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writes:A few weeks ago I posted a question about being reallyyyyyyy sad all the time I am an honours student in university, I have a great life at home, I am well off financially, and I have everything I need (not to toot my own horn but I have a very good life). But I don't have a lot of friends, I'm used to it as it's always been my reality I don't know what's making me sad, but now I find that I hate being alone. I'll go to the mall just to get people to talk to me, I'll try to stay "in public" as much as possible and LOVEEEE to work overtime just so I don't have to go home. This is really odd because I used to love being at home and now I just can't be home without freaking out (regardless if I am home alone or with the family). Nowadays I find my self working 15 days in a row with no days off just so I spend minimal time at home. I've taken on way more hobbies to keep myself occupied and tried to go out more. But as soon as I am home I get really really depressed and start crying, what else can I do to stop this?
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reader, Riot2017  +, writes (8 August 2017):
I think you should see a therapist to help you cope with this issue.
It seems like you are a very extroverted person, and you need to be around people to feel good.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 January 2017):
 I remember your last post. You should go and talk to your doctor if you feel it is taking over your life. You could have depression or some sort off anxiety which Therapy could help with.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (31 December 2016):
 Therapy would be a really good idea because it can help you figure out why and how to feel comfortable alone.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (31 December 2016):
 Are you living with your parents? Do you live in the town or in an isolated area? From what you say it seems to be home that is depressing you. Can you work out why that is?
Is it lack of control over your living space? You have to conform to the majority and not necessarily what you like?
I'm just throwing ideas out.
Would you be better in your own space where you can do what you like, invite whom you like round, clean up when you like.
Think about what you want and work towards it.
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