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writes:Me and my fiance are both virgins, we are saving our selves tell we got married, but we do have kisses and cuddling....etcThe problem is some of the times when we are kissing i suddenly orgasm !!!!! It been concerning me, should i seek for medical consultation or is it normal ?!! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): I've heard it said that your good guy suddenly does all dreamy and sort of looses interest in you, he may have shot his bolt. This is for the ladies to try to understand.Never such luck for me.
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reader, daletom  +, writes (24 December 2009):
Not unusual. It's only a real problem if you have to somehow keep your partner from finding out what's happening.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 He Boy,
Some point I have to say you.
1. You are the only person in this site, who is right in love making.
2. Don't worry about ejaculation during your lovemaking.But, do not go for masturbation for ejaculation.
3, 'Virginity', keep it, this I am not saying in religious tone, but in philosophic tone. By philosophy I mean a science of Wisdom. If it break during your love making by accident, then don't bother, it is not that much precarious in religious tone.
You can control your ejaculation by little care, which is not difficult. BUT YOU ARE IN HEAVEN is my conclusion.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 Lucky you ..lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): This is totally normal! Its just a natural reaction caused by several hormones within the body and happens in humans and animals alike that causes them to want to mate or have sex. This should stop once you are married and start having sex. There is no need to worry or see a doctor because it is a normal thing.
Also, I really appreciate your decision in no sex before marrige :)
Hope i've put your mind at rest! x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): It depends on whether you masturbate or not. If you don't masturbate then unless it's strictly against your beliefs then you might want to start. I found when I stopped masturbating for a month that I was very prone to ejaculating with very little stimulation.
If you do masturbate then it's simply a case of premature ejaculation. It is quite normal, but you might wanna do a bit of online research on techniques to help prevent it.
This kind of thing is rarely a symptom of anything medically wrong, but it never hurts to see a doctor about physical things that worry you.
Seeing as you're not actually having sex yet, it's not really a serious issue as it is only really just messy, and doesn't have the issue of not being able perform attached to it.
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