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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Another one bites the dust...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I just met this guy, the minute I saw him I thought there was something about him. We've been dating for about a month and had a really good laugh. The other night I sent him a really mean text message, I was drunk, it's like a subconscious thing ...

Maybe it IS me and she just doesn't want to be my friend any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Ok about a year ago my friend told me she likes this boy in one of our classes. He also happens to be the boy I liked the previous year. I told him I liked him on valentines day via a card and he gave me one back saying he was flattered but he had a ...

I have slept with my best friend in the past, and my fiance has no clue

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I am 32 and have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had our ups and downs and I have caught him cheating three times (but who knows how many times he has actually cheated?). He used to put me down regularly and I am not happy with our ...

I don't want to see her happy... what's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I think I have convinced myself that I like my best friend's boyfriend but in reality I genuinely like this other boy. I think it is more to do with that fact that I like attention and all I'm doing is messing with people's heads to get it... I ...

Does having a simple, tiny "crush" on the same sex, even though you are definitely straight, make you bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I know, I know. Some of you might respond with "EWWWW" or "GROSSS" etc., but I just wanted a little input. I didn't mean for this to happen. I've always been straight. Boyfriends, the whole deal and what not, I've been through it.. but recently ...

What can I do to woo him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I am the type of girl that doesn't have trouble finding men because they always come to me. The thing is, I dont like any of these guys. I recently met a guy at a close friend's birthday party. He is her close friend. He is gorgeous and we ...

Should I take her to the prom to please my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My parents want me to go to my senior prom with a family friend's daughter. She is cute and friendly but I don't really know her that well so I am not that comfortable with the idea. If I don't take her I won't have a date and I will go to my final ...

What did he mean by his statement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we ...

It's been two weeks. I haven't heard anything from him. Does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi cupid... I really like this guy. I don't know what else to do. When I first met him I was in relationship with my son's father, now we're not together but before that me and the guy used to text each other and my ex found the texts and text the ...

Someone please translate this for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I am friends with a bloke, at first he was full on wanting to meet someone for a relationship. I have know him for a few months now the problems that he had have been sorted with the exception of his ex using his child to see him. He calls and t...

First time seeing him ... what should I wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - hey its been a year and i have been talkin to this guy ever since,btw we met on face book he always wanted to meet up but i delayed it cuz i wanted to be sure of him before i met him but later on i got to know that his best friend knows my family ...

I like the wrong guy, and I have a mess in my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I like the wrong guy. I was in a relationship, and this guy I'll call "E" was my ex boyfriend's best friend, that was the moment when I started to like him. Then when my relationship was over he took distance from me. In those days I became clos...

Should there be an agreement on when to hang out with our own friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going our separate ways on Friday night..hanging out with friends that we haven't seen in such a looong time. We do this every now and then. Should there be an agreement between both of us? We've been dating for over (2) ...

I really don't mean to be confusing. Any explanations would be very helpful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well...

Why does my friend start rumors about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I'm really finding that I'm getting quite depressed with my life. When i look for positives I generally can't find them. My class never hesitates to make fun of me by starting rumours but now i'm just sick of it. Worst of all the perso who sta...

Friend receiving threats and demands for money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Okay so, My friend is getting stressed over a phone call she had today. From what i gathered shes been threatened by her parents to be kicked out the house for various reasons. If her grades are not good then shell be kicked out She has...

Please tell me what a player is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi all, my ex bf said on the phone just a few minutes ago that he's also a player, I said no he's not but well not when I was with him, but he said he was on his best behaviour with me. He said that there's no one down the pub to do it to but then ...

Is there anyone out there who thinks the same way my friend does? If so maybe you can help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I apologise in advance for the long article, I hope it doesn't put you off from reading it but I need some advice from those who are or have in the past been in a similar postion. There is this girl I used to date a while back now but I can't get ...

I'm being teased for being frigid!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I am just turning a teen and all my mates are snogging their boyfriends and not only have I not yet kissed a boy but I am also being teased for being frigid. help!...

How are you supposed to know who you can trust???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey all, How are you supposed to know who you can trust, I mean men. The ones I know are very good at making me believe that they are friends until I find out once it's too late and they have completely humiliated me. I don't like having people in ...

I don't know her that well, but should I bring her a gift too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Quick question, was invited to a girls birthday party, and I said that Ill bring sum mixers for shooter drinks, that will require around 4 bottles of liquor, as i know the one that she likes. she is a new friend, and a new group of mates, should i ...

He said I just wanted the "title" of boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, okay so I just need some advice please... thank you guys in advance... I had finally let this guy go after one year of our relationship, he had the commitment issue, did want to lose me but wanted me around...?? Weird I know... but now it's ...

He's my brother's friend and I think about him 24/7

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hello, Lately i been thinking about this boy his 16yearsold and im 16 too. He comes to my house sometimes he is my brothers friend and when his talking to my parents he keeps looking at me he is really funny,and i really like him,but he doesn...

Give him up and spare her feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - heres the problem. ive met this boy that is totaly perfect for me. hes everything id ever want and id love to meet him and get to know him even more than i already do. but this is where it gets complicated one of these girls from my school, i ...

Risk my true feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I've got an issue that’s eating me up inside, and I'd really appreciate some opinions on the situation. This is a long story but I'll try to keep it simple. I started going to university a few weeks ago, and I met the coolest girl....

Am I making excuses rather than facing the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I understand that this probably isn't one of the most important/serious questions that surface on this site but I would really appreciate some advice. I finally had the guts to add someone I really like on Facebook. (I know, yet ano...

I don't know if he's straight or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Well im new at this so bare with me...I am 22 years old and am bi. And i have this guy friend that is a year younger then me. To make a long story short we have known each other for about 5 years and are fairly close. My problem is, is that i dont ...

My ex has become my best friend but what does he want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I found out recently that my boyfriend of one year has been cheating on me. He moved here last year for school. I found out about the other woman by accident. His explanation is that they were dating before he moved here, but he didn't love her, ...

Things to say in notes I write?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - There's a guy I like, but I don't think he knows I exist. I'm in the seventh grade, he's in the eighth, so he's about to go to high school, so I have to do something before my time runs out! I don't want to go up to him and talk to him, so please ...

Are there such things as curses? spells?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, Is there really a curse, spells or witch craft exist, or is it in the mind of the person, who's not having a lot of luck, blames it on such things. I know from time to time you could end of having bad luck in your life, but does that mean s...

She's married but openly flirts with me, what does she really want?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2307 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - please girls, I need your help and advice, I have this problem with a woman who is driving me crazy. She likes me, as it shows in her eyes, her words and her acts, she ia married by the way and I want to know what does she want exactly. She often ...

I gave my band teacher a Hard-on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - OHMYGOD! I gave my band teacher a Hard-on! I wore a little more make-up than I usually do, and I took extra time to look good on the bowling alley trip. I was up and I got a spare and then when I sat down beside him and hugged him. I just look...

I'm confused so feedback here would be appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Please help me, I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin. He is two years older than me and we met and mine and his step grandfather's wedding. We really hit it off and shortly after that he came down and stayed with me for a while. I ...

He says I'm amazing but I feel kind of awkward as he is my first and I'm so inexperienced.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I am nearly 16 and have never had a boyfriend before. I have had some bad past experiences with rejection and I remember being asked out in primary school, I was kinda chubby then and I was so surprised someone wanted me, it turns out he just did...

Should I reject her (the same way she did), keep her as a friend or give a relationship a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I recently met a girl who I had the hots for about 6 years ago at varsity. She rejected me (she was in a bad emotional space) and I got over her and moved on with life. Now she wants me back for some reason. She is a good woman and I wouldn't mind ...

We're just friends but the way he stares at me I think he feels more for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Robert this boy in my shop is acting weird. He talks to me sometimes by texting and in the shop I look over and he's staring at me. It seems like he talks about me but I don't know. When he stares at me I smile back and pretend like it's normal but ...

4 Friends, one guy... what happens now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I give my best friend this guys msn because I love him, she said she would get me with him she started going out with him, the same thing happened again with 3 more people and I'm realy worried that I might just, not be the one for him, but the ...

Do I just see where this goes or try to resist the chemistry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - So I've gotten myself into a mess, I've fallen for an older guy, I'm 22 and he's 37. We work together in a job that requires close teamwork and having to have each other's backs. That is difficult when we're going the physical training side of the ...

Just lately my emotions have been everywhere like a rollercoaster!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Look I know I'm too young and this might sound stupid to your ears (mine too), but this is how I feel. I'm a 15 year old male and I really want to have sex... yes I know I have self control but it's really hard having to deal with the urges all the ...

Future spinster written in stone for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I think it was written in stone that I was meant to be alone because I never got asked in my teens and my 20s. Now heading for my 30s, I think I was always meant to be alone. If you think about it, it's true. I never had a boyfriend, it's just ...

When I'm not with him I like him but when I AM with him I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have known this guy for five years now and whenever I'm not with him I can't wait to see him because I fancy him, but when I actually get to see him I get put off by the things he does and I don't like him no more. I need help on what to ...

My friend is now going out with the guy I fancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have really really fancied this guy I know through friends for about six months. Recently I met him at a gig and we got on great and I got the impression he liked me. My best friend (who knows him quite well) found out I fancied him. She said she ...

Do you think this can be worth anything or is it just a fantasy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles here is the situation... last week I had a chat with a high school friend who has been trying to get hold of me... we had nice thoughts until we spoke about dating... so I told him about my life and he told me about hi...

It's like shes the sun and I'm the earth. forever bound.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a feeling towards this one person. A young woman. She's a senior at the school that I attend. I am a sophmore and we share a class together. I can never work up the courage to go talk to her. Although one day she did come up t...

Ex lovers can rekindle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend went out for about a year. We were young but both had things for each other for 2 years and were each others first everything. He was my very best friend as I was his, and one could easily argue we were two people living in ...

My friend is flirting too much with my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and best friend are good friends. She was a cheerleader for his football team so they seen each other a lot. Me and him go out but people tell me she flirts with him all the time. I didn't believe anything was going on until they had a ...

Tips on how to get noticed and how to get her to like me??

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30 March 2009 (M) - I have never done this before but i hope you can help me with my problem. There is this girl i have known for a while and i have found that i quite fancy her. But she doesn't feel the same way about me or at least i don't think she does.i was w...

His co worker told me my boyfriend stopped caring for me 4 months ago... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together 2 years. He goes out with co workers but tells me nothing, does not text or call, he tells me he doesn't need to check in and doesn't want me to know where he hangs out. What do I do? His co worker told me he is ...

Even though they are together, he still stares at me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Well there's this guy and I like him A LOT. We're not friends, but we've spoken to each other and stuff. He used to act like he liked me but then he dated this girl and now they're together. But even though their together, he still stares (wh...