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writes:So there's this guy-friend I've had in a group of friends, not super close or anything, but I've noticed they way he acts around me has changed recently. HE seems to be more cautious and I feel his eyes are always on me. The one thing I want to know if it means anything, is that whenever he's had a girlfriend, and whenever his girlfriend talks to me I see him staring at me behind her the whole time she talks to me... I don't know if he's looking for a reaction or if he's worried what I think? And after he's broken up, and a friend in the group asks about the girl he broke up with he ALWAYS looks at me first, even though I didn't even ask...And the odd time if I do ask about the ex-friend he has a surprised look on his face and just complains about the girl, I'll say things like "She was nice." and he kinda sighs and says 'she was alright'...I'm really confused about his feelings and even mine to be honest...does a guy staring at you intensely while talking to his girlfriend mean anything at all? Or if someone asks about his ex-friend he looks at me first before he talks?I don't really need advice on how to move forward with this, I'm just looking at this behavior specifically and if means anything more? What do you think?
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reader, babalou  +, writes (12 November 2014):
 To be blunt, it sounds like you're making something out of nothing. His looks could mean anything, and he might not even be looking at you as often as you think he is, or any more often than he looks at others. You only notice when he looks at you. Try not to get your mind jumbled by tiny ambiguous gestures like this. If he's interested in you, he will show it in a clearer way when he's ready to, even if he's shy, so don't let simple things like this confuse you.
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