
 you can buy a home pregnancy kit there not expensive, your guy should buy it that will teach him a lesson. thats all you can do for now if you are pregnant you need to tell your parents dont worry it wont be so bad they might be pissed but they will get over it in about 15 years., and look at t this way if you are prego and you keep the baby you will be in the same generation as your kid so that will make you the coolest mom ever
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reader, AinScottsdale +, writes (23 December 2009):
DO NOT HAVE SEX, YOU ARE 13 YOU WILL REGRET IT LATER I PROMISE!!!, START BUILDING SELF RESPECT NOW BY DOING WHAT YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART IS RIGHT AND NOT HAVING SEX!!!!! with that having been said, everyone makes mistakes you must forgive yourself for this or it will eat you up inside, forgive yourself and be strong, don't do it again. get a pregnancy test immediately, go to the doctor, tell your mom, tell a teacher, a school counselor, anyone you can trust, talk to one of Jehovah's Witnesses.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (23 December 2009):
You need to tell your mother, and have her take you to the doctor right away, there is still time for you to take plan B.It sounds like he took advantage of you, there is a strong possibility you could be pregnant, you need to tell your mother right away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Omg u need to tell your mum
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