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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

My bf wants us to live together but isn't ready for marrige. I am also attracted to this other guy who likes me back. Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I am almost 26 and have been dating a man for 4 years. I bought a house and want to marry him. I know he is not ready yet. He is applying to Pharmacy school and wants me to move with him. I don't want to give up my good job or my house for ...

My husband spends most of his time at work and not at home. I have also taken a liking to one of his co-workers. I can't stop thinking about him! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - They always say that a problem shared is a problem halved but in this case just writing it down will help. I am newly married mother of two young children and been with my partner for 7 years. My husband is a wonderful man, gets on with all my famil...

Ive fallen for my ex's sister-in-law! What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a dilema, my girlfriend has recently broken up with me and i am just starting to get over her. But i kept in contact with her sister in law, she has been a rock to me we have always got on great and she has confided personal things ...

We want to make our textual affair into a real one for just one night. But, the guilt is holding us back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Hi, Feeling a bit strainge writing on this website, but I need some help with out getting insults. I have been reading through some other problems to see what the replies are like and I know I am probably in for a telling off. Here's the pro...

Infatuated with one of my teachers... when I leave school, can I date him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I know there are already similar questions asked but I would like a personal response to my situation. I am 17 and in my final year of school and really like one of my teachers. I think he is in his mid thirties and I know he is not married and ...

Help! I'm stuck in a love triangle! Does he really love me, or should I ignore him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Okay right.Yeah i love my boyfriend but I also love my boyfriend's best mate who is going out with my best mate. But i think he (my boyfriend's best mate) loves me also. But anyway, my best mate's BROTHER has now tried to be secretive. Texting me ...

I feel stupid for having this crush on my biology teacher! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - Hiya people, This is really stupid of me i am 18 and have a crush on my 34 year old biology teacher i feel like i am 14 all over again like when i had my first crush on a different teacher. I have no idea what to do :S yesterday he not...

I'm not gay but... I have feelings for my teacher!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

23 January 2007 (M) - I am a 16 year old male at school and realised that I have feelings for one of my male teachers and have done pretty much since he started teaching me in september 2005. It's strange because im not gay, in fact I have very normal feelings towards ...

How do I stop my bisexual thoughts towards my cousin!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - hi! ok im bisexual and i have feelings for my cousin (girl). i know nothing can happen because she is a very good friend aswell as a relative. i was worndering if anyone knows anyways to stop myself feling this way! thank you! xxXXxx...

My husband takes me for granted so I cheated on him with a guy at work. But this guy is married aswell. Who should I choose? My husband or the married guy at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for 20 years to a guy who takes me completely for granted, we have no kids because he doesn't want any (I do!)Just lately I have been attracted to another man at work. I got a new job working in the same office as this man, I ...

Fallen for my therapist, but she's never been with a woman before...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I wrote a long time ago about being friends with my therapist. We had the agreed time apart between our professional and now private friendship so that it was 'ethical'. We have a great relationship and we really get each other as peopl...

I'm crazy about her but she's married! She says she feels 'something' but is commited to her marrige. What can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - I'm a single guy in my thirties. Last year i met this great woman at a place i don't go to very often. I asked her out as i thought she was lovely and amazing. She refused as she's married. A couple of months ago, i met with her again at the s...

Found out the 36 year old I'm dating is married... he wants me to be his "other lady"... advice so far is mixed!?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - Hi, i need some help. I am 21 and this guy i am attracted to is 36yrs.Dont think he is taking advantage before him i have always dated older men.Recently i found out he is married and he admitted.I was very upset but we are still communic...

Am I in love with the man or just the idea of being with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6547 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - I have recently become incredibly close to a friend of mine who is a good deal older than myself to the extent that we flirt with each other and spend a great deal of our time together. Thing is he lives with another woman his own age. I don't know ...

If my casual guy is happy with his gf why does he come to me for sex? It also seems like he wants more than sex. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - Is he really happy with his girlfriend? I have been having what I thought was casual sex with a guy for a year and a half now but he has a girlfriend of 15 years. They don't live together and they never have sex. He wants to spend weekends away with ...

My husband died almost 2 years ago and I've become very close to his brother... would this be right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - my husband husband died almost two yrs ago my brother in law and I have become good friends He thinks it's wierd to even think our relationship could go any futher. (what would family think...friends think..ect. ) I have know problem ( hopeless ...

How do I stop having a crush on my husband's cousin - I'm not sure how I'll act once I've had a drink around him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - I'm just really looking for some advice. I'n not sure whether I am in love with my husbands cousin or whether it's just a schoolgirl like crush on him. I have only been married to my husband for almost a year and have a young daughter, but I ...

I'm married but my male friend confessed he had feelings for me. I haven't heard from him for a while. Do you think its over with he and I?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6546 days ago

17 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I've been happily married for 10 years. I recently met a really nice guy who i thought would make a good friend. We have been chatting a bit; he calls to my place of work to see me (i work in a public building). He doesn't text or ...

I'm attracted to my co-worker, we are both married but I care for her and I'm not sure if she feels the same. Any thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

17 January 2007 (M) - I have a co-worker that her and I are attracted to each other. We are both married, she's actually my co-owners sister-in-law. She likes older men, I'm 33, and I like younger women, she's 25. We have messed around a few times, but nothing major, ...

She's my ideal woman, except she's newly married!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

15 January 2007 (M) - In short: met her year ago at work, (she was new employee).She was about my age,smart,charming,elegant,beautiful,everything which I ever dreamed of.And married.And childless (not hopeless,though,she was married freshly and told me that "somethi...

I want to jump on him and rip all his clothes off. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6547 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - Ok I have a boyfriend and I love him very much. We have been together for over a year and we could not be happier. Where I work there is this guy. He just makes me feel up with butterflys when I see him, almost like I want to jump on him and rip ...

LUST SUCKS especially for a teacher

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - i really need help on this. im sooooo sexually attracted to this new teacher in our school. hes in his 30s and im 18. im not gonna say im in love because i really just think its a sexual attraction. i get sooo worked up when i see him in the halls i ...

He said that im only 16 and i told him age doesnt matter

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 January 2007 (F) - in the summer of 2005 i went to Puerto rico for a month,then when i came back to new jersey i saw these men walking down the street.and i had never seen them before. little did i know that they moved across the street from me. then after 8 months ...

Cant get my ex tutor out of my head. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6552 days ago

13 January 2007 (F) - Hello I really need some advice on this. Right i had a huge crush on my fourm tutor when i was 15 and im 19 now, nothing happened between us apart from when i looked at him i blushed and so did he and one year i got an valentines card of him and ...

My BF told me to move on because his parents won't approve of our relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - hi everyone, im 23 years and in college. i started dating with my boyfriend about an year ago. i ve a 2 yr old son from my ex. my boyfriend was the one always after me. at first, i didnt take him that seriously. but he just wouldnt let it go. he a...

He's a newly married man, should I risk getting together with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - i am in love with a newly married man he is 13 years older than me but we connect so well.the thing is he flirts with me too and told me that he really likes me.should i risk it and go with him or should i just leave it please help....

I'm infatuated with my biology teacher...how do I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - i am infaaaaatuated with the new bio teacher. he is also the new top coach for our school with an amazing resume. omg i cant stoppp staring at him. whenever i did my homework or studied in the library and he'd walk in, i wouldnt be able to ...

I feel trapped that I cannot go out with anyone else. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

10 January 2007 (M) - I have a girlfriend i been with for 3 years. we have split up for six month but have been back together for a yr. I love her but i met this girl recently who i have been really fond with. I am only 19 yrs old and i feel trapped that i cant go out ...

His sister's fiancee and I seem better suited for each other. How do I find out how this guy really feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) - Im in love with my boyfriends, sisters fiancee. We flirt when we are together and when we r together he does all the a typical flirting body language. I know hes due to be married, but i feel deep down we are better suited. I think we are both to s...

His mum hates me. Is it because of religion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

9 January 2007 (F) - ok this is an odd one to ask but i would like some help as im a little lost as to what i can do or say to help im very upset at mo i found a friend had died this morning and i have another problem thats weighing heavy on my mind.. , my bf loves me ...

I am in love with my brother's wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

6 January 2007 (M) - i am in love with my brothers wife. I am going threw a devorce with my wife she left me for a woman but that is another store. i t all started back 7 years ago we all met at the race track at the same time. i fell in love with her then her and my ...

I'm 16 and going out with my ex-teacher, age 34...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) - Ok so heres my story, im 16 nearly 17 and im going out with a guy who is 33 nearly 34, we've been together almost 9 months now and things are great..its also a long distance relationship, he lives in another country but i plan to move there with him ...

Ended up in bed with my (female) boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) - I am in a real dilemma. I am a openly gay lady with a fantastic job. My problem is that I could have just thrown all of that away. I went for a drink with my female boss the other night as she wanted to say a job well done on a project I had comp...

I have feelings for my teacher!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

4 January 2007 (F) - I've recently got quite close to one of my teachers from school (I'm 21 now). We'd had each others email addresses from school and had kept in touch through that for some time as we had got on really well at school but, over the last few months we ...

I can't stop flirting with the girl at work, but I'm happily married! What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

4 January 2007 (M) - Ive been working in my new place for about 18 months now. My department is great and we all seem to get on. Im happily married and there is a younger girl in our department and things have gone where they shouldnt have. I like her and get on ...

I'm 29, going out with a man of 48 but am falling in love with his son! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6561 days ago

4 January 2007 (F) - I've been going out with a divorced man, for a few months. He is older than me, he's 48, and I'm 29. He was my professor in university and I was originally attracted by his more mature nature and his similar love for antiques. My boyfriend was prev...

Developed feelings for my supervisor at work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - hey this may not sound like a big problem but to me it is. i started my job a little over a month ago now but ive developed feelings for my supervisor and cant get him out of my head. i have no idea if he feels the same way and i want to approach ...

I'm torn between my current bf and my ex? Who should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - Torn between two loves but which one is the better one for me. im 20 and have been in a 2year relationship.i have no ambition to have sex its like its a chore for me,with the guy i am with. Yet with my first love we dated like 6years ago and still ...

Found great guy but mom doesn't approve. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

3 January 2007 (F) - Dear cupid i am currently going out with a boy. Hes a very nice kid you know very respectful and down to earth we've almost been going out for a month now and my mom found out how old he is hes 19 and im 15 but i'll be 16 in april and my mom told me ...

He's separated from his wife and wants things to get serious with me. I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

2 January 2007 (F) - I really need some advice on my relationship. I have been seeing a married man who is twice my age for 18 months and we are totally in love with each other, however I always told him I did not want anything serious with him, because of his stage in ...

17 dating 13?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

1 January 2007 (M) - i am a normal male guy who just turned 17 and there is this girl who i have been talking to and we get along really well she says she likes me and i like her but she is 13 nearly 14 is this wrong if so why do i like her?? any help would be nice...