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*epito92
writes:Look I don't know why but I always find myself depressed. I lost all my friends. My family is a broken one in which I have no one to relate to. My school work is terrible at this rate i don't see myself succeeding much in life. I'm also gay it's all there I come home stressed because I do so bad ( I'm narcoleptic ) I then get up and want talk to someone but I hate talkin to my family the only person I like talkin to in the house is never home due to the reasons I would never wanna be home. I wonder how life would be like with a soulmate but I'm gay. It's rough being gag in a Latin environment that has too much pride. I can't tell anyone because I'm too scared. I want kids in the future but can't have them with another man. I lost all my friends and seem to be really bad at makin new ones. I don't know, I always wonder why it would be like if I was never who I am. What do I do. What safe haven is there for a guy like me
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reader, karldlewis  +, writes (29 December 2009):
I wouldnt say you where definately not gay- only you really know whether you are sure about that or not. Know maybe you aren't doing well at school but from the sound of it you are actually very smart- the amount you understand yourself and realise what is happening shows smartness- remember Albert Einstine failed at school. What you need is strength- the best chance you have of makeing new friends is joining clubs e.t.c. this will also boost your self confidence. Good luck!
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (26 December 2009):
Don't dwell on negatives but don't avoid them either. Always remember your positive things that u have. But try to fix your negetive things in your life!! Don't dwell just fix that's my advice don't know if it will help u but there you have it:):)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): your not gay trust me your confused think about it your life has put you in a situation that makes younfeel less and down.have faith
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reader, paulofessex +, writes (25 December 2009):
 Agee agree with both previous posters. Work hard on improving your school work so you will hopefully be in a better position to move away and on to better things when the time is right in the future
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reader, HelloItsRobert +, writes (25 December 2009):
 I agree with StarFairy.
I'm sure if you look into it, you have a few things going for you you may take for granted.
You have a roof over your head, it may belong to a broken home, but you do have somewhere to stay.
If you ever need someone to talk to, there are always internet forums out there for the specific purpose of just talking to people about problems, such as this one.
Just remember, you DO have positives in your life, you just need to look a little deeper.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (25 December 2009):
 Why don't you concentrate on the positives in your life instead of dwelling on the negatives?
You'll never get out of this rut if all you do is sulk and moan I'm afraid...
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