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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...

Even when my girlfriend kisses me I picture this other girl. I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I'm a girl and I have a girlfriend. We're going out 10 months in a couple of days, we're close as ever and see other every single day. We were at a party on friday and decided it was ok to kiss other people. So i was kissing a girl i know for ...

Ok I'm sooooo not gay or bi so what's the deal with these feelings I have about my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Just to Let You know that i'm not gay or Bisexual! Okay..I had a crush on this English Teacher. She is young and really pretty and in her 20s (But i'm not gay..i'm straight). this all started since the school trip last june. Yeah..i lik...

Should I explore this side to discover what I truly like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - hey..i have a major problem.. i think i am bi..i love watching lesbian porn..i had boyfriends and i also have crushes on guys but deep indise i want to make out with a girl..do u think its k for me to see a girl..i am askin this because i am in the ...

Lesbian in Love triangle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hey I could really do with some advice or any thoughts on the following: (sorry in advance about the length!) Ok I'm 21 and a lesbian I have been in a relationship with my gf since the end of september and for the first few months everythin...

Secretly bi because my boyfriend is a little homphobic-Do I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now - and its fantastic. Generally. We barely argue ever, but everypne has their ups and downs. ANYWAY. I'm bi. My first 'relationships' (continuous hookups for several months?) were with my two...

There's growing sexual tension between us - but he is guy! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm really confused about what's going on between my gay friend and I. I'm a woman, and he's a man and we've always been really close. I've also always thought he was quite attractive but have never made a move simply because he was gay and I ...

I need tips on fixing my 'gaydar'!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I am a lesbian and I have a real difficulty when I meet new girls as I guess my gaydar may not be too great. I often have problems guaging with when a girl is just being friendly or is actually interested. Alot of girls have a habit also of flirting ...

How can I meet and approach other bisexual girls???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi all, I am a bisexual girl and would like to meet a girl. I hung out in alot of the lesbian bars for a long time but I am not attracted to those girls there are they are mainly butch looking, not to mention that it is always the same old cro...

Am I over-analyzing, or headed for heartbreak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a 26 year young attractive male. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago. I really like him a lot, and think I may even have loving feelings for him. I think that he feels the same way too, we have open communication, and we talk about ...

How do I "come out of the closet" and have a chance with this guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - hi, my name is dan, i'm 16, i'm gay, i haven't come out of the closet yet and i keep my feelings bottled up inside and it hurts. i have two questions, first one i'm in love with this guy who lives about 70 miles away and i've bin in love wid hi...

Is my fiance gay??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I recently got engaged to a guy I've been dating for 2 years. When we first started dating, a friend of mine mentioned she thought he was gay. I dismissed her, however started paying close attention to his movements (upward little finger, ...

I am so confused by my attraction to girls, I like guys too...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I have not ever been gay but I have fantasies about having sex with 3 girls at one time. I have had 1 crush on a girl at school in the ninth grade I really liked her she was real pretty and still is. But we didnt work out very well so i am so sad ...

I'm a girl and have this huge crush on another girl...how can I tell if she likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I have this huge crush on a girl, but I'm also a girl. By her signs, I think she might of liked me too. I think about her like all the time. This might be kinda stupid but is their any way to find out if shes thinking about me too? I mean, i ...

Picking up on the wrong vibes or do I actually like her? How do I know if I am gay/bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - how do i know if i am gay/bi? im engaged to be married next year but there is this girl at college i cannot stop thinking about. she'd be more of a supervisor or something i dunno. but i find her really intimidating when she comes near me or ...

I keep having gay thoughts about a close friend. I'm confused! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

25 March 2008 (M) - Here's the story ... I'm 18 yrs old, I'm not sure if I'm bi-sex u Str8, definetaly not gay. Lately I've been having gay taughts about a friend of mine. I don't like any other guys, I just like him. I continously think about him all day long and...

I don't want to leave my boyfriend but I am finding myself attracted to a girl! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

25 March 2008 (?) - This is a hard question to ask . Please don't judge me by this ok . I have the most amazing boyfriend anyone can ever ask for! He's the very best ! I would never ever want us to seperate I love him soooo much! He loves me too. But recently I have ...

How can you tell if a person is gay ? How do you know it's just not a crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

25 March 2008 (M) - So I'm about close to 17, but I feel so young, like on 14 or so. 17 seems like you're supposed to act all mature, but I'm still in high school! Anyways, I think I'm gay either b/c I've been looking at porn and then mostly gay porn for a long time ...

I'm female and I love my bisexual best friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 15 years and bisexual. Around this time last year I told my close friend this and she told me she was too. For neither of us this isn't just a fase. She is the only one who knows about my sexuality. Anyway, over the summer we got r...

Do you think he could be gay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

24 March 2008 (?) - I have been seeing a great guy for a year now and absoloutely love him to death, however, sex has never gotten off the ground, we have obviously tried it a lot but either it is over and one with before its begun or it just doesnt happen. We get on ...

My best friend needs some advice but I don't know what do to! How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - Hey i need help, i have a best friend and shes amazing and i really like her( and by the way im bi and she knows) but she doesn't know that i like her but thats not really my problem. Her boy friend broke up with her like 2 weeks ago and she was ...

I'm gay, I don't know how to handle my situation, help please!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 March 2008 (M) - im 15, i think im gay ive had sex with 3 males before never a female. I dont want to come out, because people would pick on me. but the guys ive had sex with are my friends i know. they is this boy i like at my school who is f###ing hot and he ...

How do I know if she's a lesbian? I like her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - Okay so I have this friend. We have been friends for about two years now and we're really good friends. For a really long time I have had the worker biggest crush on her. I am a girl! I find myself thinking about her a lot and I touch her when we're ...

Why is my best friend being nasty about a girl I'm interested in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - hi, so i'm 16 and bi-sexual and have known for about 3 years. i have had both sex relatioships, and really enjoy both. i meet this girl who works in the office across the road from me, and she really flirts, a couple of my mates have turned arou...

I can't stop thinking about this girl at college, I'm engaged and wondering if I'm gay or bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - how do i know if i am gay/bi? im engaged to be married next year but there is this girl at college i cannot stop thinking about. she'd be more of a supervisor or something i dunno. but i find her really intimidating when she comes near me or ...

I'm in love with my (probably straight) best friend, should I tell her? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

20 March 2008 (F) - Ok... the question is should I say anything or not?? I shall tell you about it: I've fallen really badly for my best friend, who I think is straight (although I very occasionally have my doubts), and I mean REALLY badly, I can't stop thinking...

Lesbian Love triangle!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

20 March 2008 (F) - Hey I could really do with some advice or any thoughts on the following: (sorry in advance about the length!) Ok I'm 21 and a lesbian I have been in a relationship with my gf since the end of september and for the first few months everythin...

I have a lesbian crush on a co-worker!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

20 March 2008 (F) - Hi all! Im a woman, bisexual and have had a crush on a coworker for a few months now. SHe is not lesbian. The other day I told her I wanted her to know that I loved her and cared for her as a friend. After a couple of hours she invited me to ha...

How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

20 March 2008 (F) - ok, I have another lil' prob. How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual? (I have a boyfriend and like him a lot) Like when I watch porn, I watch lesbian porn only! There have been a few occasions where I have looked at a girl and said "I'd like t...

Sexuality dilemma...I'm falling for my best friend who denies being gay...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - Hey, i have never really used one of these things but it doesn't seem like a bad idea. i am a gay lad and i'm quite open about it but my problem is that i think i'm falling for my best friend, but his sexuality is some what questionable. he denies ...

Love-struck

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm losing my mind, help me please. I am a 24 year old man who always didn't find a way to connect with people on a close and intimate level due to the fact that my way of thinking is completely unacceptable in my community. I hav...

Should I have a threesome with my gay best friend, and his new bi boyfriend? I'm bisexual

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

18 March 2008 (F) - My best friend is a gay man. We're really close to eachother and I feel as if I can to him about anything. I don't tend to get on with other girls that well as I find that girls tend to get quite bitchy towards me and so my relationship with my ...

I don't know how I can move on my heart is totally broken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

18 March 2008 (F) - I have recently just split from my lesbian relationship. We had been together for 1 year but had known each other for 3 years, there had always been an attraction between us but I was in a straight relationship and she was involved with someone. ...

Do his fantasies hint that he is gay? Or, bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

17 March 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy that I'm really into for almost 2 months now. Things are going great, we have a lot of fun together and we can literally talk the day away with each other. We have hooked up a few times, but have been taking things a ...

Should I tell her how I feel and risk our friendship or just leave it as it is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

17 March 2008 (F) - Ok this is like really long. Sorry So theres this girl. Annie, And we've been friends for about 8 months I met her threw my ex boyfriends friend. we both go to the same school. and im really starting to like her we have made out about 10 time...

I'm in a "secret" relationship with a female friend, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

15 March 2008 (F) - Confused about my sexuality (possibly) question. I've been in one relationship with a female best friend of mine, in total secret, for 1/2 a year. this 'secret' relationship halted when she ended things with me saying that 'it wasn't for her anymore ...

I have strong feelings for my college lecturer, does this mean I'm bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

13 March 2008 (F) - For about 3 months now i have had these feelings for one of my lecturers at college but the thing is she is the same sex as me. Dont get me wrong, i still like boys but am worried that I might be bisexual? I know that nothing can happen between us ...

Since my BF told me he was bi, we did not have sex as much as before. What is happening?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

13 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he was bi, which is okay with me. We have had fun exploring with it. But lately he doesn't always want to have sex with me or go down on me as much anymore. He does other things to please me. He says because he is angry. He ...

Manipulative behaviour

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

13 March 2008 (F) - Help! I really need some advice and very quickly. I have a situation which I just don't know how to deal with. I am a woman who has a really close relationship with a gay man, - we are best friends, and he and his partner and I are really close. ...

Should I go for this girl even if my friends call me a freak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

12 March 2008 (F) - ok im bi but if i say it the girl i like will she will think im copying her and i really like her but she is going out with a diffrent girl but if i tell my other friends they call my a freak and never talk to me again please help...

What should I do about my love for a woman, I have a baby and a live-in boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

12 March 2008 (F) - Where to start... I am a bisexual woman. I'm 23 this year and have been in a live-in, but unmarried, committed relationship with a man for four years. We have a child together now, a wonderful toddler daughter. She is my life, and really, everythi...

How can I meet other girls and how should I approach them??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6098 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - I am a bisexual girl and would like to meet a girl. I hung out in alot of the lesbian bars for a long time but I am not attracted to those girls there are they are mainly butch looking, not to mention that it is always the same old crowd that go to ...

Is my boyfriend gay? Do I test him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

11 March 2008 (F) - Ok im goin out with a guy who is really sweet and is always hyper.................well a few days ago my friend told me that when they asked him to go out with me he told them he was gay!!!! and so now idk wut to do.......should i test him? cuz i ...

I love my friend but her husband is dying so it would be the most inadequate moment to confess my lesbian feelings now. How can I control myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

10 March 2008 (F) - I'm not really sure if this is a question, i just need some advice on what i should do. I'd appreciate your input. I'm a lesbian it's something I've never hidden about my self, i'm feminine and a flirt and some times it gets misconstrued. I'...

I'm in a gay/lesbian relationship and want to start my own family.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

9 March 2008 (F) - Do you think that if your in a gay/lesbian relationship and want to start you own family, is this good? I see a lot of criticism on that. What is your opinion? ...

I have sexual fantasies with a girl friend, am I bi and should I act upon my feelings, given that I am committed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

9 March 2008 (F) - I Think I'm Bi, Theres This Girl, And We Are Quite Close Friends [Not Best Friends] But We Have Laughs And Spend Alot Of Time Together. Well I Think I Really Like Her, I've Had This Feeling For Nearly A Year Now, I Find My Self Having Sexua...

Is it gay to join your female friends on a girls' night out and feel excellent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

9 March 2008 (M) - Hi my name is paul and i went out with some woman that i know and it first it was just going to be just them to a girls night out.. One of my best friends asked me to come with them and i said i would and i had a good time. It was me and 5 of them. ...

His libido decreased, whereas I have a tenacious sexual appetite and feel frustrated! What can be done??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

9 March 2008 (M) - I am a gay male and have been in a committed relationship with a man for 3.5 years, living together for two of those years. We love each other intensely, but it seems that he hardly wants to be touched by me anymore. We have sex about once a month, ...

I like my best friend too (I'm bisexual), although I have a BF, what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

9 March 2008 (F) - so first off i am bisexual but i would never sleep with any girl but i do like them.My best friend is also bisexual and i just found out she likes me but i have a boyfriend and i like him to but i also like her..so what do i do??.....

How do I tell him I fancy some mutual masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

8 March 2008 (M) - well i am not gay but i just really get the urge to masterbate with another guy but i just dont know how to tell him. sometimes i even want to have mutual masterbation with him. how do i tell him...