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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How can I defend myself against this worker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone. I apologise for the length of this problem. OKAY so I am quite an easy going person. I respond to banter, even the odd jokey name calling and can take a joke as well as the next person. But I am also very shy, sensitive and som...

Should I be selfish for once or be the good girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Hi, I have this problem... I have this friend I've known for two years now and we always kind of liked each other. He's much older than I am and is in a relationship. Because we were such good friends, I know his girlfriend really well now too. Bu...

My co-worker doesn't invite me along when she goes out with our colleagues, should I confront her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I have an office friend, we know each other for almost 7 months. She is nice person, but i found one annoying thing about her which kind of hurts me as well. We used to go out for lunch few times, sometimes she leaves me and goes...

I had sex with my best friend, but she is married to somebody else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

29 April 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. Sorry, this is a bit of a long one. My best friend is female, we've been friends for about 10 years and she's married. The past couple of years, she's sank into depression. This is due in part to her husband never being there due ...

Should I keep trying with this guy who says we are "friends with benefits", or let it fade away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Okay, There's this guy I've known for about 4 years but we only recently started talking properly. I like him but he's a flirt so I don't know if I'm special or if he's like this with everyone. About a month ago, he dared me to kiss him so I did...

I just cant seem to make decent friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I've been attempting to look for decent friends these days to absolutely no avail. The people I choose are, for lack of a better term, flakes. Its always the same formula with me. I will become friendly with someone, we will share similar interests ...

How do I get my old friend back? She has turned to God and her personality has changed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Hello. So I have this friend. She was great in high school. Fun, friendly, happy to go out all the time and try new things. Well, she ended up with a few boyfriends (none which lasted very long and hurt her terribly) which made her go back t...

Nothing in common but he makes me laugh. How long should I let this continue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Call me shallow but I've just started dating a guy who is stunningly good looking and I'm only into him because of his looks. Him and I have absolutely nothing in common....all I know is he makes me laugh like I've never laughed before and whenever ...

Has my relationship run its course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3891 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone so I need some advice. Has my relationship ran its courae.? I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At the beginning we got along so great he gave me everything I wanted in a relationship he made me feel ...

Is it OK for married people to have opposite sex friends?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - Simple question ; after you get married and settled down, is it okay to have friends of the opposite sex? Text them? Hang out with them? Strictly platonic that is....

Why does he keep asking me to be his friends with benefits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - Hi. I was wondering if you could help me. Why does he keep asking me to be his friends with benefits? I have known him for almost two years though we got closer as friends at the beginning of last year. I fell in love with him but never showe...

Why is my boyfriend secretly meeting up with my ex friend, when we agreed not to see her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I've got (had) a good friend who made it clear she liked my boyfriend. She instantly liked him but whenever we had an argument she would always side with him and text him make sure he was OK and I wouldn't hear from her for ages! One time she w...

Friend is now with a guy, but will he develop feelings for me again if I pursue our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - Short question not really important but I'd like some opinions on it. I have had this friend of mine for about 4 or so years now. We met in middleschool and he always had a heart of gold, and when I got to Highschool he...

Tries to make me jealous. Phones, flirts. Then treats me like I don't exist? What's he up to?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - So. Again with that guy that I went to homecoming with. Everything has been like really shaky and I don’t know because he is seriously so confusing. He got a girlfriend, they had dated for 3 months and during those 3 months we did not talk at ...

I want to keep this private. What should I say if classmates ask about my absence, without sounding rude and mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and need advice on what to tell people when I go to the therapist. I will go on Monday for the first time. It is weekly and will fall on the same day, time and lesson. The teachers know but I'm unsure about what I'll say to my 'class...

I'm feeling jealous and angry towards my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 April 2014 (M) - I am 21, i have been dating a girl for almost a year now. We love each other and we love to be around each other.she is very social, goes to the bar a lot with her friends amongst other activities. But lately I find myelf frustrated and lonely. I ...

Should I be worried that my friend dates underage girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - Hi. I am a 31 year old male. I have a friend who is 23 who dates a lot of underage girls who are maybe 16-17 years old. In fact, it has become a running joke in our circle of friends that his girlfriends are teenagers. However, in the time I have k...

I hate the fact that I am with someone that carried on an affair with a married man in the past, and I actually know this guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has (in the past) dated and slept with a married man. I happen to know him too. We're not close, but we've hung out before. I had no idea they had that type of situation in the past, and even though it is in ...

Should I consider dating my ex boyfriend's best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 April 2014 (?) - Hey aunts, so I guy who I used to be good friends with recently got in contact with me. He is my ex boyfriends best friend. We have been chatting on and off for the past few days and met up a few times. We got to chatting about relationships and ...

I know she's straight and I should just give up, but I can't. Should I just give up being her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - I'm a bisexual 15 year old and I'm unsure on what to do right now. I've liked this girl (who's 16) for over 3 years now. Last year in October I told her that I liked her. This girl happens to be straight and I told her that I was bisexual after ...

He knows I have a terrible relationship with my husband so why has he suddenly gone cold on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - I've been in a horrible relationship for too long but don't want to leave because of my son. When he had finished his gcses in July then I WILL be leaving. My boyfriend is controlling, abusive and has mistreated me for many years. 6 months ago I...

What do his signals mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone! Im really confused with the signals this guy has been giving me and I was just wondering if you could give me some advice on the subject. So last September I started college,and met a guy lets just call him X.X and I started to hang ...

Are these feeling of attraction normal chemistry and I should forget them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts/Uncles, Wonder if anyone can give me some good advice? I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5/3 years, with a rocky middle part inc. a 3 month break up. (Due to lack of maturity on his part and he's worked hard to piece us back tog...

I may have already sealed my fate .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3898 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - I'm really looking for some guidance and advice, and I hope there is someone here who can give me some, even just a little. I may have already sealed my fate in this scenario but I am not one to give up, especially when its something that I...

Fake friend puts on an act in front of people and puts me down!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - I have a friend who I've known for ten years (we're both 25). We both have long term partners and so don't see each other much with work commitments etc... However, when we do get together, (our partners get along well), whether it be out for a ...

Is it appropriate if my boyfriend of a year visits a female friend who is currently studying overseas alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - Is it appropriate if my boyfriend of a year visits a female friend who is currently studying overseas alone? Frankly, I do not feel comfortable with this arrangement at all, even if they are good friends. He did not tell me where his accomodations ...

I really like her but I don't want to ruin our friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3899 days ago

19 April 2014 (F) - So I'm a girl and I have recently found myself attracted to my friend who's a girl. When I had my birthday party she told me that she liked this guy, but every time were together it's like we have some connection. There's this other girl that were ...

I only reconnected with my ex so we could be friends, but I think he wants more

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

19 April 2014 (F) - A bit of an odd question. I reached out to an ex of mine because enough time had passed where we didn't speak and I thought of just asking to remain friends. We dated for only 4 months, nothing too serious. The awkward part is that he seems to...

I fancied a guy then he asked out my friend. Now I fancy another guy and I'm afraid the same thing is going to happen again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - About a year ago I fancied this guy. We flirted for a while but nothing became of it, I didn't tell anyone because I like to keep myself to myself. A. While after he asked out my best friend (there's 3 of us). I was heart broken but after a while I ...

My new friend has confessed she's in love with me, and I wonder why my ex was so enraged by our friendship! Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3900 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - I'm in a very weird situation. I broke up with my ex boyfriend last August due to the fact that I was moving away, we ended on extremely good terms and the only reason we broke up was so the distance wouldn't ruin what we had and we could get back...

Why did he hold hands with me? Did it mean nothing to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - There was this dance at our school and an after party at a club.When I left the club, I left with my now best friend who is a guy(M) and one of his classmates(B) that lives close to us and I used to be friends with.Not anymore.B was really drunk ...

He stopped talking to me when I 'liked' a picture on facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - Hey ! We only dated for like 2 months, but nothing happened between us because i wasn't ready for a relationship. One year later I contacted him to apologize for my bad behvaviour and that we could be friends. He added me three months ago...

Why won't these lusting feeling leave me alone about a man whom I know is taken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid , I am really in lust with this guy I have tried to fight my feelings but my feelings always win.He is a brick house stallion this man is taken and I know this. But we flirt back and forward with our eyes that's all but i really want to ...

He changed his relationship status and I'm confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - Hello all:) okay so here is my question... i met this guy online about 6years ago. A year later i finally agreed to meet him, and it was great - no awkward silences etc. It felt as if i had known him my whole life. he works on cruise ships, an...

I'm having a confidence breakdown even though she's a virgin!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

16 April 2014 (?) - Theres this girl I was best friends with for years and we get along really well. We thought we froendzoned each other then talked and told each other we liked each other. Theres only one problem, as a friend she told me about the guys she has been ...

Feel like I've been dropped by my best friend for no reason. How should I react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I've had a female bestfriend now for about 5 years, shes the only female bestfriend I have and now i'm starting to question our friendship. It had kinda been building up, but now I don't really know how to react to it. ...

My friend down the street is befriending my worst enemy who also lives on the same street!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - A few months ago my neighbor (who used to be a friend) called my husband up and proclaimed her love for him and with no inhibitions said she wanted to sleep with him and divorce her husband. My husband told me right away and we have shut this ...

Should I be friends with him or not? I think I am attracted to him though I am happily married and deeply in love with my husband!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I have been married for 6 years and I am deeply in love with my husband . However I have a friend very close to my heart and we get along really well ! We like each other's company and do spend a lot of time chatting on Facebook ! Recently, I have ...

Why do I have to pretend to care when no one has cared themselves enough to invite me along those journeys of life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

16 April 2014 (M) - I'm discouraged, confused, heartbroken, etc... It doesn't what I say, or how I ask it, no one cares enough to help. How do I know if a girl likes me? I've never been able to tell. How would I tell myself, as opposed when I'm unsure about a girl, and ...

Do I love him? Does he love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - Hello friends please help me am confused am I in love if yes what do I do about it.so here goes my story. I met this guy two years ago we are classmates he is good looking. my friends feel he likes me I dnt know that. He acts weird in fron...

I gave him my phone number but I'm not interested in dating him. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - I went out on Sunday night with some friends and their friends (whom I had never met). One of the guys asked me for my phone number before I left. He knows I don't have a boyfriend. I gave it to him but I'm not interested at all romantic...

He has found himself a "girlfriend"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - One of my best guy friends has been ignoring the usual gang since he found himself a "girlfriend". Lets call her J. They are not officially together because she has a boyfriend who is studying overseas but she is cheating on him (physically and ...

I know that we'd be better together than he is with his current girlfriend, but how I do I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - Long story short, I like my guy friend. We met through a campus organization and have known one another for a year. As I am preparing to enter the executive board of the club this year, we have gotten closer as he is already on board. He is a g...

Does a girl have a right ask for a Bf stay in some Sundays instead of going out every week

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles. My problem relates to my boyfriend of 4 years as we had a bit of a disagreement earlier today. Basically, he is good friends with my best friend's boyfriend. They have just moved in together, whereas me and my bf sti...

What else can I do to lift my self esteem? Feel down and that I'm going no where in life, lack motivation and feel unattractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

14 April 2014 (M) - hello, i have quite low self esteem and im not a very confident guy, i dont know if this has anything to do with the size of my penis, i would consider it small , but that may be just me underestimating my self. Its just short of 6inches erect an...

Why am I accused of flirting and how do I make friends with guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3904 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - This question is two-fold. a) how do I stop getting accused of flirting when I'm not/stop my friends, co workers, and complete strangers from making assumptions that I like someone? The problem here is that sometimes I *do* get a crush on ...

I like my best friends sister but don't know how she feels

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

14 April 2014 (M) - I like my best friends sister. I had a couples girlfriends but my mind always goes back to her. We went to prom together, but I don't know if it was because she wanted to go with me or she didn't want to go alone. She dragged me on the dance floor a ...

I've known her forever and now I want to ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3905 days ago

13 April 2014 (M) - K guys I really like this girl and I've known her for like basically my whole life and I really want to ask her out but I don't know what I should say to her or if she even likes me like that. I'm not really the kind of guy to tell her she's pretty ...

Should I confess about the kiss while we were on a break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

13 April 2014 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years, but last summer I got in a fight with my girlfriend and we broke up for a day, and on that day I kissed one of her friends. I feel really bad about it, especially since our relationship is going so well ...

What does he mean by "emotionally invested"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - If a man who is known for being extremely bad at expressing his emotions but who you think fancies you, blurts out that he is 'emotionally invested' in you/your future, what does that mean? That he cares as a friend? Or more?...