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Remaining her friend is killing me

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Question - (19 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2009)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, *aewood writes:

I have this girl who is a close friend of mine,she allows me to hold her,hug her,touch her and she does whatever i ask her to do for me. I told her i loved her and would like her to be my girlfriend but she said no that she was not ready for a relationship and also wanted to be free,that we should remain friends. But recently she told me she had a boyfriend,i was so devastated,i told her i would stop talking to her,she became sad so i promised to remain friends with her. We still talk but i always feel bad because i love her. Pls what should i do,should i break up with her or just remain friends but it is killing me. Please help me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

sit her down have a 1 on 1 talk and explain to her the way you really feel and ask her if you could please try a relationship and if it doesnt work you'll remain staying friends but it would be good to at least try a relationship it wont hurt anyone. if she denys then leave her not fully but pull your love out of your friendship be friends but nothing more. you gotta let her go if she doesnt want you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009):

Sorry to say this but when girls see male as a friend they have difficulty seeing them in any other way.

If she'd rather have someone else than you it's probably because she doesn't see you as a 'man' to have her have any attractions towards you. You're probably lacking that 'manliness'.

Maybe try working out and gaining some more confidence and charge of what you do. When the improvements kick in she'll start seeing you differently.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009):

i feel your pain bro...

i'm in the same exact cituation...

the grl i love is like an angel

on earth

you should not break up with her

clearly she has some feelings for you..and

you never no what will happen in the future

so keep beying a good friend to her

it might breeak your heart that she's going

out with some one else(i feel u, i understand)

but its still gudd to be friends

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