How I should react when he finds interest in other women of the friendly company?

A female age 51-59, *ety writes:

I continue to have interest in the man that we are still just friends. Although i like the feeling that we are friends and so there is a sensation of freedom, relax, and no need to worry about subjects of relationship on the other hand i can't stop the hidden thought that i would like a relationship with him. I haven't said him anything about my true feelings because i don't want to risk our friendship that it is really important to me. Sometimes we go out but always with other friends otherwise i see him often but we don't go out together without other friends. However when i see him to find interest in other women of the company i feel a lot of jealous. I try hard to hide that from him because i don't want him to see that i am jealous. But i am not absolutely sure that he doesn't understand or feel it but in any case i don't express that to him in any way. I try to be patient at these moments. I know that i don't have any right to ask him or tell him that he makes me jealous but that's what i feel. I have decided not to tell him something about my true feelings but of course i show him a kind of interest up to the point that in a difficult situation or conversation I would excuse it as a friendly interest. I don’t know if it is right to suppress my true feelings or leave them as it is as at some point makes me happy (except the difficult moments of jealousness) and give me a kind of expectation. How I should react when he finds interest in other women of the friendly company? Should and I give interest to other men around in order to make him jealous? Should I show any kind of disapproval or show that it doesn’t bother me?

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