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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and for most of the time we had a good sex lifeas well as intimacy. Ever since I was recoveringfrom Breast Cancer our love making as wellas any form of intimacy has become non existent.I have talked to him about this, but to no avail. He onlygets upset at me and will not seek any helpfor his current E.D. I do love him, but it hurtsme every time I initiate sex when he pushes meaway. I am both hurt and frustrated by this so any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (25 December 2009):
 Your boy friend lack good moral. You should note this first thing, and now search for further proof, if it support, then you should not feel weakness. As you have fight your toughest time with cancer and bring back life, so it is with relation also. Relation should not be much costly, if it take every comfort, then put it on trial.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): i'm sorry to hear you're going through this. your best bet would be to find a good time and talk to your husband about this. show him that you love him and want to have sex with him...communication is the key! don't necessarily aim to initiate sex but at least talk to him about this when you're both relaxed or doing something together.It hurts when he pushes you away but don't give up and let frustrations make you angry.
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