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writes:Okay so I have this friend. We have been friends for about two years now and we're really good friends. For a really long time I have had the worker biggest crush on her. I am a girl! I find myself thinking about her a lot and I touch her when we're just playing around. some of my friends say that she is a lesbian but i an not sure and i dont want to ask her because i am afraid that if she's not I will lose her friendship,but im really dying to know. what should i do? Is there any way I could find out without actually coming out and asking her? I have had crushes on girls before but I have never thought of telling them or wanting to know he they liked of back. I have also had quite a few boyfriends in the past. please help!!thanks :]
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 hey hun, well you guys are already very close, so im guessing you talk about private things alot etc. why not say to her that ppl have said to you that she may be a lesbian and you just wanted to know the truth - and assure her that it doesnt bother you, but that its not fair for other ppl to be saying things about her without knowing and stuff - this way she mite just tell you whether the rumours are true or not! that other truth or dare idea is good, but you would have to do it wen its just the 2 of you and that could look a bit weird as if she is not gay, then she would think that you are cos you asked her that question you know? its hard at your age because you go through that 'bisexual/lesbian' stage and for her it could be passing you know? i think that you should just ask her - if you guys are as close as you say you are then i dont see the harm in just asking her! if you do want more help hun just email me - just be careful too cos you dont wanna cross the line with her yet you know? email me xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): Why don't u hav like a truth or dare game at a sleepover and somehow ask if she's ever had a crush on another girl before?
I think if it turns out that she isn't a lesbian or bi then it may be best not to tell her cos if it is only a crush u don't want to ruin your friendship over it.
If u want to talk about it some more feel free to private message me!
Good luck =]
xx Hope xx
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