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Emotional games with guys are making me very unhappy

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Question - (25 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2009)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Im so unhappy..I think my friends playing mind games although he says he isnt and ''respects me''

he flirts one minute, (when we are drunk he tries to kiss me most nights. we came close to having sex one night but we stopped).he acts distant and the next minute we are best friends again until he does something to hurt me the next week :(

..he left me standin alone at 3am.hes also done a few other things to upset me such as tell people personal details that we nearly had sex (i was so angry).. do you think he even deserves my friendship let alone my kisses? he says he loves me to bits but its not what he says its what he does that upsets me.. i confronted him about it and he said he "text me" that night he left me standing alone, but i know for a fact he did not. He LIED! :( I dunno what is worse.. he said sorry and walked off..it didnt seem like he meant it at ALL..

I tried to move on from him by meeting a new guy who bought me £100 vouchers and treated me VERY well. now all of a sudden it seems he has lost interest too and hasn't text me. I really don't deserve all these emotional games after what ive been through in my life.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2009):

You asked this before and got good advice.

I suggest you take it.

Good Luck!! xx

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