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Archived questions from: December, 2016 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Am I over-reacting to the news that my Gf of 8 months failed to tell me (until very recently) that her friend was also her ex ?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

31 December 2016 (M) - My gf of 8 months and i have been hitting it off great, discussing issues that come up. She recently informed me that she had dated one of her friends-- who we've both hung out with at parties on a lot of special events, ie birthdays etc. I was ...

I hate being alone and will do almost anything so that I am not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - A few weeks ago I posted a question about being reallyyyyyyy sad all the time I am an honours student in university, I have a great life at home, I am well off financially, and I have everything I need (not to toot my own horn but I have a ver...

A friend has a crush on a guy. I would like to see them become a couple. Or should I help her to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Hi, My problem is that my best friend is obsessed with her crush and I am obsessed with getting them together. All we both do is talk about this GUY. My friend's obsession is quite understandable because she had a breakup and was very dep...

I've given her support over the years. But now she seems to have dropped me. Should I just accept her rejection and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - My friend is mad at me after constantly asking me for advice and not liking my advice. Okay I have this friend from college - we met in class 3 years ago and kept an in-class friendship, we messaged almost every day on Facebook but we live 3 ho...

He is moving too fast, talking children, houses and marriage. He already has three kids.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - I need some advice I met this guy years ago down the pub via mutual friends he admitted he liked me never felt that same way. He then stopped speaking to me due to new gd etc and now has 3 kids with her who is now an ex September those yr he sees ...

What hope is there for a boyfriendless virgin? I think about sex, a lot. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - Hi so I'm 17 and I'll be 18 this following year. Whilst I've had "situations" or issues with guys I've never had a boyfriend and never had sex. There was a time where I was close to sleeping with a guy I did not even want to be my boyfriend, bu...

He is clearly lying, but why does he keep doing this? I don't know why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - I'm so confused!! I was friends with my ex for 3 years and seeing him the last year. The break up was bad as I accused him of seeing someone. He repeatedly denied it but he had lied to me a couple of times previously (just white lies he said...

Is AB more important to my Bf than he implies? I believe he loves me. But I only sharing him with AB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and some change. When I left for college he became really close with a female friend( I'll call her AB). I do know her but I don't know her that well because we were never friends we just all kno...

Is there any way I can repair my friendship with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - Well,I just have a colleague which is a girl and she likes me. I used to talk to her after getting out from work on the way home.After some weeks I had some thoughts flying through my mind (not about her).I started to stop talking to her. Now we us...

Should I marry a man I don't love? Is it time to settle?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - Should I marry a man I don't love? I have a friend who really likes me I told him that I really like his company, I think he's a nice person but there is no spark. He told me that despite the fact I don't love him he would wait for me and marry...

I told him that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. Am I just a friend to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2878 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - I told one of my guy friend that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. From that day we started texting a lot. It's been 9 months.. I don't know where exactly we stand.. We talk and meet up sometimes but we haven't talk on this top...

My ex fiance treats me like a best friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2884 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - My ex fiancé broke up with me 4 months ago. We were together for almost four years. At first she needed space and was confused because she couldn't get over issues in our past. She wanted time and for me to back off and give her space. We have ...

Should I continue this? Let him visit and spend more time together? Or is it sounding too unhealthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2878 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - This is a hard question for me to put out there because it involves a relationship I am in with someone I really like and care about. However, I have made so many unhealthy choices in my past and I don't want to do that anymore. I think some...

It's now 2/3 days, is he uninterested? Should I just leave it, or pursue him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2878 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - Hi, I work with a guy I really fancy but was unsure if he was interested in me so I backed off. Co-workers have been trying to set us up for the past 6 months but I know he's incredibly shy. He's always asking where I'm going out at at the week...

My partner is very into camping and shoes no interest in getting to know my best friend at all! Advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

25 December 2016 (F) - Hi. My partner and I have been together for just over two years (2 and a half years in March 2017).. My partner and I are both only children. I'm 23, partner is 22. My partner is fully into camping, 4wding. He goes with just me, or we go w...

Go out on New Year's Eve alone? Is it safe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

25 December 2016 (M) - The last 5 years I've been single and primarily friendless so I've stayed in watching tv trying to convince myself I wasn't bored. This year I'm still single, but my friends are coupled or will be out of town and I just can't stand the thought of ...

I'm dating but I'm also developing stronger feeling for another guy. Not sure what to do. Help, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - I started university in September and have formed a good group of friends. I have started to date one of the guys in the group privately and I know he has fairly strong feelings for me. However, I have been talking a lot with one of the other guy...

Do girls start to like guys if they spend this much time together? Or will I remain as just a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

23 December 2016 (M) - Hi everyone. I have question about this girl I like. Main question is does she like me? Background info about the situation. I have moved to a new country 6 months ago. I met this girl 4 months ago at a meetup. Meetup is where you go meet rand...

He's in a band and seems shy. Might he like me, or does he just see me as just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - hello i really like this boy he is in a band we met once when he invited me to watch them perform. he seemed nervous but when we talked he was calm an d when we took pictures he was so close...later in the evening he apologised for being silent c...

How to determine if a woman likes me? How do I let a woman know I like her? How to slow down my orgasm when with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

23 December 2016 (M) - Moderator note: more than one question combined into this one post. .. . . . . . . . . . . .. . I am a man wanting to know how to go about letting a woman know I like her? I am very shy and have a hard time telling a woman I like them. Once I...

I'm not going to stop seeing my LDR Bf because a friend doesn't like him. But how do I best handle the situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - I haven't been dating my boyfriend for very long. He treats me well, loves me and cares about me. We are long distance, so most of my friends have not met him. The thing is my best friend got offended by what he posted online because he has d...

Why does he ask? Why does he keep showing an interest in my dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - My friend's husband always asks me about my dating every time I see him and seems quite enthusiastic when he asks. Just before they got married a mutual friend said in front of my friend how her husband wanted to date me before they got together...

Should I worry that his first love is making contact?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Hi my husbands first love is trying to get in contact with him. He's not sure yet if he will reply to email. I'm not sure how I feel about this,on the one hand I want him to do what he wants but on the other I'm a bit concerned about feelings being ...

How can I stop her spreading false rumours ? How can I get her to fess up and tell the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

20 December 2016 (F) - I had a friend who I used to be close to some years back. I used to babysit her children when she was in hospital free of charge and generally be helpful. As the years passed the friendship changed. I moved to a more distant area and she rarely ...

Suspicious of my friend's invitation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

20 December 2016 (F) - If you have a friend who you havent seen for some years but who has made it quite clear that he wants sex with you although not exactly in those words, then it doesnt make sense to visit him in his home does it? I imagine its probably best to not v...

What should I do? I feel that he does not want any commitment in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

20 December 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my current bf for 8 months. When we started he texted often, called often now we barely talk during week days. Though we meet on week ends he do his things like playing games (mostly) or reading about cars or watching shows a...

Have I completely disrespected my boyfriend, when I had no intention of doing that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - I went out on an unexpected night out with a work friend on Friday. We thought we'd just get a bite to eat and a few drinks after work but we ended up having one too many and never got home until 2:30am. We had dinner and went to a few bars. ...

I feel as though everything in my life is slowly falling apart. But how can I start to address these issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - Where did it all go wrong? :( I've never had a large circle of friends but I was happy on my last year a total school, having roughly about 5-7 friends whom I spoke with daily. As we all parted for our next journey, we lost touch. I now only sp...

My boyfriend can't control his intake of alcohol

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

17 December 2016 (F) - Ok so I have been seen this guys for almost 4 years now. On and off at first (we broke up 4 times and both went looking somewhere else. But would still kept in contact and talk about who we have been sleeping with, then have sex together. Unless one ...

Do I tell him he is not the only string to my bow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

17 December 2016 (F) - A distant friend of mine has decided he would like to go on a few dates with me , the thing is hes said this before and had to cancel last minute. we were due to go on a date tonight but he cancelled again saying he has to work . fair enough he ...

My inappropriate boss or My boss wants to grab my ass

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

17 December 2016 (F) - Hello everyone! I'm in a bit of a pickle. Naturally, I'm a very bubbly energetic person. I hate awkwardness so I do my best to make fun of myself and include others. Especially at work considering, everyone can be so stiff at times. I got ...

I'm comparing myself to his beautiful ex and feel like I don't measure up!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2895 days ago

16 December 2016 (F) - I have been married to a wonderful man for the last 4 years and I have yet to find any flaws in his looks or personality. In being up front, this is a question based out of my own insecurities and not from something he has done or said. He w...

Is it okay to schedule a family picture session during a friend’s wedding weekend? We are paying our own way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

16 December 2016 (F) - Sorry this question isn't really dating related...but I used to come here years ago before I got married and couldn't think of any other advice columns. I will keep it short. Wedding etiquette... we're going to be in Florida late winter for a fri...

Could it be more than friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2894 days ago

15 December 2016 (M) - Me and my best friends ex have been rather flirty with each other for a couple of months now; we got pretty drunk one night in a evening establishment and very nearly kissed, although one doesn't remember who really initiated it and it has not been ...

Why is my friend's husband so cruel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

15 December 2016 (F) - My friends husband can be so cruel! she gets her hair done at a hair salon and he never compliments her. (others do) He also yells at her for the most silly reasons? Could he be disconnected as he wishes he were not married to her? ...

Should I bring this up with him, or just cut him off ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

15 December 2016 (F) - So i've been talking to this guy for a while now. He lives in another state so we don't get to see each other often. There is definitely attraction towards eachother. We aren't dating, but we talk like if we were. So a while back i asked him if w...

How can I know if I'll be open to a boyfriend being sexually polygamous?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2894 days ago

14 December 2016 (F) - I don't have a BF right now, and I have actually never had a boyfriend before. However, I realized that there are many men out there that cheat, not because they don't love their GF enough, (or so I think), but because they just love to have variety ...

I need help with my retroactive jealousy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

13 December 2016 (M) - Hi, sorry for my bad english in advance. I’m with my girlfriend since 6 month, we know each other since we are in middle school. After that she go in another school and in an other high school in the same town. We are now both 20 years old, ...

The guy I like seems to be a really horrible person, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

13 December 2016 (F) - My friends are really close to this one guy. It has been over a few months since he started hanging around with us and he's been just fine with me. At first I started liking him and finding him attractive, so I confessed and heard no reply from him ...

I found out he's communicating with his ex. What now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

13 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and I couldn't be happier. We are so compatible and i feel like i've known him for years. He treats me very well and is the gentleman of my dreams. However, i would like opinion on a dilemma i have...

I want people's opinions on friendships with the opposite sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - My friends and I were having a discussion the other day about opposite sex friendships and dating. I was curious about the different perspectives of opposite sex friendships. My guy friends argued that a woman with a lot of guy friends is unaware ...

I'm not good at sport. How can I convince my BF not to watch me playing sport?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

11 December 2016 (F) - I'm not very good at the sport I play, I'm embarressingly bad. My boyfriend insisted he'd come to one of my games, and he's coming to my game on Wednesday. I don't really want him to come, seeing as he's really into his sport and he'll be pretty ...

Why doesn't anyone want to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

11 December 2016 (F) - a little back story: I am an 19 year old girl in university, I currently have a part time job on the side for fun. And over the summer i got very very close with my coworkers and we hung out everyday, but recently we all haven't been talking or they ...

He kissed me then the next day told me not to make a scene if he gets with another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

11 December 2016 (F) - Hello, Im 16 years old and I really like a boy. He broke up with his 3 year old relationship one month ago, and he is trying to "live" his life right now.He does stupid things but not with the mean way. He doesnt care about others feelings as much ...

My ex is trying to date my friend and I don't know how I feel about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

10 December 2016 (F) - Very long story... This guy and I were together for a year and a half and had been friends before that. We ended things last April but are still in the same friendship group so we see eachother most weekends. Since last April we've been up an...

Is it off-limits for a husband to sneak around with wife's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

10 December 2016 (F) - Is it off limits for husband to sneak around with wife's best friend. Then you find out 21years later about it. Wife's b.f. Was told by the other bf about it when she was drinking ? They played naked in her pool ,while they knew where wife was. ...

I trust my boyfriend, but this girl makes me a little nervous. Opinions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is going out all day with his "bestfriend" who is a girl today (they've never done that before but they have hung out) and he never told me about it or what they were going to do. I found out because I looked at what he was typing o...

Was her comment to her girlfriend about the dick pic normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

9 December 2016 (M) - my wife got a picture of a dick texted to her from her girlfriend. She answered the text by saying the dick looked really good , once you get that dick you will never get it out of your mind , you can use him just for that dick . I never heard her ...

I need some advice for a last minute trip to a London gig

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

8 December 2016 (F) - Hi. I hope someone can give advice on this trip. I am thinking of going to London tomorrow night to see a gig, but it's all pretty much last minute. I only found out a couple of days ago that someone was selling two tickets for the gig. Origina...

A threesome with my wife and another male was my fantasy. So why couldn't I get hard looking at my wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

7 December 2016 (M) - How would you explain this? What I am about to say was totally MY idea, even though my wife was very into it once it got started...My wife and I were in a male friends house initiating a threesome with him...up to this point you could say it was ...