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writes:i have been with my fiance now for 2 ans half years we have a 9 month old baby together. the whole time through our relationship was amazing i knew he had a temper because i had seen it towards others whenwe had been out, he always get very agressive when he drinks, otherwise he is fine he can get angry very quickly after alcohol and we have arguments and he would break something in the house BUT yesterday after having my family round for boxing day he got angry and slapped me, so i did it back which i shoudnt of,so i grabbed some blankets to sleep on the sofa and he follows me downstairs to hit me again even harder! no i am stuck i have no idea what to do as i have a 9 month old baby with himwe suppose to be getting married in 2011, and i am afraid to be alone, he said that he was really sorry and that he not going to not going to drink again because it makes him agressive. im stuck and scarred please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): Hitting you once is bad enough. You tried to put some space between the two of you but he followed you down and hit you again. This really isn't good. I agree with cg you need some time to think, and if you do stay, if he ever does it again then it's time to call it quits
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 December 2009):
He hit you twice. I would suggest moving out for some time to think about whether you want to be with him for a start. Maybe stay with friends or family for a while while you think. If you do want to stay with him, he has to stop drinking permanently. And if he ever hits you again, get away from him. You and your child count, not his temper. And put the marriage off as well. You effectively have to either start again by yourself, or start again with him.
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