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writes:I feel so upset right now. I hate my dad so much that I wish he was dead. He's so selfish and self centered. He doesn't even have any respect for his children interest. He only does things that suits him alone. I'm so angry now cause he being overprotective and preaching morality whereas he is acting in oral right under my nose. My mum travelled out of the country for about 6minths now and she's gonna be back soon. My dad has been bringing different kind of women to the house. Worst part he asks me to serve them food too. I can't refuse cause he's very aggressive and would best me up. How can he ask me to stop wagering trousers because it's not good for a lady and his girlfriends wears it. He is doing so many things that is unpleasant to me and I feel like leaving the house. I have reported to my mom but she said I should be patient till she returns. Please what do you advise me to do? I don't want to be seen as a bad child who ran away from home. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much aunt honesty. @ Brownwolf I do understand you as well. Thanks. But I believe you don't understand how I really feel. You don't know how if feels to be unhappy in one's home. Even though he provides me with food and shelter it doesn't mean that he should treat me without some respect. Anyways thanks.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (24 March 2016):
When you hate you parents, your own children will grow up to hate you too...fact.
How did you get old enough to hate your father? Did you eat grass when you were a baby? Did hunt your own food when you were a young child? No matter what your father is like now, he did his part in providing for you...only to have you turn around and hate him.
If your father is that bad of a man...then good for you. Accept all that he does...and LEARN from it. Someday you will have children of your own, and if you learned from him WHAT NOT TO DO...then you will be an amazing parent yourself.
These happen not to make us hate, but for us to learn and become better parents to our own family. You will not marry a man like him, and will not want a father for your children like him. Already you are making better choices and don't even know it. :))))
DO not hate... Do as your mother says and be patient...but make sure you learn.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 March 2016):
 The question is are you still a child? It says that you are in your 20s, and yes I am aware that life is very different in your country, but that does not mean you cannot stand up for yourself and say no. You are an adult. Yes your family might get angry that you left home and found yourself another place to live, but surely this is better than being unhappy.
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