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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Happily married but feeling terrified out of my wits as my pregnancy has been confirmed. Need advice, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3155 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Thank you all for taking the time to read my question. I know I'm going to be severely judged for posting this but please bear with me. I got married about 8 months ago to a wonderful man. I'm 33 and he's almost 40. He is the best husband and frie...

Deal breaker? Should I end my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3156 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - I'm really heart broken and disappointed. I am in a LDR realtionship for 3 years and my fiancé is going to come where I live and get marry this summer. It has been an extremely difficult pat to get here. We both are divorced his wife moved to an...

Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable? Everyone has a past, but my boyfriend keeps dropping bombshells

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I have had a wonderful few months with my boyfriend but he just keeps dropping bombshells. The first was about a one night stand he had in his unhappy marriage two years ago which he regretted. Then he told me he uses alcohol as an emotiona...

Were we wrong to offer? Why did she not tell her husband about the invitation and the arrangements to attend the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - My aunt and I have always been close- she is 12 years older than me so more like a big sister than an aunt. A few years ago she moved to America with her husband and son due to her husband's job. Of course I missed her and we kept in touch and I w...

Should my stepbrother and I date in secret? Our parents have told us that we can't.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - me and my step brother like eachother but my step mom and my dad have set us tow down and said we cant date but i want to know if we should date secertly or not ...

I don't love my husband and I'm in the marriage because of our children

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - I have come to the conclusion that I have to stay in my marriage for the sake of the kids. I know, it's a cliche, but it's the responsible thing to do. My husband has done things to me that I feel are deal breakers, and most other women w...

How is a move to a new area and a new school likely to affect a 13 year old boy who is not very outgoing at present?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - What do people think of moving a 13 year old boy to a new school in a new location? Would it be a complete disaster or would he adapt? The reason is that my widowed partner and I are nearing our mid sixties and want to downsize and relocate...

I try to love my friend's child but it's just so hard! He's incredibly rude and I hate spending time with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - I'm not sure how to express myself on this one or even what my exact question is or even if I HAVE a question.... all I know is that I feel really bad about this. My friend and I have known each other for over 10 years now. Her son has just tur...

Should I marry him, considering that I have major trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and caring ...

What should I consider? I have finally found love, but I am scared my parents will disapprove

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - I didn't mean to fall in love with him I just did. I am 22 and he is 24 I have had one serious relationship which was abusive and lasted 5 years. I finally ended that relationship and have spent just under a year being single, trying to fix my...

I accepted his proposal, but I'm having doubts about marrying him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and carin...

Questions to ask before getting married!

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24 March 2016 (F) - I just read a great article in the New York Times online. "13 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married” It was written by Eleanor Stanford and posted March 24, 2016. http://www.nytimes.com...

Does this sound fishy to you? I need some tips!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I joined online dating couple of days ago, met a profile he mentioned that he has a kid, wife passed away and we chatted and he sounded nice and everything. We exchanged numbers, he didn't call but sends me text every 1 hr Max. Told me ...

How do I cope with my brother moving up his wedding to take place right in the middle of my exams?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - A sibling has moved up their wedding due to complications with their wedding venue. They could have postponed it a month. Now the wedding is in the middle of my exam season. How do I cope with this? I know I sound selfish but these exams are very ...

Should my youngest brother be allowed to get away with no paying anything to my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

23 March 2016 (M) - Paying parents, i have 4 brothers and we all still live at home. Mum has always worked out how much we should each pay towards living expenses. Mum has always said that however many of us there are we should pay the same percentage of our wages. So ...

I'm worried my parents might think he is too old for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I have been having sex with a lecturer at my university for just over 4 months now. Now I will say, he doesn't have anything to do with my university grade. He has never taught me. However, he will sometimes help out with lab work and field tr...

How can I make this work? I want to get back with her. My family think I'm crazy to try.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

22 March 2016 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I had a pretty intense relationship. We met when she was pregnant with her son, we became friends first but started dating shortly after her son was born. I hadn't had much contact with my family for a few years but once we ...

My wife refuses to accept my wish to be a woman.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

22 March 2016 (M) - I would like to know why, my wife cannot understand that I want to be a woman. She see's me every day for the past 2 years dressed as a woman, she knows I pluck my eyebrows and have my ears pierced, she has even caught me more than once being with ...

Should I help my son financially?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - My son is 28, and has basically never worked. I'm soooo disappointed in him, I can't begin to say. He hasn't spoken to me in over a year.He doesn't respond to phone calls, emails, texts, or anything. He thinks I belittle him because when I was i...

I hate my dad! My mother is away and tells me to be patient! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3136 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - I feel so upset right now. I hate my dad so much that I wish he was dead. He's so selfish and self centered. He doesn't even have any respect for his children interest. He only does things that suits him alone. I'm so angry now cause he being ...

When people say they are ''not ready for a relationship'' is that just a line to discourage the other party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - I was seeing a 25 y.o. woman over a month ago. She just lost her mother due to very complicated circumstances so she went through a very hard time. I took the 'not ready for a relationship' line as sincere. I didnt pursue but was open to go on mo...

Haven’t been in contact with my boyfriend for 2 years and I heard he got married! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - Modnote: who advised you of what may not be true? Or could be true. Do you have the means to contact him? we're meant to be for seven years.but my parents dislike him.they separate us. so,my bf and i lost contact for two years. then my best fr...

Am I sick to think this situation shouldn't be happening with the guy I'm dating and his cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for 4 months now, he seems really sweet and just the perfect gentleman he's Romantic and very caring. He rents a one bedroom and his cousin 14-15yr old girl (pretty, nice little body) comes to visit him and I was on...

What should I do if my fiance’s parents kick him out of the house after he confesses to them about his gambling problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles.. i posted a question some times ago about my dilemma regarding my fiance was gambling and want me to help him with the problem by asking me to lend him money. From all the opinion and advices given from you, i choose to reject...

They don’t push their son to do anything, and it feels like such a waste! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - I know the first response to this question might be that it's none of my business, but any helpful suggestions will be appreciated! I know a couple, both 40 ( and 8 years older than me) and they have a 10 year old son. It seems like they really...

I really feel like running away from it all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - hi there. i am 53 yrs old and like many people i have had some rough times (divorce, break ups, fall outs, no money etc ). i have chronic face pain (over 15 years) and have taken lots of meds for this. none have worked. the last lot were anti dep...

I'm overwhelmed and don't know what to do. Is his behaviour part of his grieving or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - I am a 21 year old female with a same age boyfriend, we both are in school and work part time jobs. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. With a 7 month break up 2 years ago. It was a very ugly breakup, which was very hard on both of us. We bot...

Is he not into me or am I just impatient?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - I'm 49, separated for a year and a half and been dating on and off since that time ... but nothing serious. I have been seeing this man for almost 3 months. We get along great, we have chemistry, he respects me, he doesn't pressure me to s...

Any advice on dealing with tricky in-laws?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - Any advice in dealing with tricky in laws. Looking for advice in relation to my partners parents. I don't know if it's just me that is over thinking this situation with them, but it's affecting me as a person and I feel my partner is picking up...

How do we win her mother round?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - my girlfriend and I have gotten together recently, but we've had feelings for each other for a while. we're 16, and it's her first relationship, but we're both certain we have real feelings. my parents couldn't be more happy for us, and really like ...

We can have a family - but only if he gets his dreams first. What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

16 March 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner for almost seven years. We got engaged a year ago but no plans on a wedding yet. Over the years we have talked about children - we discussed it very early on that it was something we both wanted. Over the last year or so ...

Can I do anything to help? My dad is in a very controlling relationship. And I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - He's been with her for 15 years. I was 20 when they met, so I was off in college and on my own after that doing my own thing so I never had much interaction with them except when I'd come to visit periodically on short visits. Like for a weekend a ...

Was I wrong to offer something from my Mom’s estate to my brother’s ex-wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - Help someone, Thanks you to all who help here. My mom died.three years ago.My sister and I went.through boxes of things that belonged to mom....I have some China which will help me to remember my mom. My brother and his wife split a decade ago....

How can I deal with the disruption of my BF's mate? The mate visits us almost every evening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend now for 3 years we have a son together. We are happy apart from the fact we get no time together because of his mate. My boyfriend finishes work. I have tea ready, then halfway through eating it his mate turns u...

I'm 20 years old and my overprotective parents are driving me crazy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm really needing some help right now. I'm 20 years old and still have to tell my parents where I'm going who I'm going with what I'm doing and if they think I'm lying they will check up on me and ask my friends if I'm there. I...

I have never dated. How can I negotiate all these rules with my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - I am I School freshman and I have never been on a date before. my friend off sort of try to set me up on date but my parents make it really hard because they won't let me go anywhere to hang out with a friend and my day drive or they approve ...

Is this friends with benefits or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - Hey everyone, im going to try and make this as short as possible. I’m 22 and I recently got out of the most horrible relationship I have ever been in 7 months ago. I started talking to this guy in September we have hung out a few times since th...

My boyfriend and my mom hate each other!! Are my Mom's expectations reasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - I have a big big issue. My mom and boyfriend don't like each other at all. My mom thinks my bf is rude and doesn’t like her, and he thinks she's annoying, and rude. Yes it is true that my mom can be very annoying, at times but there isn’t real...

My boyfriend was rude to my old friend, was he unreasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

10 March 2016 (F) - It was my birthday a few months ago and I had invited my sister, her boyfriend, my cousins and some close friends including my school friend from secondary school to celebrate it with me in a restaurant. Hes a guy and I haven't seen him in years. ...

We need to plan for our future but talking about it makes partner anxious.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a multifaceted question about relationships and midlife crisis and men and women maturing at different rates. I have been married for 8 years together for 18. We are reaching a point in our relationship where I want to take our...

Ex partner is a born again Christian now and I am scared of our daughters upbringing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, Can anyone please give me some advice on how to deal with bringing up my 2 year old daughter with my ex partner who is now an evangelist born again Christian. Before we split up I was with him for years and he hated all forms...

Seven months dating and her dad is talking about how much say he will have in marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

9 March 2016 (M) - My girlfriend's parents are painfully overbearing and it's caused serious stress with me, her, and this relationship. I've been going out with this girl for 7 months now, I'm 19, she's 18. For the entirety of the relationship it's been one roadblo...

My parents are splitting us up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 weeks. I've had a hikkie or love bite on my neck for around 4 days. She only just noticed it before when we were in the shops looking down the isle. She said "why have you got a love bite on your ...

Was it my fault or my ex boyfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Am I in the wrong here or is my ex boyfriend? I invited him to my sisters bbq at her house. When we arrived my sister asked me what I was drinking and if I wanted some wine so she poured me a glass. My boyfriend said he didn't want a drink, I ...

I’m with the wrong sister! I need advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

7 March 2016 (M) - Hello!My name is Cameron and I'm 20.I desperately need some help because I have no idea how to deal with the situation that I'm in right now. My ex gf Natasha(25) and I dated for nearly a year.Prior to getting together we were really good frie...

I want to save my marriage but I feel bad that she knows how I feel and doesn't care!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

7 March 2016 (M) - I have a wife whom we have 5 children, I left and upon return my wife left and live with the her former boyfriend, there was no fight between us but she left because I was not home and she find the exboyfriend and they connect back again, her reason ...

How do I keep him while convincing my parents that I trust and love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2.5 years .He lives in Europe and I live far away in asia . We are 9 years apart and have huge size and height difference . He is 98kg, 185cm and im a little hobbit ? 40kg and 155cm ( im anorexic I have weight p...

How do I tell my new girlfriend I had a one-night stand with her sister before we met?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

7 March 2016 (M) - I recently started going out with this girl. She’s beautiful, smart, kind and funny. Pretty much everything I could ask for in a girl. The only problem? I’ve slept with her sister. I’m 23 and she’s 22. We’ve been going out for 3 weeks now. The o...

I'm speechless after my husband's reaction to my wearing my mother's ring!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - Hello! My mom, who was my best friend and to whom I had the closest relationship you could possibly imagine, passed away 5 years ago. A few days ago my dad gave me her engagent ring telling me she has always wanted me to have it. So- I have been ...

I don't feel like I'm in a relationship! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - I am not sure as to how to describe my current circumstance. I do not feel as if i am in a relationship. I have 3 children, 2 have left home. My youngest is 13. His dad and I have know each other for over 30 years. He has been a great dad to a...