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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Should I call my "friend" or write to her and tell her off..or should I just leave it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hello Folks, A few months ago my best friend and I stopped speaking to each by my decision. She started her own busines a few years ago and I was there for her helping her all hours in the night and morning. Assisted her with her kids etc. She and ...

All seemed OK, so why did she say: "'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' "

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

30 June 2013 (M) - Say you're seeing a woman for two months and everything is clicking, sex chemistry, views etc and suddenly she says 'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' And the time we spend together is amazing and fun. And she feels the same. I...

Am I a backstabber?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Me and my friend were good friends. But im a positive person most of the time, im quite shy and my self esteem is quite low, but I try. Well my friend is quite and only we used to hang out and no one else. She always used to badmouth people ...

It used to be the closest friendship, now I can't count on her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I dont know what to do with my best friend. I known her 4 10 years,and we ve been best friends ever since.We were also roommates first year of faculty,and that was one of the best years ever. But since we dont live together she ve changed so much....

Should I plan my birthday without my boyfriend. He only celebrated one out of four birthdays.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Hi!! I have a question about my birthday and my boyfriend. This is going to be my fourth birthday in the relation, and out of the other 3 birthdays, my boyfriend has spent 1 of those birthdays with me. We actually attend to the same universi...

I'm engaged but my guy friend who's interested in me just wont take no for an answer

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Hi there, I have a question about one of my guy friends.He is a sweet guy that would do anything for me.We hang out get along great but are just friends. he has been hinting around that he wants more, but I have a fiance and just want to remain ...

Should I ask my guy if he ate alone or with a "friend"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts I need advice, I have been lied to by my BF over a year ago never sure if he cheated but was definetly keeping company with a friend, a girl that he has known a while. Well all was worked out and things have been great, lately very grea...

I can talk to her and try to establish a friendship, which I imagine would make me happier, OR continue living my life imagining different ways this could turn out. Which?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - It's been a year and three months since my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, ending a two year relationship. It was a complete shock to me at the time(unexpected), especially since she started seeing another guy within the same week. When she ended...

Boyfriend can't let go of former lover

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months and are in our late 30's; somewhat older and wiser, you could say. Unfortunately with age comes more baggage. From the beginning there was a "red flag": his very close friendship with another ...

My friend assaulted me, should I report it to the police?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Hi guys. Not a relationship question, but I could really do with some advice here! Last week a friend bit me. Hard. It was completely unprovoked, and I don't know if he just thought he was being funny or what. We were sitting on the couch, just ...

Getting extremely depressed over graduating - university feels like home!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm on a four-year course and due to graduate uni next year. Before I came to university, my life was completely different (single mother with abusive boyfriends, often had nowhere to stay, no social life at home to speak of). This affected me when ...

Is it common for men in committed relationships to engage in behaviors like this with another woman? Why is he doing this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm a single female and a few months ago, had a chance to get to know a male colleague of mine who's located in a city 4 hours away. We hit it off immediately and very quickly became friends though common interests. After our first meet, we have not ...

I joke that I'm guy repellant, but it kind of hurts. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - There's a guy that I work with that seems like he likes me, but he's hot and cold about it. If we're around people, he'll try and say hi or talk to me. Otherwise if we're alone together he'll tense up and avoid me. I'm shy and quiet, but frien...

Doubting myself after an encounter with an ex-friend, am I doing something wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I ran into my ex-friend "Karen" at a mutual friend's party. All my ex-friend did was brag and make snide remarks. She was also smug because she brought a date and I came with my sister. (My sis was invited though and received a separate invite.) I ...

Overreacting to a Missed Happy Birthday?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I have a really good friend that lives in another state. Overall he is a really good guy and his birthday was a few months ago. I sent him a "birthday" package with a few items. I also made sure to wish him a Happy Birthday as well on his special ...

I'm happy to have her as just a friend but I really don't want to see her with someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (M) - Ok, long story short. A little while ago I told one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend but she ended up telling me that she didnt like me in that way which after a while I finally accepted and am really happy to still have her as a ...

Should I stop hanging around clingy male friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I tend to hang around males FAR more often than I hang around females. I've always been this way, even way back in elementary. This particular male friend admitted to me about two month back that he really liked me and thought I liked him too, s...

My boyfriend blames me for losing his best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I need some help. im gunna jump right into this. Ive been with my bf for 4 years now. he had a best friend he use to do everything with and i was ok with him till i started figureing out what kinnda guy he was. ever since my bf fell in love wit...

I cant read if hes being flirty or friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - Hey, Ok so basically I have NO IDEA how to read this guy, we are really close friends and I dont know if what he says and how he acts is just flirting or if its just the fact that we are so close friends that we can say and do things like that and ...

Why didn't my b/f introduce me to his friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I went to the beach and we were having a nice time until we were walking out of the water and he saw an old friend. He walked over to his friend and embraced him and I was walking over thinking he'd introduce me. He then grabbed his ...

I'm afraid friends may find out I was at this boy's house and think I'm a slut!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - Hey, thanks for answering my question, I really appreciate it :) Here's what happened. A month ago I met a guy and we talked on facebook ever since. We have two groups of friends and we went on a group outing together. After which, he asked ...

My friend is jealous of my pregnancy. This is the 2nd time its happened. How should I approach this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - I'm 12 weeks pregnant, It was planned and am very happy. The problem is my "friend". I had my first child in 2011 and when I told her (call her sue) she stopped talking to me. She was jealous as she had been trying with her partner since they got ...

How best to end this friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - Had a friend, known for 7 years. Freelance work, so understand that occasionally things crop up and she had to cancel arranged lunches, but it got to the point where it was almost constant. Used to spend long emails sorting out her problems ...

Not sure how to read this girl - does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - I've known this girl for about 2 years, we originally met as she was a co-worker of a very good friend of mine and has joined us (among others) for the occasional night out. Almost the entire time I've known her she has been in a relationship but ...

Should I give up or approach him about hanging out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - This is such a stupid question.... I've known this guy a very long time. He is 29 now and I am 21. I met him when my brother dated his sister in highschool and that was a long time ago considering my brother is 28 now. Well.... I have always ha...

We both have someone else now so why did we get close to each other again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - So here I go. I just don't understand a certain situation or how to handle it. Although there is a lot that goes into the background of this, I will just try my best to condense it. About 5 years ago I had a male friend who was in my life at a ...

I love my b/f as a friend but I'm not in love with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - Background story: I have been dating the same guy for two and a half years, with ups and downs and we've broken up once, in which I cheated on him. In theory I have always been happy with him as a friend, in fact there have been more times than not ...

My girlfriend says that she has put a barrier up. How do I get through it to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - Hi there , my girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months . I we've fallen out a few times and she's said I need to make more time for my friends etc . She tells me that she has put a barrier up and it will take time to get that back down . We ...

He's a shy guy and I can't tell if he likes me or is just being friendly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I've always liked one of my close guy friends, who is really shy, and all our friends are constantly trying to set us up because apparently we are cute together but he only likes me as a friend which I was fine with. But last night stuff happened ...

Do I leave my b/f alone for a night to go out with my friends? No males are invited!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - Hi. Currently I’m away at my uni town, and am planning on going home for 2 weeks with my boyfriend who is from my uni town. A group of my best/longest friends from home want to meet up, but they don’t want any boys to be there. One of the girls I’...

Self Confidence - an easy step by step guide to help you develop self confidence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - SELF CONFIDENCE I started writing an answer to a question, namely http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wants-me-to-change.html and my answer just grew and grew. I recognized it had become an article rather than an answer after I ex...

Is this really cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - I'm separated for 3 years now. I ran into my high school sweetheart a few weeks ago and made a lunch date. At our lunch we discussed everything. I told her about my cheater wife and she told me about her bad marriage. Long story short, she asked me ...

I like my best friend don't know how he feels about me but don't want to ruin our friendship if we date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I know this is just like those stupid teen problems that are really stupid and shallow, but I really don't care. I don't know if my friend likes me or not. He's told me that I'm his best-friend, and my other friend, who has known him a lot longer...

How can I be this in love with this man? Is he my soulmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4164 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I have a crush so big I stay awake wondering if this is my soulmate. Then one day I'm sure he is my true love, but the situation is so odd that most of friends have begun to pity me, or think I'm a little crazy. I'm open to the idea of dating ...

Is she still my friend or has she gone cold on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4169 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I need to hear someones opinion on this. About 5 months ago I met a girl through an organization we both work for. I don't have many friends where I live, and she was friendly and we decided to meet to go see museums etc. We met several times, and I ...

Music is my life, but I hate being in a band with these guys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Dear aunts, This isn't a romantic relationship question, but I hope you can help me. I'm really torn up and upset about this. well, it's that I play the guitar in a band. Music has been my absolute life for a long time and I always LONGED to...

Why would he not call me but have his friend call me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - so i hung out with this guy that i really like, last week and just recently he hasnt been responding to my txts...the last time i texted him was monday, i asked how his day was going, he responded that it was frustrating, i asked why and he hasnt ...

How can I make friends, even find a girlfriend, my age that meets my expectations and I can have fun with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4164 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - My name is Carleigh. I'm 15 going on 16 in about ten days, and I'm a sophomore. I'm very mature, smart, funny, and honest. I'm a lesbian. I love literature, the English language, art, theatre, Shakespeare, learning, school, food, music, health and ...

How long does it take for your friend to come back to you after ditching everyone for their girlfiend? Does it ever calm down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

20 June 2013 (M) - Will I ever get my best mate back!!?? Hes been going out with someone, his first serious relationship since his actual first one was long distance and didn't last very long and hes never had much luck with girls. When this first started we all u...

I've been seeing a man who was a friend before we began dating and I'm devastated that he just ended it after 7 weeks of dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - Hi people. Just need some straight forward advice,ill give you some background,I am a single mother out of a messy relationship about 2 years ago. Ive come to the time now,where I feel I can move on. Ive been seeing a man who was my friend before we ...

What am I supposed to do to reassure my brother that NOTHING is ever going to happen between me and this boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - A few days ago I asked advice about my brother being too overprotective and bossy about me talking to his friend that he introduced me to because apparently he was flirting with me and I with him, when my only intentions where to be friends. Hes a ...

Do you need to be attractive in order for people to talk to you. Please help me I feel invisible!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - hi this is not a relationship advice question however i need some help. Im currently studying in uni, iwould consider myself a less attractive plus size gal. I have always had issues with weight and have very bad hyperpigmentation on my face. Im not ...

A girl that my b/f used to be intimate with is in our circle of friends. She's always around, how can I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4171 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - I am in need of some advice..my b/f and i are 29 years old and have been together for almost a year..i have no doubt that we truly love each other and we see a future together. We are both currently staying with family members in order to save ...

I don't think I can handle seeing her with her boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4172 days ago

19 June 2013 (M) - Hi, bit of a long question here. So about 2 years ago I told this girl whom I had been friends with for about 2 years (at that time) that I had feelings for her but she told me that she didnt like me in that way and just saw us as friends which took ...

How do I get over that he is expecting a baby with my ex friend and they will be getting married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4172 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about 14 months ago. We had been in an open relationship for just over 2 years. He had been seeing another woman(who was actually a close friend of mine)for the last few months of our relationship until he decided he ...

Is this reverse psychology or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4172 days ago

19 June 2013 (M) - I work in two places. In one place there are mostly married women in the late 30's up to 50 and more. They adore me, especially one-let's call her "Helen"-who is head over heel about me. She even says things like she wants sex with me tonight. ...

Can elocution lessons really change a person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4173 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - I haven't seen my friend in 3 months since she was at university, having seen her I was very taken back by her voice. Turns out she did online elocution lessons to lower her voice a bit and speak properly over the months, even when i saw her she was ...

Feel confused. Do I go with my gut feelings or forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4172 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - Hi i've know this guy for some years now. About last year we have been together almost everyday. Throughtout this whole year i have seen this guy open up and want to be around me, and then act like he just wants to be my friend. Everytime it s...

Should I go back to my old job? I worry that the store manager does not like me and I suffer social anxiety. Or should I look for something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4172 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - For 3 summers I have worked at a retail store, and then leave when I go back to college for the year. When I work there, I always feel very unconfident because I worry that the store manager doesn't like me, and I always feel like I am under su...

I am so sick and tired of losing out in love and being the lonely one.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - I feel absolutely hopeless. I love my friend more than I have ever oved anyone. If he goes back to his ex wife or doesn't lvoe me now is there some hope that maybe he'll fall for me in the future? I am so sick of the loneliness and pain I feel ...