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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I feel controlled by my girlfriend, but I wonder if I am the one in the wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm having problems with my girlfriend but im not sure if it is me who is in the wrong. I'm 30 and she is nearly 27. We have been going out 4 mths now, and I normally see her a few times a week. However she doesnt like me arranging social a...

We would text all the time. Now he won't reply. I don't mind if he doesn't fancy me anymore, I just want my friend back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I have been texting this guy that is around my age...a few months younger. We flirt all the time and he always compliments me which makes me feel really good and also makes me like him more. For example, if we see eachother that night and I am ...

I need to tell him how much I like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm 17 years old and just graduated from high school. I like a guy who is turning 17 August 9th. I've liked him for about 5-6 months now and I'm not sure if he knows I like him. We've been best friends for two years now. After getting advice from my ...

How do I try to overcome these intense feelings of jealousy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Well i'll just get straight to the point. I like this girl and I have done for quite a while now, and she doesn't feel the same way back. Which I'm coping with, not easily but I can deal with it. But the biggest problem at the moment is, if i know ...

I've dumped my boyfriend once before and regreted it. I don't want to make the same mistake again for a guy that comes off as a player.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm 14 and I had this friend for a while. We dated for a few weeks and I gave into peer pressure and dumped him. We became best friends but I regretted it everyday of my life for about 7 months, when we started dating again. We've been dating for 2 ...

I'm getting paranoide about my boyfriend's marrieds, female friend. How can I keep myself calm.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Maybe I am blowing this all out of proportion (past scars and all that), but i am very anxious about tonight... my bf has a friend who's a girl and they've been hanging out a lot, and enjoy each others' company. Also, they have nearly identical ...

Any suggestions as to helping me sort out these problems I have with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5940 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my fr...

Confused about my ex and feeling really blue, again! Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I have wrote on here before and got some really good advice, but im afraid i need help again over the same sort of problem. For background see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/confused-about-my-ex-and-feel-really-blue.html well its been ...

I felt he must have thought something of me, or am I being silly here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I cant make this guy out. I met him on holiday we didnt have sex although he was trying his best every day!!! He got angry becasue I didnt, but then when he returned back he emailed me and asked to meet up, and we did, a few days later (he doesnt ...

All 3 fancy me, so which one do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - well basically ive known these three guys since primary school till now, and we've all been good friends. All three of them fancied me at some stage in primary school but i have found out over the last couple of weeks that they all still do. proble...

He was so nice to me, and then he said I'm not giving him the space he needs. I feel lost.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I have a question. I was supported by a good friend during a very painful breakup. He and I became a little more than friends as we talked multiple times a day. He decided after we talked to come out to Arizona to meet me for a four day weekend. ...

Please let me know how to handle my crazy jealous wife!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I need advice this issue is tearing us apart. I met a friend online from another country. I find chatting with her interesting. There is nothing being said that is inappopriate. She is just interesting adn from a country I have always been ...

My friend asked the boy I fancy if he loves me; I will took to him soon, what shall I say to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'd like to begin by saying thankyou to those who are going to help me with my current predicament and if you need any help i will be there for you also! i love this guy. i have for three years. and i know some would think i'm to young to know lo...

I'm in love with my gay friend, but I'm beginning to wonder if he has feelings for me. He acts like he does.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - my best friend told me he was gay when it was too late and i'd already fallen for him. i'm seriously in love with him, and i have told him exactly the way i feel, it didn't effect our friendship and actually brought us closer together. he tells me t...

I think I'm in love with him, but I don't want to ruin our special friendship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i've been friends with this guy for like a realy long time,he's sweet, sensitive, and everything good, but the problem is im in love with him but he only loves me as a sister. and i cant seem to get him off my mind, i tried to convince myself t...

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, ...

My g/f has trust issues because most of my friends are girls. It's so annoying!.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's one problem, she has some body issues (she wears baggy clothing) and trust issues (thinks 'im cheating - which i'm not) all because most of my friend are girls, It's annoying. ...

My girlfriend's flatmates hate me - how do I change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, I have been going out with my girlfriend for a few months...and already there's a problem; her flatmates hate me. We are both 22, and she lives with a group of girls who seriously have it in for me! They constantly jibe at me, tell...

Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers when you're only 13?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers? I am 13 and I have quite a few friends who are teachers, I sometimes have lunch with them, I have some of their e-mail addresses and even get hugs off them. They joke around with me and they...

Shall I respond to ex who doesn't want me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - My ex g\f finished relationship about 4 months ago. She doesn't want be back but still likes to contact me every few weeks to say hi and how are you. Two weeks ago she wrote but i haven't replied because being in touch hurts me. Shall I just n...

She sees me more than she sees her boyfriend, the gift and the way she talks about him makes me wonder if she likes me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Posted the first part before, at here, under the title - "I don't want to interfere if he makes her happy, but I don't know how much longer he will keep it up.": http://www.dea...

I want to go out with my good friend my age but two grades behind me in school. How can I ask without risking losing his friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - there's this guy I've known since I was really little. We're best friends. He even lives just across the street from me! See, my problem is that he's a little less than a year younger than me. But he's 2 grades below me! I think he likes me... AL...

How do I ask a friend for a date? I'd like to get involved, but I'm afraid of losing him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i really, reallly like this guy, but he's a pretty good friend of mine. i'm worried that if i tell him or ask him out and he doesn't return my feelings, he'll pull away from me. also, his friend told me he liked me, but i have no idea if he was ...

Is it wrong to have a physical relationship with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I have a guy-friend. We used to be close but dated briefly and are just now renewing our friendship. Last time I spent time with him, we were joking around and ended up making out. Today, when I saw him again, he kissed me good-bye. I still have ...

How can I make more friends and have a fun social life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I know I might sound immature saying this, but I'm just frustrated and I wanted to see if anyone had any suggestions. My regular friends never seem to have time for me anymore and I really wnat to amke new ones(not to replace the old ones, but ...

My best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I have this one probleme my best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up, and it really huts to know she is doing that what should i do?...

I keep thinking to myself: SHES MY FRIEND! I don't want to think about her in black lingerie!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Sigh... I'm 22, not a daft wee boy. Sure as hell feel like one. I have a female friend, and sadly I've developed feelings for her, I now have a crush on her :( I thought that perhaps it was just the fact that it a progression due to the emotional...

I don't like being touched... is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I've noticed for a while now that I feel very uncomfortable when touched by anyone who is not in my immediate family. Whenever I make physical contact with a friend or anyone else, I get an unpleasant shiver and have to fight the instinct to pull ...

I'm bisexual (f) and I'm falling for one of my best friends. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I dont really know why im posting this, i guess it'll just help!!. Im bisexual(f) and i think im falling for, well, no, i am falling for one of my best friends who is straight unfortuantly;) lol. Anyway i dont want her to know because, well that...

"Loneliness......"

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29 July 2008 (M) - This is one of my journal entries from my Hi5 blog and it is entitled, "Loneliness." I have revised it so it can make alot more sense for you readers out there. Here it is: Loneliness is very hard to deal with. Not being able to have a lot of frien...

I protect my friend when he is being bullied and he gets mad at me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - My best guy friend is being abused by a girl. She used to pick me but it stopped by just ignoring her and not reacting at all. But hes not doing what I did. My other guy friend (most of my friends are guys)are standing by him nonstop. But for some...

I don't know how to react to my friend saying she is bisexual and that she likes me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hey there....well the other night I was texting my friend Rachel and she told me she was bisexual. Then I asked her if she liked anyone...and she said she likes me. I wasn't creeped out or anything I was just...I don't know what I was thinking! I ...

My three friends and I would like four cute names of party drinks, to be placed on our school jerseys, please help us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - So this isnt a love or sex question but its something that i could really use your help on. My school has these jerseys that the junior and senior girls get and you get to put what ever you want on the back of them like it can say what ever you want ...

My best friend is in love with a jerk, how can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - i seriously need help... my best friend has pretty much fallen in love with a idiot. he treats her like shit, and they don't even go out. he is so mean to her and her friends. and he even told her that he talks to other girls like that and he's ...

He kissed me at a party... does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have a male friend that is sometimes very talkative and shares a lot of his life with me. Other times it's like he hardly knows me. I think he is moody, but I sometimes take it personally. We were at a party not too long ago (for a mutual ...

Girl I want claims to only "like the attention" she gets from me, how do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - ok so there is a girl I have been talking to for about 2 years now, we have gotten very close to dating several times, but every time we get close, she claims that she "only likes the attention she gets from me." At first, I tried complimenting her ...

He's sending me mixed signals long distance. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have known ‘John’ for 10 years. Our dads are best buddies. Unfortunately, we didn't get the chance to meet up often as distance set us apart (we are frm different states). Besides, he's studying Medicine in a American Uni while im still in my ...

How do I make the move from friendship to relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - I'm not sure how to ask this. I feel I'm far to old to not already know the answer myself, but ... there you go. Basically, how exactly does one make the transition from friendship to a relationship? The young lady in question and I flirt constant...

I'm in love, but he's my best friend and we can NEVER be together. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) - Im getting deeper and deeper into someone that i can NEVER HAVE. we were friends. then close friends. then we slept together. now we are best friends and we talk to each other on the phone and see each other all the time. but the thing is im in...

How do I stop cheating with my friend, when I have a boyfriend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend and a really great friend! I have an affair with this friend how can i stop it? he knows I hav a BF and doesnt want to say anything that will ruin my BF and I..how can i stop the love life with my friend, i dont think i need it if ...

SHOULD I tell my friend I like her, although she has a boyfriend? I feel this will help me move on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - I have known a certain girl for about a year. We are pretty good friends, but not in the sense we hang out a lot. We get along and I really like her. I see her maybe once or twice a week because we have some similar friends. I actually just st...

My friends got really annoyed with the video I put on YouTube and Bebo. Are they over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) - ok.. i put a video of my friends and i mucking about on youtube and bebo i told them i was going to put it on bebo. and then got really annoyed when they found out it was on youtube. but you cant put a vid on bebo without it being put on youtube. ...

Is it a good idea to take a short break before trying to sort out this drama with my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - would it be a good idea to take a break from all my friends and boyfriend for 3 days to clear my head cause of all the stress that is going on with me and my friends.. cause my best friend ashley feels that im with my other friend cynthia and my f...

I'd like to me more than 'good friends', but I don't think he's getting the hint.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 17 and in need of some love guidance. There's this guy I've known for over a year and we get on great. We talk/see each other on a daily basis, flirt, know tons about each other, make each other laugh (sometimes we tease but we both know...

My friend told a co-worker he had feelings for me, but he never told me he was getting married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - Pretty strange question but here goes. I've recently heard some shocking news, and i'm confused as to why it has been treated like a secret, i hope that maybe i could get a general consensus or verdict from someone who doesnt know me, or the ...

Should I cut contact? How to get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - Had a girl come after me about 18 months ago, barmaid in my local. She was frustrating from the off with her behviour whilst I was trying to figure out if we were going to get together, a female mutual friend tried to set us up with the old my ...

Things have got a bit weird since I kissed my best friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - Ok this may take a while ..lol I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on what to do- normally I would be good at this kind of thing but I feel lost on this one. Me and my best friend have been hanging out 5 years now- I feel a big ...

My older friend seems to have stopped talking to me since I told him how I felt. I really just want to stay friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - hello mates!!!!!! im in a kinda tight spot and i really need helpyou see 3-4 years ago meet this incredible guy one problem was that hes 12 years older than me.but we became friends.as the time went by i started to devolp romantic feelings for him....

I would like to ask her how she feels about him but I could not because it shows I do not trust her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - My girlfriend told me she has a friend. She knows him before we are couple and during she was with her xs. She shares a lot of things with him. Her happiness and sadness. The guy does the same. I know if she loves him, we will not be a couple now....

My friend has been withdrawing from me...how hsould I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - First, let me start by saying I'm not a teenager, instead a woman in her 30's. I have fallen head over heals with a friend of mine, but have NO CLUE what he is thinking!!! We have known each other for almost 10 years. We were more 'friends of a fr...