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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Disturbed by my pedophillic urges, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm on the upper end of 16-17. I'm a pretty screwed up person in general... but I'm going to ask about one problem on this occasion. Should I be disturbed by pedophiliac urges? Yes, okay I probably should be... stupid question. I would ...

My cousin loves me but I don't as I love my boyfriend. How do I reject him without hurting his feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been super close with my male cousin (who is two months older than me) since we were newborns. We're now both 21 and things are just friggin' weird between us. He's always been the shy cousin while I've been the outgoing one trying to get ...

What should I do after graduation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - ok... i know there are alot of questions on her about this, but i need some input. i am a senior in college, about 5 months from graduation and i have a crush on my professor. I know nothing can happen right now because of the whole teacher-st...

Should I tell dad that his new fiancee is the same girl I had sex with at a drunken frat party?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - i met this really hot girl at a frat party and we got drunk and had sex. she was a year older and graduated a few months later so nothing after that happened. my parents got divorced a year later and when my dad started dating he got engaged with ...

We are from different backgrounds, but we love each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - i love my boyfriend truely. N i wish 2 spnt the rest f my lif with him. The only problem is we are of different tribes n my parents dont like the people of his tribe. What shall i do. And my family doesnt know about him yet. M afraid to tell my ...

My BF is obsessed with sexting me and I think it's inappropriate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost three months. I love him and he loves me. Very much. Our parents refuse to let us date, so we date through text messages, late at night, when we are alone. He likes to virtually "do" me while talking. He ...

I lied to my Mom, but I love this boy so much

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - About 5 months ago i met my uncle's wife's brother at my little cousin's birthday party. They all live in mexico so i rarely see them. This boy and I didn't talk, we just looked at each other and smiled, through out the whole party. After that...

Why is my married colleague acting so weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I’m confused. I am a single woman in her 30’s who has not been a relationship now for a year. A few weeks ago started a new job whereby I share an office with three other colleagues, 2 of whom are married men and one of which I find attractive but ...

Her parents will disown her if she continues to date me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - I'm 27 years old and my gf is 27 to. The problem is that her parents hate me because I got an owi. Now that she is with her parents treat her like shit. They Said as long as she is with me they don't want no part of her life. Her parent are judging ...

I'm not cheating on anybody but he is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Ok so there's this guy who graduated and left home for college about 2 hours away. I always thought he was cute but nothing too big. A few months ago we started chatting alot on facebook and I became a bit interested but then I found out he had ...

I think I love my cousin! Is it legal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - i don't know what this is! i feel so warm and fuzzy when I'm around him. Every time he's around it's like I'm happy. I couldn't help but think, am I in love with my cousin? Is that even illegal? He's just so darn cute and I can't but think I am. ...

I think I like my 21 year old cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - my cousin's 21, and i've always been close to him all our family are close, but i think i like him, like not just as my cousin. i know it sounds weird, but it happens right? please could you help me and give me some advice on what i should do?...

Uk law and teachers keeping in touch with ex students

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - i was just wondering what the UK law says about teachers keeping in touch with heir ex students in both a friend way and in a relationship way. A little bit of background .. the student being 17 and at a sixth form at a different school the te...

I may be in love with my stepdaughter...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - I married my ex wife with her having a 8 month old daughter.I stayed married to her mother untill she was 13.than me and her mom got a divorce and me and my stepdaughter built a incredible relationship up to that point.(know by incredible I mean ...

The things she is saying are total wishful thinking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - hey im friends with this teacher and we have alot of fun joking with eachother, im his ex student. I'm pretty close to him and we consider eachother as friends however this girl he talks to also has strted making stuff up about him flirting and ...

Does my teacher have feelings for me? Or is this normal behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - We'll I'm 16 years old, female and it my first year in college. So,I have Saturday classes and my classes were on Military Training Service. As far as I know, military training is quite hard but I still chose it because I've always wanted to try i...

Can I have sex with my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - hi, , i am 28 attracted towards my cousin sister ,shweta ,she is 33 yearrs old and married.she is very nice to me.i dont know how to approach her?,once i met her last month after gap of 1 yearrs then i touched her feet ,but she hugged me from ...

I make out with my step brother on a regular basis and I know its wrong. What do I do?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - this has nothing to do with any of my other questions.. its just diff. drama.. and im sorry its long! okay welll my dad got married a month ago to a really nice women.. all she talked about was her 2 kids.. lets say danny and andrew.. well on...

Housebound and developed a crush on my brother-in-law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - 14years ago whilst my sister was pregnant with her second child I went for a year to Australia it was great and I had lots of fun but whilst I was there I had a panic attack and from there on it got worst. Almost 15 years on and i live with my ...

I'm falling for my gay male cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (?) - First off, please don't judge me.. I'm finding myself falling for my adopted cousin who is also a gay male, who is 20. I'm 19 years old and a straight female. He got adopted into my family when he was around 2. We didn't really know each other when ...

My Cousin's seduction strategies are working, now I want it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I met my cousin for the first time a year and a half ago during the summer. She moved down to my state to attend college in the city. Long story short i realized that she has been trying to make attempts to seduce me. Trying to undress in the same ...

Should I tell him I'm the one who created a fake facebook profile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - HI all, Now that the semester is over. I think it is okay to tell my college teacher that I like him. But first off, let me give yall a little background. My teacher is 27 years old currently a grad student at my school. I have a crush on him, ...

In love with a married man, how do I say 'no' when my heart says yes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Okay, here is the deal. I am in college, but right now I am on winter break. My sister, still in high school, and I went to go watch her boyfriend in a school performance. The teacher I used to have a crush on was there. I gave up on anything ...

I pretty much ruined his relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Okay first of all I don't want anyone judging or making rude comments on here. I just need some serious advice. Okay. So last night me and my friends got really drunk at this party. My ex was there.. Well.. I don't even know if I should call him an ...

Why does she reject me when her mind is clearly saying "yes"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - theres this girl i love that i cant get out of my head. she says she just wants to be friends but her actions dont say so. on the bus to school she plays with my hair and flirts with me. thats not the only reason i love her. shes just so amasing her ...

He's out of my league!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - So I started talking to this guy a few months ago. I never thought he could like me because i just feel he's out of my league, but he's shy and he's hot but doesn't know it if you know what i mean. Our conversations have included: -Aski...

Falling for my best friend's girlfriend!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

18 December 2010 (M) - I have a dilemma!!! I have a best friend who has a girlfriend. we three are best friends. i dont know when i fell for my friend's girl. i have even told this to her as she is very close to me and she reacted in a positive way. she often calls me ...

Am I going crazy or does my boyfriend's relationship with his sister seem worrying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - My fiance and myself have been together for 3 and a half years, lived together for 3 and have two little girls. His family is scattered all over the world. he has a brother, a half brother, 2 sisters and a step sister. When we met, his sister,...

Bigamy in my family. How can it be resolved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - My sister got married 10 years ago in India. Her husband is working in Abu Dhabi. They have three daughters. For some reason her husband got an affair with another girl in india (through internet) and they got married without divorcing my sister and ...

Heartbroken and confused about my future love life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I dated someone for 8-9 months and it has been fully 5 months since the breakup and i'm still not over him. it was my first relationship. the break was really hard. I am worried that maybe he is the one, why else am i having such a hard time moving ...

Attracted to my therapist. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - I feel attracted to my therapist and understand that unfortunately absolutely nothing is going to come out of that attraction, for the following reasons: 1. The therapist, despite her friendly, non-judgmental disposition, is just doing what she i...

How do I stop my best friend from thinking of me as his future girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - How in the world, am I spouse to make my best friend stop thinking about me as his future girl friend??? he is my oldest and best friend, I just dunno how to make him understand that I don't love him the way he loves me. Every now and then he have ...

Should I tell her I love her? Even if it's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Well I'll start at the beginning. I have been in love with a women that's ten years older than me for three years. I want to state very cleary right now that I am not a naive obsessed teen either. I first met this women through my church, which I ...

Should I tell my cousin I love her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - I am 32 years old, and i belive i am in love with my cousin, she is 28 years old (she is my frist cousin) for the last year all i do is think about her. what should i do tell her or not....

Views on student crushes on their teachers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I really like a teacher...So I have liked many teachers before but once again i am in love with this teacher but the thing is i dont atcually have him as a teacher...he is an computing teacher and the first time i saw him i really liked him...one ...

Should I date him even though he's a few years younger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - i've recently begun going out with my younger cousin he is 19 and i'm 23.. anyways we always go out and have such a good time, me with my friends and him with him altogether. and i started chatting to his mate, i used to know him from years ago w...

How can I contact my boyfriend in private?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - hi im here for asking for help This is the first x-mas of me and my bf together.. we r in a LDR and my parents dont know about our relatioship (Well in arab socitey we dnt use to tell our parents about the relationship we r in because if they ...

My girlfriend's parents are forcing her to marry someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - actually the thing is that my girlfriend is 5 years elder than me and her parents are forcing her to get married with some other guy.... i am very young in age only 19, my problem is that i can not talk to my parents about this. what should i do?? p...

Falling in love with my out of country cousin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hi! Im confused and need your advice please. I think im falling inlove with my first cousin. The first time i met him was 5 years ago when they spend their vacation here in PI coz he was born in US and he grew up there.It's weird coz the first ti...

Lesbian love for my sixth grade math teacher! HELP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hey there! Well, I need help. I am in love with my sixth grade math teacher. Now, I know I know you're going to say, "Oh it's just a crush it's just a crush", but I know it's not. This is serious, very serious to the point where I'm obsessed with ...

Everyone assumes he's gay but, I think he might be into me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - Hi I need a bit of advice! Met a colleague of my sisters for the first time yesterday, he's very cute, howeve everyone in the department, for various reasons, assumes he's gay, but I'm not so sure. As soon as I walked into the office he wa...

Did he write me a letter just because he knew I liked him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 December 2010 (?) - Me and this guy have known eachother for almost thirteen years, we've always been almost friends, mostly just competing for the best grades and stuff as we always had lessons together. Anyway now we're both 17 and I realised about two months ago ...

Should I tell him in one year when I leave school, or wait the two years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - I'm a secondary school student in the UK, aged 16. I'm leaving in June to head to college. I consider myself a pretty normal individual but I have Asperger's Syndrome which means I've matured emotionally, much too early. According to my files, I'm ...

I have a problem, I like my teacher!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - I have a problem I like my history teacher. I know it is wrong, but it's getting worse. everytime i see him my heart beats faster and feels like it is going to explode, just like when i think about him. he is married and has two kids,and there is a ...

Should I have a relationship with my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - Hey, Hello my name is Salah i made this account to let loose a sercet i have keept from my famliy or 3 months... Ive had sex with my cousin. It's werid i mean now i look back to it i seems ook i mean i have feeling for her she dose to but i ...

I kissed a girl and she ran away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - I went to a party on Monday and this girl approached me and we started dancing, i asked for her name and what she studies (it was a university party) She was rubbing her hands on my chest and i was feeling on her bum. Anyway she looked really shy as ...

She is dating someone else, but asks me for help with everything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - hi, i have a friend who is a girl. yes I am sweet on her a little,but I was okay with being her friend because she has a guy she is seeing but here is the thing, the guy is a big shot sort of and is always busy. so she ends up asking me to do ...

Help! I'm in love with my brother-in-law

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Please let me explain in detail. I have been with my husband for 8 years, we have only been married for 3 years. We have two kids under 5. Our marriage has been on the rocks for about as long as we have been married because we had kids right away ...

Am I in love with my teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Kso. I have a problem. and Im confused about it. I have this teacher. and He is always there for me. He is sweet, kind, and it seems like he focuses more on me, than anyone else. For example; 1. He ALWAYS seems to make eye contact with me....

Every time we talk about a relationship the conversation gets awkward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - ok cupid heres one for you, im in love with my best friend (its a boy btw) but i dont want to be at all its just weird when we're together but we both try to stop it but nothing seems to work and its not exactly like we an avoid each other either ...