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writes:Ok so there's this guy who graduated and left home for college about 2 hours away. I always thought he was cute but nothing too big. A few months ago we started chatting alot on facebook and I became a bit interested but then I found out he had recently got a girlfriend. So I stayed away a bit. But then a we started talking when he came to visit home and we hungout and kissed and had a good time. after that we kept in contact very often. Eventually he admitted he had a crush on me. And I sort of developed a crush on him. So just last week when he came to visit again we hung out more and we seriously act like were in a relationshi[. We ended up having sex. I dont feel bad because it's not my problem. Im not cheating on anybody. And i dont expect him to break up with her because 1st shes over there where he currently lives and im over here. and 2nd I probably wouldn't get with him because of distance. I guess my question is what should I do about the feelings I have. He's an awesome guy, we have tons in common. But I keep my guard up and don't get attatched because of circumstances..HELP
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reader, steph007  +, writes (27 December 2010):
You do not need any help. You like this boy, who has a g/f, so your relationship now is just a left hand side adventure. So enjoy the time you spend together but be open to other relationship which can be a serious one, instead of this, or parallel to this, as the life will bring it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): "I dont feel bad because it's not my problem"I'm afraid it is your problem because you are sleeping with someone's boyfriend. I'm not going to judge because things happen but you don't sound the least bit guilty.If you want to carry on being his bit on the side that is up to you but that is all you will ever be. If by some miracle he dumped her and got with you, he'd do the same thing to you as he's doing to his current girlfriend.You'll end up hurt in the end but if you have no problem with having sex with somebody's boyfriend then carry on.
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