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Picking up on the wrong vibes or do I actually like her? How do I know if I am gay/bi?

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Question - (26 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2008)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

how do i know if i am gay/bi? im engaged to be married next year but there is this girl at college i cannot stop thinking about. she'd be more of a supervisor or something i dunno. but i find her really intimidating when she comes near me or anything i just feel really uneasy.

she's not the prettiest of girls or anything but i dunno if im picking up on the completely wrong vibes and jumping to conclusions. she'd always go out of her way to say hi to me and im a quite shy girl and i think she knows it either embarrasses me or she knows of what i'm thinking. please help..

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A female reader, kassie United States +, writes (26 March 2008):

kassie agony aunthi! you should just keep your composure maybe get her phone number and be her friend first then later on maybe you will find out if she has feelings for you! i hope the best for you!!!!!!!GOOD LUCK!

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A female reader, obsessive_couple Canada +, writes (26 March 2008):

obsessive_couple agony auntOnly you can say whether or not you have an attraction to the same sex. No one else can say to you: YOU ARE *FILL IN BLANK HERE*

Only you know your way of thinking.

When I was a lot younger, I had problems understanding the difference in all of...this stuff.

I know this website is a little young for you, but when I was coming out, it helped me a lot. It helped me to understand what the difference in terms were, and how one knows if they have a different sexual orientation other than heterosexual.

www.outproud.org

As I said, it's for younger peoples, but I've never come across a website which was as good as this one.

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