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writes:Ok... the question is should I say anything or not??I shall tell you about it: I've fallen really badly for my best friend, who I think is straight (although I very occasionally have my doubts), and I mean REALLY badly, I can't stop thinking about her at all, I can't imagine myself with anyone else, I don't even look at anyone else! And I trust her completely and I tell her everything. So should I tell her how I feel about her (when perhaps she may feel the same (with a very slim chance))? Or risk seriously disturbing a great friend? Please as many people answer as possible, loads of opinions would be great!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): i think you should find out wether she is straight or not.ive the same problem wif my best friend,only she says shes bi one minute,and not the nxt.this has been happening for over a yr now and still nothing has come of it.except where closet than ever. i would just find out how she feels about you,i say nothing better than the truth. but if she says no jst dnt push it tell her its a silly crush n try get over her thats all you can really do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): Thanks for your answers! =)
Now i will have to try and work out a way of asking her lol. xxx
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reader, Nibblet +, writes (21 March 2008):
 I know exactly where your coming from. I have fallen hard for my best friend and shes straight but i haven't told her i really really like her.
But any way you should ask her if shes straight. I mean get a better feel on how to ask her. if she says 'i might like girls' then it would be a little easier for you to tell her. and you might be right be she might feel the same way about you but don't give your hopes up.Or if she say shes straight, its going to be a bit harder to tell her but I think you should tell her when the time comes and shes your best friend it shouldn't change, it just means now she knows.
If you wanna talk just message me!
Good Luck!!!
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