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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Should I stay friends with him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - I met a man about a year ago and became close friends. There was clearly chemistry and after a few months things progressed, we slept together and started hanging out a lot more. Things only got physical 5 or 6 times before it became obvious that I ...

Will I just be another notch on his bedpost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - [Mod note: could you please ask the question you'd like the aunts to answer? Your last comment said you need to be so desperate to be with a man like this so why are you even considering such thing with him? Thanks.] Hi dear agony aunts. Thanks f...

I feel second-best to the girl he loved for 4 years, from the age of 14! Am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - On the 1st November 2013, I began a sexual relationship with my best friend (male). I had quite deeply loved him before that, but didn't want to sabotage our great friendship. He has always been a wonderful friend, always there for me, caring, ...

Are we dating or is this just FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Before I ask this question, I'm going to ask that if you want to answer, just answer respectfully. I recently started seeing a 30 year old man. We have gone on a few dates before about a year ago and once about 6 months ago, but I sort of backed o...

Has this turned into a casual sex thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3638 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - so I am a little confused on my situation.. my ex and I are not together, yet we are in this cycle of not talking, then talking, hooking up, meeting up while we are out, then not talking again for a week or two. he is well aware that I love him and ...

Is it wrong to enjoy him when the sex is amazing, even though I find him annoying at other times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - So this guy for quite a while has been hitting on me trying to get it on etc even though he knew I found his personality completely annoying. I don't know what it is but he really irritates me. I got very drunk a few days ago and somehow ended up...

No strings attached sex with coworker - could this progress into more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I need to understand how men's mind work... There's this guy at work I go out with sometimes. We both made it clear that we don't want to be in a relationship and that "it's just sex, no strings attached". I know mys...

I drunk-dialed him, HUGE mistake. How do I get over that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I'd been kind of seeing a guy for about the last six months. Nothing serious, just a lot of chatting and the occasional hookup. The problem is, I REALLY like him and I was beginning to get frustrated with him not seeming to want to commit. Last week ...

Can we move from FWB to something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - This question is probably directed more towards the guys. I am pretty sure I already know my answer but I need a second opinion. Here it goes. I've known this guy for about 3 years now. We have been more of a friends with benefits situation since ...

I want to stay friends with 'the other woman' but she says she hates me

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

14 May 2014 (M) - I am a separated male who still is friendly with my wife, we have 2 beautiful teenage girls and we remain very close after 6 years of separation. We still share family vacations and days out as a family and even the bed 1 - 2 times a month. I live...

Does he want a reaction, sex or commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3660 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Right , I've known this guy for a few months, and I don't know what to do.we have met up and we have had sex a few times, he treats me well etc, but I don't know where I stand with him. He is been showing me potential women his mum wants to marry ...

We were friends with benefits, ended it and now this happens.. advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - Hi, So i had a friend with benefits, for two years. Before that we were friends and through the friend with benefits, we were really good friends, even on a holiday together and so on. Last summer, both of us had a relationship, but we sti...

Should I go for it, the fourth time around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

8 May 2014 (F) - Should I go for it, the 4th time around? I went yesterday for girls night out and met someone I dated and we broke it off 3 times already. I didn't see him for about a year. It started with one night stand, and then we continued going out and ...

From friends to something more? or no? advice pleaseeee xx

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3664 days ago

6 May 2014 (F) - Hi guys, I have a guy friend, and he is a great friend. 4 years ago I liked him and we were together just 2 days, which is nothing. After a while we became really good friends. I was friend with benefits with his friend. All of this was fine. Al...

Is this how a booty call works or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

2 May 2014 (F) - So Aunts and Uncles.. I had sex with a guy laat night. He's my sisters friend and I like to consider it a "booty call" and thought we were on the same page. Well we stopped by Walmart afterward and he kept holding my hand and kissing me in public. ...