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writes: Ok this is like really long. SorrySo theres this girl. Annie, And we've been friends for about 8 monthsI met her threw my ex boyfriends friend. we both go to the same school.and im really starting to like herwe have made out about 10 times ethier dare, spin the bottle or i was drunk ( she don't drink)but everytime were in town shopping.She's always asking me if i'm bi.Which i amI always told her no.But she keeps on going onThe other day i introduced her too my on off girlfriend.And then after she had to talk to hershe went all moody on measking me why i didn't tell her i was bi beforeand i was really wondering why she made a big deal out of it.anyways me and my girlfriend broke up about 4 days later (like normal) I really want too tell annie how i feel.but she always says shes straightALOT!but should i tell her how i feel and risk our friendshipor just leave it as it is.thanks
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reader, Nibblet +, writes (17 March 2008):
Im almost in the same position. I really like my best friend but she doesn't know that. but i finally told her i was bi but haven't told her that i like yet...
but anyways are you sure shes straight? i mean she could like you and maybe thats why she got all moody cuz you had a girlfriend. you could tell her now that you like her and have for a while, but if you feel its too soon then don't
i would tell her at the right moment or she might be wrieded out. its your chose
but GooD Luck!!!
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reader, joby30 +, writes (17 March 2008):
I'm gay and have been since i was 13.I started secondary school and didn't really know anyone, i started talking to this girl who had been put in my class an soon we became friends.I already new i was gay and was begin to like her more than a friend but as you are i was scared to say anything.One day i was in a bit of a bad mood and she kept asking me what was wrong,i shouted at her an said i liked her more than a friend and ran off.She rang me and said she felt the same and why didn't i say anything earlier, so i said i didn't want to lose her as a friend.We were together for over a year until we went r separate ways.You really need to talk to her and tell her other wise you will never know and if she decides she doesn't feel the same at least you will know an won't have to think about it anymore.Good luckjoby30's girlfriend xx
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (17 March 2008):
Obviously, she's not interested in having a 'tight' relationship with you, so keep it on a friendly level and leave it at that. Things could change as you grow older and more mature--the both of you, that is. Best wishes, Gena
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): No gender rules apply to you if your Bi. So do whatever you please.
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