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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He shows a lot of interest in me but he has a g/f

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - So..there is this guy i know for almost 4 years.( he has a gr for 2 years)..the thing is that we get along very well and i mean we are very good friends. we had a trip together( with some friends) and his gf wasn't there. the thing is that it was my ...

Why do some people "forget" to contact you back? Is my friend being selfish ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I need advice, why do some people take so long to respond to your contact efforts? surely it becomes rude at some point? obviously there is something wrong or they no longer wish to see you..or be in contact, it happens, we lose fships.. sorry t...

What can I do? My boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3636 days ago

29 November 2014 (?) - I know this isn't as serious as an addiction to drugs or alcohol, but I truly believe my boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports. It's affecting our relationship. It started off earlier this Fall with fantasy football and has expanded to other ...

How do I handle these girls when they treat me badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I would like to ask for a friendly advice. Ever since I was a child, my older sister ( I have only one older sister and she is 8 years older than me) has always been very mean towards me. Picking on me, saying mean words and she has never treate...

Why? Why is she not into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - So I have been with this girl for almost a year and at first she seemed so interested then she went on a little vacation sort of speak and while there I would talk to her on the phone and write each other letters. She told me that her old behavior...

He says I should just get over his behaviour with these other girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Part of me wants to end my relationship with my bf of 2 years, yet I don't know by doing this, am I making the right decision? He used to flirt with a friend of ours a lot, so much so I felt uncomfortable. They texted everyday, she sent him her...

Would it be weird if I waited a whole year to date just her, knowing I like her? Or do I date other girls in the interim?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3638 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - There's a girl I really like in my school, (I'm a freshman in high school) and she likes me too, but her parents won't let her date until next year when she turns sixteen. What should I do? Should I date other girls? Would it be weird if I waited a...

Could his hug have meant something? Don't want to mess up again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

27 November 2014 (?) - I like this guy in my class and we talk sometimes in class but I don't know how he feels about me (I'm 18 and he is 20). Usually when he leaves for his next class I say "goodbye (insert name here)" to show that I'm making the effort to say his name. ...

He's in his 40s so about 15 years older. What could be the reasons for his actions? He appears to be nervous when interacting with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3637 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - I am asking why a man seems OK around me one minute then next comes across nervous? He knows me through work, and sometimes he comes across OK, then others he can't get away quick enough. Like today he said hi dance around me for a bit then hurried ...

When a guy always argues with a girl.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - I am in a good happy relationship. But another guy we know seems to always pick on me, in a more aggressive way. Sometimes it's light teasing, but then out of no where infront of a group he'll put me on the spot and argue back at me...I don't even ...

How do I get out of the rut I am in and make changes for the better? Feel like life is passing me by

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3641 days ago

24 November 2014 (M) - This year, for a number of reasons,has been quite difficult. Not one to remember. I feel like I'm in a rut and I just can't seem to get out of it. I want to make positive changes to my life and lifestyle. I know the person I want to be,...

How can I improve my social life and my chances of dating? What are your thoughts on the man I have been texting? Just found out he's married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a successful career lady but my social life sucks. I have never had a boyfriend or sex mainly because I always meet rejections (maybe because I am physically disabled thus, less attractive). I do not believe in FWBs but a decent r...

Am I reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - A married male new co worker of mine invited me to a party he is throwing next month. lol I don't know if he has invited anyone else from work, we have only spoken to each other on three separate occasions and it was brief each time. He made it a ...

Even my friends and parents think his friendship with this girl is dodgy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - My bf and I have been seeing each other for 1.5 years. But lately things haven't been going well for us because of his friendship with a particular girl. They have known each other for a few years and she is residing overseas. Yet he is dodgy about ...

Just friendly, or interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - I've been texting my guy friend everyday for almost 2 months now. He tells me good morning everyday and he's always saying all he wants is for me to be happy. Lately he's been sending me funny pictures/jokes to make me laugh as well. Just confused ...

My best friend freaked out over the 'maid of honor' title

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - My Best friend just completely freaked out on me because she isn't going to be my Maid of Honor. Best friend and I have been best friends for over 20 years. We have both been there for each other in good times and bad. I was the maid of honor at...

How I should react when he finds interest in other women of the friendly company?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3644 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - I continue to have interest in the man that we are still just friends. Although i like the feeling that we are friends and so there is a sensation of freedom, relax, and no need to worry about subjects of relationship on the other hand i can't stop ...

Why hasn't she told her guy friend she has a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

19 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend has a guy friend that she has known for two years and they used to like each other she has not told him that she has a boyfriend and she wants to hang out with him alone and won't introduce me or tell him that she has a boyfriend. I ...

Does he want my number or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3641 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - So there's this guy I work with. He is a very shy person and I don't think his self esteem is very high. He even said to be that he doesn't think he very attractive. So we were having a conversation and I was like "oh text me if...happens." And he ...

What's up with this friend's hugs and kisses?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - Just a general question about body language. I've been away on a nice long 6 week holiday and come back refreshed and ready for anything. Except one of my friends reaction to my return. We are very close but I'm not really one to indulge in big...

Does my best friend like my boyfriend? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3646 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - So i met my boyfriend through my best friend, they've now gone to uni together and are living in the same house. I was always hesistant to start a relationship with this guy even though i had strong feelings for him. My best friend 'used' to have ...

She wants to get him out of her mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3647 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - One of my best friends told me that she thinks she likes our best friends brother. I think that she should go for it but our friend has made It VERY clear that her brother is off limits to any of us four (her best friends) because it would be weird. ...

A friendship that's sometimes been more ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3426 days ago

17 November 2014 (M) - Long story here...So I've been friends with this girl since I was about 16 or 17 (We are both 29 now) So after a few years of being friends (I met her at an old job of mine and I dated one of her friends that I also worked with...but it didn't work ...

Does he seem at all interested? I don't want to make a move only to find that I've not only made a fool of myself but lost a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3463 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - I feel like I'm at the age where I should be able to figure out whether or not a guy is interested in me but this is the first time I find myself drawn to an older man. I'd assume that indicators of interest would be the same regardless of age but I ...

I saw him more as a father figure, how do I give him the message I am not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - I am friends with a man who I learnt just today that he is 10 years my senior. I had from time to time, confined in him on some rather private matters; like dating and choosing the right chap etc. I had always thought he was at least 20 years o...

I think I like my best friend's brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - Me and my best friend have known each other since before we started school and I've know her twin brother for the same time. Recently, though, whenever it see him I get butterflies in my stomach and when I told my other friend this she said I ...

Why has my male friend become distant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3648 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - i have this male friend and we texted all the time about anything. we did go on a date when we first met but he wasnt ready for anything. its been a couple of months since then, now hes suddenly gone distant on me. before that he would text stu...

He texts another female everyday, and she sends him selfies .... I told him it makes me uncomfortable but he doesn't seem to care.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - Is it normal to be texting the opposite sex everyday if you are attached? My bf has been texting a female friend everyday for the past month and she sends him her selfies a few times a week. Although the photos are not sexual, I do feel ...

I am heatbroken there was no compromise or compassion!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 weeks. Things were going so well until yesterday evening. He invited me to a wedding and I gladly accepted the invitation (the bride and groom wanted to meet me too) The wedding was a sunrise one so it ...

Should I report this, I don't want to create problems or trouble?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - Hi, can I ask a question please? I am currently working as a housing Assistant, my superior is a married man 2x my age, he comes across flirty sometimes and stares at me all the time, like really it has been noticed by others. The other day he ...

We have broken up but I know he still loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - me and my boyfriend are getting back from break up and now he's passive aggressive towards me. I know he still loves me. We've been in serious relationship and he's ready for commitment before but now things changed. He loss his patience, passion, ...

I'm worried he thinks I rejected him. How do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3646 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - I have a male friend. We've been friends for a couple of years but recently I've developed feelings for him. We've been flirty and I think he likes me too. He's not a shy guy but he's not very forward with women. We were out with her friends ...

Why might a guy give out mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3650 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Why the mixed signals? I like a guy who is shy but with a very hyper masculine persona. He isn't much of a conversationalist and is quite to the point as a person. What I've perceived to be him maybe liking me: Looks at me a lot, gets a bit too c...

He has a Gf and I have no intention nor wish to steal him away. So why has he continually flirted with me, on an off, for ten months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3651 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - My co-worker (head-chef of a cafe I work for part-time) seems to be flirting with me on and off. There's periods where he'll act really stroppy, and will ignore me completely. But at other times he'll be the one remembering minor details about me, ...

A (small) betrayal or much ado about nothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3626 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - I told my husband in confidence that his best friend was getting a divorce. Before telling him I made him promise not to tell anyone until his best friend tells him himself. A few weeks later, he blurted it out. Now, as usual, he’s angry AT ME fo...

Why did this guy act so nervous and tense around me at this particular time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - It was supposed to be one of the dorm parties they usually have and he (let's call him K) invited me and also my friend. K has tried to organize one specifically for us so we can go, since K found out I had never drunk and he wants me to try ...

How can I get rid of this constant fear that I've done something (unintentional) that could make him mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

14 November 2014 (?) - Hi there! So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now.. And he has this I don't know what's the proper word, attitude? Where like if he's mad at me, he doesn't tell me why or he'll just treat me really coldly.. The thing is I try...

2 guys..neither situation is right. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3651 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Dear Dr. Cupid i have a problem i like this guy i think hes cute, but theres some one else who i love truly we used to date the cute one asked me out but i didnt think we were right for each other. The one i love still likes me but just wants to...

I don't feel the same since he admitted to a threesome

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - What would you do/feel if you had a friend for whom you had feelings. You had started to get close physically and emotionally. Plans were made to meet up (we're living far apart now). But he tells you he got drunk and had a 3some with his friend and ...

How can I get close to my co worker? I have a crush on him. Do I risk it and make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I have a crush on a co-worker. I flirt just enough to not make it awkward. I want to ask him out but I can't seem to read him. My office is small, so if I put myself out there everyone will know and it will be uncomfortable if he turns me down. Do I...

How do I handle the insecurity I feel when my boyfriend flirts with our female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I think I'm stuck in between being mature in a relationship and still that little girl who is a bit insecure. I need advice on how to handle a relationship in a mature adult way and be comfortable with it. I've been with my boyfriend for about 10...

In love with my friend, do I lay it on the line and ask where I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3653 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - ok so straight to the point , i have developed feelings for my friend he knows i like him but he hasnt done anything about it(the ball is in his court so to speak) hes been flirty but then reminds the moment we r friends and he shouldnt be as flirty ...

Did I misinterpret her message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - What would you do if you found a message from a female friend who sent "you would be lucky if you were my bf. I don't make you buy me things" to your bf? Fyi I happened to be with him when she texted and saw what she texted, and he allowed me to...

Did he just hit the ball back into my court? 30 all perhaps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Hi, any help would be greatly appreciated. Apparently, I’m clueless when it comes to men. I’ve spent my life building my career, that I have failed to learn how to read situations such as this: This past weekend, whilst attending a conference, I ...

My boyfriend spends more time with his friends than he does with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend spends more time with his friends than me! I'm not saying that we should see each other everyday. Perhaps just once a week. He has made a lot of plans with them but whenever I bring up sth to do, he either says he is busy or already has ...

Former fwb guy is now acting weird since I have started dating someone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - I've had this thing for ages with this guy. We started off as friends with benefits really, no strings and that's what we were both happy with. This carried on for about a year and obviously we got to know each other really well and it did develop ...

How do I find the right type of relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3648 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - Confused. So I have a good, old friend. We caught up in summer. We hooked up(kissed cuddled etc) and have kept in touch a lot. We had made plans to meet up soon. We live in different towns. We went on what seemed like dates in the summer and he was ...

When a guy friend looks intensely at you while talking to his girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3654 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - So there's this guy-friend I've had in a group of friends, not super close or anything, but I've noticed they way he acts around me has changed recently. HE seems to be more cautious and I feel his eyes are always on me. The one thing I want to ...

Is he just taking things slow or not attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3655 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - There was always some chemistry between a friend of mine and I, but we never acted on it. I know when it comes to romance he is quite shy. This other guy who is a close friend of ours (the one who introduced us to each other) would often tell me ...

Should I break off contact with my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - So there's this guy I've kind of had a crush on for a long time now, since I was around 16 (I'm now 19). The issue is that he's my ex teacher. I have him as a friend on Facebook and we chat occasionally, just about normal things like catching up, ...