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writes:im 15, i think im gay ive had sex with 3 males before never a female. I dont want to come out, because people would pick on me. but the guys ive had sex with are my friends i know. they is this boy i like at my school who is f###ing hot and he smokes and drinks he is 15 and i smoke and drink. but i just want to ask him out but i dont know if he is gay our likes me i dont even talk to him. so what should i do please help?
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Well. i know you're gonna get this alot. but tough basicly.
You're young. you're gonna meet more men.
The problem with being Young and gay.. and in America is that everyone is gonna be scared. the school will not want to promote its " gayness" and as you pointed out, kids can and will be cruel. coming out inschool.. yeah not a great idea.
I'm not saying Hide who you truely are. but there is such a thing as being tactful.. and right place and time.
once you leave high school the wrold changes. and so does you're outlook on it.
as for the guy.. well if he ain't gay then.. well thats not gonna make life very easy.
just keep it in your pants for now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): Heya,
First of all, if u r gay and u know it, don't hide it or try and be someone that you're not.. imagine how life wud b if u had to pretend u were straight forever! I know it's difficult trying not to care what people think but it's really something that we should all do, u can't let other people stop you from being who u want to be.
And secondly, try talking to this guy u like some more, get to know him better. It may turn out u don't like his personality anway! But as u get to know him better just slip into conversation about being gay (not necessarily u being gay- just in general) and what does he think about it. That way u'll see how he feels a bit more, but if he isn't gay then u need to try and get over him and look elsewhere.. And if he is gay- Good Luck!!
U can private message me if u want to talk some more- always happy to help =)
xx Hope xx
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