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writes:Dear Cupid,I am 15 years and bisexual. Around this time last year I told my close friend this and she told me she was too. For neither of us this isn't just a fase. She is the only one who knows about my sexuality. Anyway, over the summer we got really close and I began to fancy her and she did too becasue she told me. But stupidly I was afraid of what people would think if I admitted my feelings and told her I didnt like her. We continued being great friends. However over the last year my feelings for her have turned from a crush I could ignore to love, which I can't. She told me she didn't like me anymore in Septmeber last year and that she likes a teacher (She knows nothing will ever happen). Although I feel recently there is a spark between us. I think she still likes me a bit. I really don't know what to do. Should I tell her? I'm so confused.
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reader, Emo Attack  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Okay I have a bit of the same problem but its my really close friend Michael anyways he said "that we're more like bro and sis and that it is to early because my girlfriend just cheated on me and well and well your boyfriend is being a jerk so there for we cannot date." I said fine thats cool but my friend siad I should do something about it cause regected me. But he regected me in a very honest way because he didn't say no in a bad way. Maybe your friend is confused you should talk to her and tell her how you fell.
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reader, laces +, writes (25 March 2008):
laces is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for the kind and useful advice. I know it isn't just puberty and I know I definateyl am bisexual. I think I will tell her about my feelings in the near future.
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reader, Nibblet  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 I think you should tell her. I mean if your that close you wont loose her. and she told you once that she liked you and as you said she still might have feeling for you. so just give it a shot and tell her.
Good Luck!!! if you even want to talk im here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): There's a chance that she might be prentending to not like you anymore because you said to her that you don't like her.
If she told you how she felt about you then you should have no problem telling her. And it would probably be good if you did tell her cos it would be worse to keep it to yuorself.. And you never know it may go somewhere!
Keep me posted!
xx Hope xx
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