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writes: i really need help on this. im sooooo sexually attracted to this new teacher in our school. hes in his 30s and im 18. im not gonna say im in love because i really just think its a sexual attraction. i get sooo worked up when i see him in the halls i cant even explain. my locker is fortunately right outside his room. i see him like every period and i get really nervous and start to sweat. we talk alot about the most random things but sometimes i just want to blurt out.. "umm can we step into your room because i want to bang you like now." and my feelings are totally obvious to him. he catches me staring at him ALL THE TIME!!, hes heard kids say to me behind him.."why dont you just go F*#$ that teacher!" or "eww you think hes hot!!?" people call out my name really loudddd every time he passes through the hallway, and he'd spot me whispering something to my friends everytime he'd walk by and they'd stare at him and giggle. one time i walked by his classroom and he double took as i walked by then i stood around a little bit past his room talking to a friend and i saw him slowly peek out his door towards where i was..and i was like..oh sorry are we being too loud? he like stuttered and gave some lame excuse to why he peeked out i couldnt even understand wat he said ..he definately thought i was still walking past and hadnt turned around(what should i think of that) i dont know what i should do. that happened 2x now. hes a new teacher i dont want to get him in trouble. but the thing that confuses me is that despite all the signals and obvious hints ive been giving.. he doesnt try to avoid me. he comes up to me and talks to me all the time and note i dont even have him for ANYTHING no classes no nothing!! i basically dont have any business talking to him yet he makes the effort to make conversation with me when im at my locker. i catch him staring at me too and my friends catch him staring at me all the time. sometimes he'd stare at me waiting for me to say hi if i didnt see him walk by. he looks all nervous when hes talking to me and smiles at me every time we pass.. hes sooooo hot and i just want to be with him even if its only once.. LUST SUCKSSSSSSSS..and i dont want to end up actually falling for him ..wat do i do? im graduating in a june ..should i make some kind of move? like verbally? because the eye staring isnt really getting me anywhere!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): OMG i am going through something that you are too... except he doesn't like me. he is so bitter to me, lmao. omg buh private message me, we so have to talk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): OMG i am going through something that you are too... except he doesn't like me. he is so bitter to me, lmao. omg buh private message me, we so have to talk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): i had the same thing happen to me - only ive now been going out with my EX teacher for the last 10months!!!
dont give up hope...u never know what will happen!!
Good luck xx
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reader, laulau88  +, writes (25 January 2007):
i am almost in the same position as you i am 18 too and have feelings for a 34 year old teacher.
I just don't dare say anything to him.
If i was to say anything it would be before i left and i would do it in an Adult way rather then in a childish way. gosh if he didn't like me i would not dare go in his lesson again i'd be so embarrased
Just don't make him feel uncomfortable doing his job
but from the things you say and the way he behaves it may well be that he likes you too but is too shy to say anything
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): I know how you're feeling anonymous poster of question. I had feelings very similar to yours with one of my teachers, but the difference is that we're both male, even though I'm not gay... (that sounds so contradictory and it confuses me... lol) AND I'm only 16. so I know what you're going through. I agree with 'jacktheripper' in the fact that maybe talking to him about it and asking him out after school may be the best solution.
Also, the feelings for my teacher have been going on for about 18 months now, and though they originally started out as Sexual attraction, this is now that and more. I assume yours will be similar. So, just be smart about how you deal with it so you do not get him fired etc. and he must feel something for you if he is making every effort to talk to you even though you have no business ;) lol.
Anyway good luck hun. Hope it goes well :) xx
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reader, jacktheripper +, writes (18 January 2007):
Hold on there now, Lilly223. Surely you're not trying to insinuate that YOU never felt attracted to a teacher as a student? And telling her to act like an adult is a bit rich, seeing as she IS acting like an adult by admitting her feelings and seeking advice in the first place!! :(Now, anonymous poster of this question. I understand how it feels to feel lust towards a teacher, and it is perfectly understandable why you want to seek advice about it. You are 18, which means that you are the legal age of consent, I assume? Then it is entirely up to you, what you do outside of school. He may not respond to your flirtations within the school grounds, but try asking him on a date sometime after class. If you feel that you are certain about the course of action you want to take, then may I advise you to keep it quiet; do not get it spread about because he could lose his job. I know that seems quite contradictory but there is a final bit; since you are 18 and you shall be leaving school in just under 5 months, then if he accepts your proposal of a date, keep it quiet until after you leave. Because then he cannot lose his job!! Hope this has been of some help to you, rather than the soul-crushing post made before mine!!-Mattie-
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Stop this behavior right now. Have you considered how uncomfortable you may be making him feel by acting this way? He may be trying to talk to you to get across to you that he is a teacher not someone to throw yourself at. He's trying to do his job. You are so close to being a woman, you should start acting like one now, and understand that there is a time and place for everything, and appropriate behavior for situations such as this. You are not acting appropriately. If you act on this you could make him loose his job, and you may be making a fool of yourself by throwing yourself at someone who obviously cannot reciprocate those feelings. Time to grow up and act like an adult.
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