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writes:I'd like to begin by saying thankyou to those who are going to help me with my current predicament and if you need any help i will be there for you also!i love this guy. i have for three years. and i know some would think i'm to young to know love but i personally think that you can't be a specific age. about 2 weeks ago my friend finally has grown tired of listening to my grumbles of not knowing if he loves me back. she told me to call him but i was too scared of been rejected. i rang her home phone and she rang his mobile on her mobile and put the phone on loud and asked him whether he liked me she said to him " your not fooling me *********" and he said "i guess not" he trusts me more than he trusts anyone and when he gets back we're going to meet up and have a talk. what do you think the outcome will be? what shall i say?and what do you think he will say?like i said as i began help is greatly appreicated. Reply to this Question
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reader, francescaa +, writes (27 April 2009):
well i would just tell him. ive been in this situation and i know exactly how you feel. Is he nice to you?Do you talk alot?If he tries to get your attention by starting as convo/saying things to you like 'youre gay' as he walks past. He either means dont like you youre a loser or hes trying to get your attention cos he never knows what to say to you.Is he frigid? cos if he is i wouldnt bother, theyre no fun :)talk to him more and start convo's with him, when you talk to him look in his eyes so he sees and notices you more. and when youre talking perhaps look down and smile and look at him again. its a sign for him that you like him.hope i help, :) xxxxx
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reader, cool girl faye +, writes (22 September 2008):
I think you should say what you feel and that you have loved him for three years and that you were too scard to tell him. So you got your friend to phone him. You should also say that you just want to know if he loves you back and just hear what he has to say and see what happens .
bye ps. I hope everthing goes well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): i would say hello hi how are you my name is ..... i have been admiring you for along time but i was afraid to talk so my friends decide to come to you for me.
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 gecko12 is right. What you call love changes as you get older. But if you think you love him, you probably do.What exactly did your friend and the boy say? i think i understand but it's a bit confusing.Trust is one of the most important things in a good relationship so if he trusts you and you trust him more than anyone else, that is a good thing.As for what you say, tell him how you feel but also what feels right at the moment. You don't want to jump into a conversation and right away tell him i love you. You'll appear desperate and needy. In the future, don't fear rejection. If you never try you'll never know, right?Hope this helps, and if you want more help just mail me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Huh well thats confusing...
I don't really know your previous situation, and I hope people that do answer this question. I don't know you, I don't know him. I can't guess what people I going to think or say.
Love is a complicated thing...you probably do love him BUT as you get older it does evolve into more serious things, and I guarantee that you won't think anything of what you call love now, when you are older.
Confusing I know but you've got to go with your feelins at the present time.
Say whats on your mind. It might end it might not but you need to say whats on your mind, listen to replies, don't stab at him and if he starts yelling at you then whats the point!?
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