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anonymous
writes:my wife got a picture of a dick texted to her from her girlfriend. She answered the text by saying the dick looked really good , once you get that dick you will never get it out of your mind , you can use him just for that dick . I never heard her talk like this before , is this normal or do I have something to worry about ?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 December 2016):
 I would be horrified if a friend sent me a picture of a guys dick. If I am married then I wouldn't be commenting to my friend about how great his piece is. Very disrespectful to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2016): I'm sorry but I do think this is highly inappropriate. I don't think trading pictures of strange men's junk and drooling over them is going to do wonders for your marriage.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (10 December 2016):
 although in may seem out of character for her. I'm pretty sure women have a fantasy life as well as their public life. Much the same as the way men speak between each other (locker room talk) and the way they talk in public. I think it could be rather titillating as bedroom talk but not all women like it so be careful.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 December 2016):
 No way ,lol.
As if penises were such objects of beauty, exuding such erotic charm that when you see one, you just can't help, you would not want to, but just can't help, getting instantly aroused and getting off on it.
In fact, many women think about male appendages what they think about squid, or prawns, or other peculiar-looking seafood : it's delicious once you have it inside you, but , looking at it ? uhm, not great :)
Your wife was just posturing a bit in front of her friends and showing them how cool and forward and foxy she can be .
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answer :) I agree with u to a point . I just think she went a little overboard with I really like that dick , it looks so good . If it was just girl talk she didn't have to go so far , show so much interest . I think she got of on it .
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (10 December 2016):
 How do you know this? Have you been prying in your wife's private messages? If so, stop it.
Sounds like normal "girl chat" to me, one female encouraging another female in a new "venture".
Concentrate on your own relationship with your wife and don't get hung up on conversations she has with friends.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 December 2016):
 Do you have grounds to worry? I'd say no, I don't think so.
I think the conversation was a combination of several things.
1. Female "lockerroom talk" YES that is a thing, and I can tell you from personal experience that SOME women can get into raunchy details about their partners and their sex life. I once had to tell my BEST female friend to stop "sharing" that topic with me as she was dating my BEST male friend and it felt like TMI, like she was talking about my brother... And that was just not something I wanted or needed to hear. Thankfully my REAL sister-in-law never did that!
2. Your wife has been with you for a good while and is "living vicariously" through her single female friends. Again, not at all that strange.
3. Your wife was encouraging her female friend to "get some" and if the guy wasn't someone the female friend wanted as a BF, at least he had his dick "going for him".
4. Humor. She was trying to not come across as a prude with her female friend and used humor. Probably the option I would have used if any of my female friends forwarded a dick pic to me. Let's face it... dick pics are not... hot at all.
So chill and accept there is a side to your wife you may not know that well, that she keeps to herself and only lets loose amongst her female friends.
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