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writes:If you have a friend who you havent seen for some years but who has made it quite clear that he wants sex with you although not exactly in those words, then it doesnt make sense to visit him in his home does it?I imagine its probably best to not visit him at all because although it would be good times, fun and laughter then I think the expectation of that leading to sex is preset.Does anyone agree with me on this? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 December 2016):
 If he is hinting at sex then you have your answer that is what he wants. As the others have said meet in a public place if you are wanting to catch up and if not then don't bother.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (20 December 2016):
 Go out for a friend date - i.e coffee, lunch, etc. Nothing romantic or sexual.
Whilst you should be able to go to his house without having sex, I think he could become frustrated at that and make you uncomfortable.
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reader, Nittynora +, writes (20 December 2016):
 Please keep yourself safe and don't go to his home, meet in a public place. If you don't want sex with him make it very very clear before you meet him. I suspect he may pull out of the meeting, if he is a friend he will respect your wishes.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 December 2016):
 Go out for dinner, lunch in a public place, IF you want to JUST enjoy his company but not feel cornered to have sex.
Though unless he is a rapist, I can't really see that you would HAVE to have sex with him if you went for a visit. He might try and seduce you but the word NO still applies.
You are in your 40's, so old enough to make things crystal CLEAR before a visit.
However, with all that said, if he is pushing for sex, he isn't exactly a "friend" is he?
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