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*ojo7536
writes:So there's this guy I work with. He is a very shy person and I don't think his self esteem is very high. He even said to be that he doesn't think he very attractive. So we were having a conversation and I was like "oh text me if...happens." And he was like "I don't have your number." I was like "oh yeah", and I had my phone in my hand. Then I said "do you have your phone on you?" He is like "yeah I do" but he didn't pull it out. (We are snapchat friends) so I told him to send me a snapchat text then. then he laughs and starts a conversation about snapchat. I don't get if he just didn't want my number or if he was waiting for me to ask him for his number. I didn't wanna ask if he didn't want my number.
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reader, lifesgreat  +, writes (25 November 2014):
lol well if he said every Friday , you shouldn't of said but that is your drinking day.
It sounds although you might of not took the chance he offered out this time lol.
Well he has got a new car and wanted to show it off too you , the fact he mentioned dinner might be inclining he takes it as a date .
How long have you actually worked with him?
If I was you mention it again , either say : So what Friday are going for that meal ? or what Friday are we going on that date .
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reader, jojo7536 +, writes (24 November 2014):
jojo7536 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNow I'm really confused bc we were talking over snapchat and he got a new car. I was like can I please drive it?! N he says yea sure if u buy me dinner. N I said hey no fair. I'm driving and buying dinner?! N he said something, I don't rmber what. Then he's like so when r we gonna get dinner(he said something similar to that n i was like oh idk when r u free. He said every Friday and I started talking bt how friday was his drinking day and we started talking about that. I really don't get if he's asking me as a friend or as something else. ??
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reader, jojo7536 +, writes (19 November 2014):
jojo7536 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have to agree with you "Lifesgreat" bc I feel like I hint things so much n I'm the one who asked him if he had a snapchat n I added him. He added me on Instagram but I gave him multiple opportunities to ask me for my number. So I'm guessing he either just considers me a friend or flirts at times to just mess around. Thank you "So very confused" but i really want a guy to put effort into me if he likes me. I feel like if a guy really likes me, he would try even a little no matter what to let me know that he likes me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 November 2014):
 I literally had to say to my husband the first time "do I need to hit you over the head with a brick??"
and he said "yeah" he had NO CLUE I was seriously hitting on him.
what you should have done was say "what's your number" and then sent him a text from your phone saying "now you have mine" pause, smile at him and then add "hope you use it"
THEN the ball is in his court.
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reader, lifesgreat +, writes (19 November 2014):
hmmm usually in these I would say go for it! it not always down to the bloke.
But I had a girl do what you did similar anyway , she was saying how people call her a nick name in the phone book ( not a bad one lol ) And then said I should do it too.
Now I wasn't too sure if I did actually like her but felt well she has opened it up now .. So I went with the flow and got her number.
we have been chatting but I haven't actually gone on a date.
now I am really crap with asking out girls also tbf but still went for it .
you pretty much offered your number on a plate to him , I would say he is either only slightly interested or not interested. Leave it to him to do the next thing.
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reader, jojo7536 +, writes (19 November 2014):
jojo7536 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know. I always like the guy to make the move first but I feel like no matter how many hints I give him or how flirty i am, he doesn't get it. I'm starting to think he doesn't like me or maybe he doesn't like me in the way I like him. I'm thinking about giving up on him and moving on bc that might be the best option. I really don't like chasing after men who don't even put in a little effort. He's only asked me to go eat with him one day n I said no bc i had an event to go to. Other than that, I don't see him trying in any other way to chase me.
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reader, recneps +, writes (19 November 2014):
Well you could give him your number and just talk to him for like 2 3 minutes and see if "..." happens with him I'm a guy and sometimes I get a little shy around some girls to
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