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I'm 29, going out with a man of 48 but am falling in love with his son! What should I do?

Tagged as: Age differences, Breaking up, Family, Forbidden love, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (4 January 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2007)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been going out with a divorced man, for a few months. He is older than me, he's 48, and I'm 29. He was my professor in university and I was originally attracted by his more mature nature and his similar love for antiques.

My boyfriend was previously married and has two children from that marriage. A daughter, who is 27, and a son, who is 21.

The problem is, I am more attracted to his son than to him. Whenever we're alone, his son starts coming onto me, I do secretly want to go out him, but how do I break up with my boyfriend in such a way that allows me to date his son?

For his son's 21st birthday last week, he invited me to the his party with his friends. My boyfriend said I should go, so I went. We both got really drunk and well....things happened. Nothing illicit, but now I'm confused.

I don't know what to do? Do I stay with my boyfriend? Go for his son? or just avoid the family all together?

I think I've fallen in love though...with his son.

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A male reader, JS7000 +, writes (4 January 2007):

I can't think of any form of betrayal worst than this.

This guy is willing to betray his own father in the worst possible way. If you look at the whole picture here, it's clearly obvious that this guy isn't the great person you may think he his. HE'S WILLING TO SLEEP WITH HIS OWN FATHER'S GIRLFRIEND. You can't get any lower than that.

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