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reader, youngandconfused90  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 IF you have to ask yourself if your boyfriend is gay and you don't automatically think that the thought of him being gay is ridiculous than chances are HES GAY
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): It is better to ask in person then to play games and test people. This will only create resentment and mistrust.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 You are very young and are quite not getting it here.
I doubt hes gay, he was saying he was as either an excuse to get your friends to leave or as a joke.
Also this "test" shows that you shouldnt really be going out with him as it just shows your not getting the whole relationsip thing as you dont trust your boyfriend enough to think hes straight.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Hello little girlyi'm a 55 year old over weight beared chunky monkey. Gimmie a kiss NOW!!!!and if you don't then that means you're a raving lesbian!! HAR HAR HAR.seriously. i know you're a ditzy teenager still waiting to hit pubirty and am honestly surprised you even have a bf with how you're acting.Stop being a little brat and try and consider other people's feelings.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Hell he's not gay he just said that to avoid getting set up by your friends. And why were your friends finding guys for you anyway. You all are acting like, well like, kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): Wow....that's real love there.
Instead of testing him why don't you just ask him?
You're very young, and you sound very...naive? You obviously haven't been with this guy for long because there's no connection that I'm reading about at all. What? Did you just see the guy and go "He's cute. I want to go out with him!"?
Why not actually trying to get to know HIM instead of gossiping about him with your friends?
Geesh. You're weird.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Don't overcomplicate things by testing him. Simply ask him, and respect his feelings if he does say he is gay.
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