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Archived questions from: 30 March, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

He says I'm amazing but I feel kind of awkward as he is my first and I'm so inexperienced.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I am nearly 16 and have never had a boyfriend before. I have had some bad past experiences with rejection and I remember being asked out in primary school, I was kinda chubby then and I was so surprised someone wanted me, it turns out he just did...

Should I reject her (the same way she did), keep her as a friend or give a relationship a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I recently met a girl who I had the hots for about 6 years ago at varsity. She rejected me (she was in a bad emotional space) and I got over her and moved on with life. Now she wants me back for some reason. She is a good woman and I wouldn't mind ...

We're just friends but the way he stares at me I think he feels more for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Robert this boy in my shop is acting weird. He talks to me sometimes by texting and in the shop I look over and he's staring at me. It seems like he talks about me but I don't know. When he stares at me I smile back and pretend like it's normal but ...

4 Friends, one guy... what happens now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I give my best friend this guys msn because I love him, she said she would get me with him she started going out with him, the same thing happened again with 3 more people and I'm realy worried that I might just, not be the one for him, but the ...

Do I just see where this goes or try to resist the chemistry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - So I've gotten myself into a mess, I've fallen for an older guy, I'm 22 and he's 37. We work together in a job that requires close teamwork and having to have each other's backs. That is difficult when we're going the physical training side of the ...

Just lately my emotions have been everywhere like a rollercoaster!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Look I know I'm too young and this might sound stupid to your ears (mine too), but this is how I feel. I'm a 15 year old male and I really want to have sex... yes I know I have self control but it's really hard having to deal with the urges all the ...

Future spinster written in stone for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I think it was written in stone that I was meant to be alone because I never got asked in my teens and my 20s. Now heading for my 30s, I think I was always meant to be alone. If you think about it, it's true. I never had a boyfriend, it's just ...

When I'm not with him I like him but when I AM with him I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have known this guy for five years now and whenever I'm not with him I can't wait to see him because I fancy him, but when I actually get to see him I get put off by the things he does and I don't like him no more. I need help on what to ...

My friend is now going out with the guy I fancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have really really fancied this guy I know through friends for about six months. Recently I met him at a gig and we got on great and I got the impression he liked me. My best friend (who knows him quite well) found out I fancied him. She said she ...

Do you think this can be worth anything or is it just a fantasy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles here is the situation... last week I had a chat with a high school friend who has been trying to get hold of me... we had nice thoughts until we spoke about dating... so I told him about my life and he told me about hi...

It's like shes the sun and I'm the earth. forever bound.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a feeling towards this one person. A young woman. She's a senior at the school that I attend. I am a sophmore and we share a class together. I can never work up the courage to go talk to her. Although one day she did come up t...

Ex lovers can rekindle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend went out for about a year. We were young but both had things for each other for 2 years and were each others first everything. He was my very best friend as I was his, and one could easily argue we were two people living in ...

My friend is flirting too much with my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and best friend are good friends. She was a cheerleader for his football team so they seen each other a lot. Me and him go out but people tell me she flirts with him all the time. I didn't believe anything was going on until they had a ...

Tips on how to get noticed and how to get her to like me??

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30 March 2009 (M) - I have never done this before but i hope you can help me with my problem. There is this girl i have known for a while and i have found that i quite fancy her. But she doesn't feel the same way about me or at least i don't think she does.i was w...

His co worker told me my boyfriend stopped caring for me 4 months ago... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together 2 years. He goes out with co workers but tells me nothing, does not text or call, he tells me he doesn't need to check in and doesn't want me to know where he hangs out. What do I do? His co worker told me he is ...

Even though they are together, he still stares at me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Well there's this guy and I like him A LOT. We're not friends, but we've spoken to each other and stuff. He used to act like he liked me but then he dated this girl and now they're together. But even though their together, he still stares (wh...

My friend & I both like the same boy..but I liked him first!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey, i know this might sound like a problem basically every teenager goes through but i wanted to right in cos i really don't know what to do. i really really like this boy, and i finally plucked up the courage to tell him i did, about 2-3 weeks ...

I want to have sex with my friend’s mum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I want to have sex with my friend’s mum. we are both single. I have a thing for my friend’s mum since I was in high school. She is in her 40s and I am 22. I know friend’s mum thinks I am cute as she has said so and has kissed/made out with me at ...

What do we say when the bill arrives???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello all! I have a dilemma that I need help with. I am godmother to both of my friend's children and whilst she is a lovely, geunine person, her partner is the biggest waste of space ever... He has always taken advantage of me money wise by giving ...

Help!!! How can I find out if a guy likes me without being to obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - How can I find out if a guy likes me without being to obvious. I have his number, sms'ed a few times. I only see him at church on Sundays. The sms'es were stuff that involved church. Thanks for the help....

Having feelings for someone...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I always thought when someone said they had feelings for someone it meant they liked them as more than a friend? So what's the difference between having feelings for someone (like people say when they like someone) and just having feelings for some...

3 guys but don't want to hurt any of them... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have major situation! I was fine, I had everything friends, family etc. I was single and have been for over a year but I was happy just being me and having fun. However, 1. My ex text me saying that he is being sent to Afganistan for 6 mouths, ...

How do I stop comparing myself to the new guy? How to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - We were together for 2 years and it was the most important relationship I have ever had because we started as friends first.(we also did and do work together), we both had issues, tried to work through them and ultimately it ended up that it "just ...

I think he's leading me on. What should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Okay I don’t go out with him but I really like him and he's made it seem pretty clear he likes me (walked me home, asked to buy me a drink, said he missed me etc) but i found out the other day he went to the show/fair thingy with another girl and ...

Either way I don't want to hurt my friends feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. There's a guy I like and we are friends but I don't know how he feels. A girl I know also likes him but whenever they're together she's all over him, like literally hanging off him, but he doesn't seem to be showing any interest in her....

Help with boyfriend's lies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice on dealing with my boyfriend and his lie. It all started a year ago when we had been dating for about 4 months. We had already opened up and talked about our pasts (exes, etc - but not in detail - just names and basics) and ...

In society how do people view what old in age

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Mode note: This is a follow up question to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-being-in-your-30s-young-or-old.html is 30 ,31,32,33 year old is old or young. or mature in comparison to some 27 years + is being 30 + old.in society is ju...

I just have a feeling he doesn’t like me like that

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I met about a year ago and in that year we have became very good friends. I believe I can say he is one of my best friends and recently I've developed a huge crush on him. I denied it to myself for a while, but finally gave ...

Friends interferring with relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Well, i like this girl with OCD, (whatever that means hehe) I have great feelings for her, yet my ex friend decided to put the poison down saying I cheated on her, which put some weird feelings into her, she isn't exactly avoiding me, but whenever ...

How do I get her friendship back and bring everything back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I fell in love with my best friend last year, and ever since it's just been really hard to cope because she has a boyfriend. She knows I love her because I told her before, but this didn't affect our friendship. A couple of weeks ago, her boy...

Hopefully my friend will make the right choice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - one of my best friends likes my ex (me and him broke up cuz idk ask him) well anyways he was kind of retard and yea but after we broke up he wanted to get back together(he dumped me)so i called him a pig and told him to get a life in which doesnt ...

I think I love my friend's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly two years. And the other weekend I hooked up with his best friend. Both me and his best mate have decided to keep it a secret. But I think I now have feelings for his friend now. Although I ...

I told her I had a crush on her but she said she's not interested... what now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I like this girl we've looked at each other from time to time and I said that I have a crush on you and that she's beautiful. She replied saying "ha thanks:)" and then we talked and today I sent her a message with the words of the song "your so ...

I let alcohol mess me up. How can I say I'm sorry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - DC readers have always helped me out and now I REALLY hope you can help me. I have a great relationship with a friend of mine who I would hope to one day make my girlfriend. I have screwed up before and she has always forgiven me. We are best...

He said he isn't ready to live with anyone as he hasn't lived alone long enough. Is this bullshit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for 5 years. I would like to get married to him or at least live together but he seems to want things his way... meaning he tells me that he never had much of a chance to live alone. He lived with a somewhat abusive parent ...