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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Was she trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Hey, So my problem is this, at a flat party a year ago I drunkenly made out with a girl I work with. Afterwards I told her I liked her however she had just ended a relationship and said she didn't feel ready for another one yet. So a year has pa...

Was he serious or was it the booze talking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hello agony aunts and uncles, Ok so I was out the other night with a friends and her boyfriend in the same bar as this guy we went to school with years ago. We never chatted in school but knew of each other. Anyways he was really drunk and it took ...

While he is planning our future, I am just not feeling 'it'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hey all, just hoping for some advice. I've been meeting a guy for about 6 weeks. At first, we met up and I didn't feel it but we agreed to be friends. However, I knew he kind of would have liked more, but he said he was happy as friends was better ...

I feel my privacy is being invaded!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - I've been having an issue lately concerning those around me and my private life. For starters many of my friends this year have gotten married, are in committed relationships, and have kids. Since this has come to the attention of my mother and ...

I feel he is behaving badly on purpose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4010 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Why is he being like this? Should i cut him off? We've been seeing each other for nearly 4 months. I told him I wanted to take things slow as he kept asking me to be his girlfriend after the first date. We hit it but he's now coming off as bi...

Blocked from facebook after first meeting!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - The other night, I went to a bar with some friends. It's a bar where we go quite often. There is this guy who I always see there as well. He usually look at me a lot but never talk to me. It's been going on for about a year. I never really was ...

I have longterm feelings for a friend, who also used to be my teacher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Well, here it goes. It's a bit lengthy, so I apologize in advance. When I was younger I had a really hard time making friends my own age because I was so serious (maybe some would say mature). I just had to grow up quickly for personal reasons....

She is the one I want, but am I the one she wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (M) - I've been really close friends with a girl for about six years now - she's helped me through some tough times and we've remained close friends despite living a few hours apart for the past two years. I've always been rather fond of her, but now, I'm ...

Should I buy my boyfriend of 4 months the new Playstation 4?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid, I am in a LDR with a guy I met 4 months ago. We decided to make it official October of this year. Instead of exchanging gifts during Christmas time, it was a mutual decision for us to surprise each other with them in January when ...

I like my best friend's sister.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Hi all, please can you guys give me your advice?! On new years eve, my best friend, his sister, her friend and I are going out of town for the night to celebrate.. The thing is, I seem to get on really well with my friends sister, we've all been o...

I feel vulnerable and don't want to get hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Dear cupid agony aunts and uncles, I am writing because I do not know where to go from here. So the details: I am a gay man, and I met this wonderful gay man who lives a good 7 mins away from me. And well in the beginning he was very attentiv...

He promised to spend New Year's Eve with him but cancelled to be with his friend. Should I stick it out or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I've dated my boyfriend for a year and out of the blue the past January he broke up with me. He became easily influenced by his mates as they broke up with their gfs and were single and he was the only one attached at the time. We spend New Year's ...

I feel so used. Why didn't he value me as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Ok please help I was very good friends with a guy then he started confiding in me he had problems with the girl he'd been with for 5 years saying she was manipulative and made his life hard Stupidly I became close and we kissed a few times after wh...

I told him we would only kiss if we were together, then he asked me to be his girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I am 21 female and don't know if I will regret the night I had. I am a virgin that has urges for sex but learn to control myself, wel I was drinking, tired and my heart was secretly hurting and 1 of my guy friends who I havnt seen for awhile wanted ...

Is she dropping hints or am I mistaken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Im not sure if im interpreting the signs correctly. I have a female coworker who is very touchy feely with me. Im lesbian so it doesn't bother me, she however don't know my sexual orientation. Anyhow, I notice when we are around each other she make ...

He lied to me about being married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy at a friend's party a little over 2 months ago; he was really sweet and funny and about 2 days after the party, my friend told me that her friend told her that he was asking for my number, because he was not a direct acquaintance of ...

I love him so how can I tell him I am not ready for marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I've been with the same guy for three years. I love him very much, but like most young love we have problems. A few months ago he told me he didn't love me anymore, we didn't talk for 2 or 3 weeks but like always we kissed and made up. All of a ...

Could my ex-boyfriend want more, or just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - My exboyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago. He told people different things about why he broke up with me but he told me it was because we didn't connect. Obviously i still have some feelings for him but im trying to get over him. We both ...

I told her I was socially awkward and she laughed it off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I spent a day with a girl I like and her friend. I'm kinda socially awkward and didn't say much to them at all. It was really ridiculous on my behalf. She did say that she wanted to see me again so I don't think I came off too weird or creepy. So ...

Is this a double standard? She did not like me using harsh words. So why is it OK for her to do the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - A few weeks ago me and my girlfriend were leaving a pub, and we were joking around, and then as we were talking I saw my coach there, and I accidentally let a word along the lines of go away but more harsh. It was a slip. She got really mad at m...

My married man loves me but can't be with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Please bear with this long story. I am unmarried and in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I recently moved to a different country and there I met a guy friend. We both are aware of our situation from the very beginning when we first ...

Should I twist the situation or are my friends more important?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Recently one of my good guy friends, call him A, confided in my best-friend that he liked me. He also said that he was confused because he also like my other friend. If they started dating, I would probably be pretty upset, but I would be able to ...

What should I expect on a first date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - I have been a closet crossdresser for a few years. Recently I had a pro do a makeover on me and was finally able to see myself able to pass with no problem. Now that I decided to go out into the world a friend of mine set me up on a blind date with ...

Why is he keeping me in his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Merry Xmas to you all, and thank u in advance for reading this. I don't know if my situation is rectifiable or not, so if anybody can help me sort this one I will be truly grateful and if I'm being honest kind of surprised! I know there doesn't so...

I am alway in the friend zone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - I'm in In high school, I had a lot (5) female friends and not very many male friends. I am a total nerd but not the smart kind, just goofy-looking and not athletic. I do real good with math and computers and physics but I suck at English and History ...

Not sure if he likes me, or not, after he avoided me. Have I ruined my chances with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I thought a shy friend of mine liked me, and i think I am starting to develop feelings for him too, but i think I ruined my chance to form a relationship with him. The only reason why i think he likes me is because of our mutual friend's teasing...

I feel like a weird stalker, which I never was!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Really need help so low I can't get over this guy because of how he treated me Ok 2 years ago we were working together he helped me through personal problems and we became close friends he was texting up to 100 a day sending poems etc - we never h...

I don't want to chase him, so what next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Hi,I am 15 and I'm in love with a guy 2 years older. I met him like only weeks ago in a singing contest and I'm melted by his voice. This is actually the first time I fall in love with someone as I've been studying in girls' school and my mom ...

I want this relationship to work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm needing advice about me in my relationship. To make a long story short. I have been with my fiancé for almost 4 years. We've had our share of trouble, but there is one that happen a two years ago that still haunt me. My fiancé che...

Should I worry that he has stopped texting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - So I have spent a total of 19 days with my current guy I'm seeing we have been together for 3 months and known each other for 4 I know I love him he says he loves me, he was the first to romanicly take me in his arms and tell me in my ear I know ...

He says he cares for me, but doesn't love me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 17 and we've been dating for two months. We were hook up bbuddies for about a month before that though, with me being used as a rebound, and me using him cause I was horny. After we had sex (he was a virgin, I was not) we ...

26 never had a boyfriend, no confidence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Okay so I'm 26, I've never had a boyfriend, I've never been kissed or even been on a date. I was always very popular when I was little but we moved away from my home. People started bullying me and I lost all my confidence. I was called ugly and fat ...

My friend gets out of prison in 7 weeks and wants me in his life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Help! I am very very confused I have a friend and he's in prison. He has been there for me in the past and I consider him a very good friend and a special person although he has done some major wrong things in his life. We have given each other su...

I don't want to be alone anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (M) - If I'm trying to find my first g/f, or in general first date, etc... What places should I go, library, book store, when I'm at the park on a walk? I'm feeling out of options here, I just don't really want to be alone anymore. If anyone has anything ...

His dislike of me makes me uncomfortable with my group of friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - my friendship group has recentally broken down with lots of different people involved in individual fights. during this time i have been dealing with issues with work and my ex so i have spent that much time around it all. however a few weeks ago, ...

I think our friends daughter who is 9 is stealing from us and I'm not sure the best way to deal with it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - I think our friends daughter- who is 9 is stealing from us and I'm not sure the best way to deal with it... Over the year I have noticed that after they visit, small things go missing from our house. At the beginning of the year I noticed that ...

Why does my boyfriend remain friends with people who have treated him badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. Our relationship is great except for something that I've noticed and I'm not really sure if it's that big of a problem but it does bother me. He remains friends with people who have hurt him an...

Does she want to try again? Can someone give me some insight into what she is suggesting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 December 2013 (M) - Hi I'll try keep this short , about four month ago I pulled a girl in town and we started to see each other, she wanted to take it slow so I agreed with her as I really liked her, it went downhill when I introduced her on a night out to my best ...

How do I talk to this boy who I think likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I have been friends with this boy for two years now but only recently have we began to gte closer as what i thought as friends. When i was at party the other day i got told by a girl that she had over heard this boy and his friend talking about how ...

He said I was being controlling ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I lost a friendship with one of my very good friends. We got in a big fight and both stopped talking to each other. I deleted her of off my facebook, and asked my boyfriend (of 2 years) to do the same. Instead he said i was being controlling and we ...

Will he always be a cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - So I have met this guy through one of my coworkers a year and a half ago and we went out for drinks and he quoted ur "beautiful" and I said thank you and didnt make a move since he had a gf and obviously he lives in New York and I live in Boston. ...

I've had a horrible year and he is making it worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. He told me that he wanted to see me today at first. He was supposed to see me yesterday. He didn't send me a message yesterday though. He wrote to me today and told me that he had a cold yesterday, and he said he ...

My boyfriend informed me he'll be spending New Year's Eve with his friends and their wives

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - We have been dating for ten months, we had a fight last week that I was mad at him for not doing much with me. So we make up and have a great weekend together and I ask him what we are doing for new years and he said he is going out with his frie...

I'm drawn to a woman I just met and I'm not even gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - So I was at a party and I was just talking to m friends then suddenly this new girl in town walked in and I couldnt help but notice how pretty she is. But over the night I cant help but look at her. So finally I decided to talk to her and she's not ...

If men can't be trusted why do we even try?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. I've been with many guys before him and I know this sounds dumb but nobody else gave me this feeling of satisfaction and love that I get from being with him. This relationship feels different from ...

Should I come out to him, or is he just being jokey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (M) - Hello, I'm having a little trouble. I'm 17 and Gay and I have this 18 year old "straight" friend. I've known this guy for about a year he used to go out with my old bestie. For a few months know he's being very flirtatious. Sending me topless ...

It bothers me we do nothing together .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, So my boyfriend and I have been having some major issues. we've been fighting a lot! The major thing is we never do anything. this is our routine every day during the week. He works 11pm -7am and I work 11:30am-5:30pm. he gets off...

We have a secret friendship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - A long time ago I briefly met a guy at the end of a festival. He lives on the other side of the country. We exchanged numbers and ended up talking online for almost a year. We both were in relationships when we met and I still am though he is single ...

Every girl needs a bad boy...... right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Okay so i need help, theres this boy who i like and he likes me too but people including my friends tell me that he's not a nice person and that he will ruin everything for me such as see other girls. However, when i talk to him i never see that ...

He loves me but crushes on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a boyfriend for a few months. Before we got into the relationship, I knew about the fact that he had a crush on another girl for quite some time before he fell in love with me and decided to confess. Even now, he still has feelings ...