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writes:I have a wife whom we have 5 children, I left and upon return my wife left and live with the her former boyfriend, there was no fight between us but she left because I was not home and she find the exboyfriend and they connect back again, her reason was that I did not give her freedom to be with friends she like....I never stop her to see her friend or what, it just that when she comes home, I will ask where she been...anyways, when I return from Texas, my children all came a live with me..when my wife came a visit, she like to come and be part of family again which I said, its very good so we will have our family again..but when she return, she still communicating with her ex boy friend, at times when I tried to workout our relationship with her, she wants me and when she goes to her country she will be with her boy friend, I am very said about this, Im trying to win her over, at times when me and her goes out clubbing she will be flirting with guys, I did not want it, so I left, we talked later and she told me she's just friendly when she is drinking, plus she feel the people she greet are from her country and she feel its like family...last week I took out clubbing again, after clubbing she commented to get drinks and we will drink with couple guys who is from my place..this guys knows me and respect me..well, she tried to go close to one of the guys but I stood in between where I warned the guy not to do stupid stuff.....when the guy left, she immediately that we go home..I feel so bad that she knows what I feel and she does not care........what shall I do..I want to save my marriage, I love her so dearly, I see me children and I just cannot bear the feeling of letting her go...please help me,,,what shall I do..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 March 2016):
 I am sorry that you are hurting but your wife does not love you, nor does she respect you. She only cares about her own feelings. She knows that she is hurting you but she does not care, she wants to be with other people and be a part time wife. You cannot force her to be a good loving wife. However you can tell her that this behavior is totally unacceptable and that you will not put up with it any longer, tell her it is either you and nobody else or else show her the door and tell her she is no longer welcome in your home. You shouldn't let her treat you like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2016): You start flirting with other women and let her feel how will be the pain. If she don't feel or jealous towards this then better you have to choose another right partner for your children's. All the best
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