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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Do I chase the girl I'm sleeping with's affections or give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - Do I chase the girl I'm sleeping with's affections or give up? I've been sleeping with possibly my best friend of the last 6months for a week or so and we've been hanging out and snuggling in bed etc. I asked her if she wanted to do a proper date ...

Would you consider this dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I was 16. I had never kissed a boy before, i had a boyfriends before but never had done more than held a guys hand.(i was a junior and he was a senior) There was a guy i was somewhat friends with.(he's a twin) So i decided to hang out with...

Why ask? Should I comply? My married lover wants to know about any other women I sleep with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - I have been sleeping with a married woman for over a year now. She has an open marriage (within some limits) and we get along great both inside and outside of bed. She and I were talking and I asked her if she'd be upset if I slept with other...

He's committed to me. FWB without the sex. So what do we have? And am I being too clingy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have been with a guy for 5.5 years now. We are both 21 right now. we dated the first 2 years and then we broke up because of something one of my friends at the time told me he was doing. I later found out she lied. He said sorry many many man...

Sex only 4 times in 5 years? But no affection? Gives his Aunt more affection. Should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My bf of five years has only had sex with me four times He also only shows affection to his aunt I'm staying with him but his aunt is the one to get the kiss when he comes home Is it normal he does kiss hold or touch me and I sleep in his bed I c...

Now I'm in this predicament. But does he still love this other girl? Or is he just a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (21) has told me he has had 3 past girlfriends (N, G, M) and that he's had sex with only 2 of them and he doesnt even remember who he fucked G or M. Those supposedly are the only girls he has had sex with and also the first girl he lost ...

This girl DOES want me. However, she has a catch....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - I have a good female friend that has a lot of things in common with me, and while I'm flattered that she DOES want to date me, she has a "Little" catch.... I asked her what she would want to do with me, if I got together with her. Her ONLY answe...

I'm confused about this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I'm confused on what I should do with someone I like but I don't want to take it any further than what we both agreed. We started off friends with benefits and it was so cool. I loved the whole friendship his company and all. He didn't make me ever ...

Girls who like girls. what are the main attributes that attract you to girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Girlies question time...........! Based on personal experiences, have you always had an idea you were a lesbian? I mean I have always known, I didn't go through a teenage curious stage I just took mine with the flow. I just wondered whether you'...

This man wants to date with no strings attached

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - man with bagage from last relationship just wants to hang out, no commitment, supper, movie, site seeing, sex and interrested in other women also what should i do?...

Good relationship or good sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I always wanted the relationship, but is having better sex worth leaving? I love my bf with ALL my heart and we are both stable and mature enough to get married. but my friend wants to sleep with me, and unlike my low testosterone bf, this guy can ...

Is he using me? I don't know what to make of his behavior.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - Ive been with my partner for 2yrs and a few months.I live with my two kids aged 6 and 11 years. We do not currently live together. But we have discussed the future and getting married and having kids. We discussed living together a few months bac...

What is the truth behind my FWB's behaviour? Does he want more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - We talked on the phone on and off for 2 years and abit more before we met in person. Been seeing eachother for a few months so far at times. We established we only wanted friendship before we met. It was a FWB relationship and I wanted it to remain ...

Can you go from friends with benefits back to being friends again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - Can you go from friends with benefits back to being friends again? We have known each other years, from school, but only spoke on line since. Then ended up sleeping together a couple of times recently. But then I said no more, as I am not oppose o...

It's totally out of character for him. So how can I discover what went wrong? Before it was great.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - I was in a long distance relatioship with a guy who was really good to me and my family. He would travel to see me just about every weekend. We were content together, he enjoyed my grandchildren and my adult children got along with him very wel...

I'd love to see him more often but don't know if he likes me enough to have a proper relationship but is scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - I've really liked this guy for about 18 months now. I don't see him that often, just a few times a year, when he comes to visit family next door. We've slept together twice; first time over a year ago when we were drunk, and the second time a few ...

Freind with benefits coping methods

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

15 July 2012 (F) - Hello, a month ago I met a guy via an online dating website. We got along well, went on a few dates and after 6 dates he slept over at my place. The next morning I was rather shocked as I did not want to turn this into a relationship, so...

We split up but he suggested a FWB arrangement. Should I do it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

15 July 2012 (F) - I've met this man right after I ended my marriage of 20 years. It was so nice to feel being wanted and loved again. He is 16 years older than me. Four years on I don't love him any more. He is not a caring person and just enjoy being looked ...

I know he doesn't love me so why would he want me to have his baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - The man I am seeing is "complicated" but I like him a lot and though our involvement is risky, we are trying to see how things will go. Anyway, we were making love today and during the act, he told me that if I missed a period and conveived, he ...

Why did he say "keep your looks"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - Hi this is just a quick question my fwb ended things with me after 18 months well I think he has ended it with me as I haven't spoken to him for a few weeks he started complaining that he always gets in touch with me even though I do text him but ...

Is he running scared? First It's FWB then he says 'be careful' when I go out, now it's 'I love u"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - Is he falling for me? My friend introduced me to this guy, we started talking through facebook for a while then decided to meet for a date. The date went really well, until we slept with each other at the end of the night, big mistake i though...

How do you know if you are just a hookup or a guy wants something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - How do you know if you are just a hookup or a guy wants something more? So I'm in college and from what I know about guys is if they just want a hookup, it usually after a drunk night and then the only time they want to talk to you is when you are ...

Why does my body like him, when my mind tells differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4554 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - Let's put this way. I find him attractive, but I don't think I liked the way he grooms himself. I know that he likes me, but then, I used to ignore him neither did I try to entertain that glimpse of attraction I felt. So basically we were friends, ...

My booty-call doesn't want me to see other guys, but I am not sure if that means "we" are exclusive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

11 July 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 3 months now casually (booty call) and i thought we were both happy with it. i was seeing other people and presumed he was too. he would text me like do you fancy meeting up? always with notice i made this clear ...

Do you think he's into me or is he just looking for 'friends with benefits'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

9 July 2012 (F) - I have been dating this guy for last couple months. Sometimes we have seen each other, few times a week and sometimes once a week. We have even spent few nights with each other. So 1st time when we spent night together, we started making out and ...

Should I try and contact him or leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

9 July 2012 (?) - I had a one night stand with my friend’s house mate; he is new to this country and has been known to be usually shy. But on that night he had drank a lot. He told me he couldn’t find his phone and did not know his number as he had only been in the ...

I posted an ad for no strings attached sex but now I've changed my mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - I went on craigslist for a NSA encounter...but now I want to back out of it. The guy has my email address (my real one) so I worried he may find me... is this silly? I do have a FB account obviouly under my own name. He wants to meet up this wee...

Does he want more than just friend with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4558 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - Hi. I've found myself in a kind of FWB situation with a man, originally who was just my 'online friend' for over 2 years. We did not end up meeting until early this year. We grew quite close over this time and arranged to meet. We spoke for a...

Is he just after sex or could there be potential for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

7 July 2012 (F) - this guy i dated two years ago it wasnt that formal it was just getting to know each other so we broke up it wasnt even an issue,so ever since we have been good friends then after a while we met one day and had sex we were not in a relationship.then ...

I give, he takes. My business is in debt, he refuses to get a job. Does he love me? Should I tell him to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Hi My financee works for a company I set up 3 years ago. The business is going poorly.I started with my own money, and it is in my name, as he has no money of his own. It has a overdraft of a few thousands of dollars now and no income coming in....

Was it wrong timing or does my guy friend actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4561 days ago

5 July 2012 (F) - I made out and ended up having sex with a guy friend while we were both drunk one night. Before we hooked up, we talked about our friends, families, life etc. We've been friends for over 4 years and he is part of my main social group. He says that ...

What is going on with my FWB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

5 July 2012 (F) - Hi sorry if this will be long I am totally in love with my former fwb we met 18 months ago and the first few weeks were amazing he made plans where we going to go for meals and mentioned going on holiday n things like that my daughter met him as he ...

From FWB to relationship back to FWB?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) - Friends with benefits to relationship then back to FWB? I met a single guy 6 years ago,we chatted started seeing one another once a week,he used to come to my house,i wouldnt allow anymore than once a week as i had my son living with me and thats ...

Are my friends right? Do I have no conscience? I slept with a married guy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

2 July 2012 (F) - what should I be feeling about my situation? I had sex with a married man. I am barely 18 he is 42 and works in the same place i do. I have a boyfriend. he at first wanted to talk to me all the time after the sex he kept asking how the sex was afte...

My porn addicted first partner? Or my other friend who is loving? Want to start again, but I'm scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

2 July 2012 (F) - I'm a 49 year old women and have been living with my boyfriend for 21 years. We did split for two years but have now been back together for four. In the last two years things have started to go down hill again. He's quite a selfish man and just rec...

How should FWB relationships operate? Do guys get jealous if she sleeps with other guys in a FWB?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

2 July 2012 (F) - I was just reading an Article about FWB relationships. The guy in the article stated a guy who is in a FWB relationship can still feel jealous if the girl sleep with any other guy. Even though they aren't emotionally attached to each other. W...

None of my relationships last a month. We have sex and they're gone. How do I attract a guy who wants more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

2 July 2012 (F) - I'm 17 about to be 18 at the end of july. well my problem is i cant hold a relationship for longer than a month. it sucks. and it's become worse - where i dont even have a month long relationship, i just have sex then boom thats over. its not t...