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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...

18 year age difference!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I am 17 with a 36 year old. We have been together for 2 years now. everything has been great. Apart from having to hide from everybody. A few days ago my mom passed and i moved in with him. We finally told his parents because we could no longer hide ...

I need him, he is my Romeo... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i just got busted for sneaking my boyfriend over to my house today to hang. My grandma's finace called my mom and she was pissed off, so she is taking my phone so i can not text or call him and we are in love. we made out an had clothes sex behind ...

Help! I want to have sex with my cousin... is this bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Hey, is it bad that i want to do it with my cousin? Shes so beautiful!! she has a great body and shes one year younger than me. please help me!!!! and how do i ask her to do it with me?...

How can I help my food-crazed cousin stop eating and obsessing so much about food?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a relative I am currently rooming with. She has some habits that really annoy me and I don't know any nice way to bring it up or let her know. And I need help doing that. She has battled with weightloss all her life. It is so h...

Does she have feelings for my brother over me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I've known this girl for 2 years, and have had feelings for her for about as long. she is married and is planning on leaving her husband (not because of me.) and when she does she is going to be moving in with me and my brother. i told her that i ...

What can I do to ensure my baby is safe while with his father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have a three year old boy. His father and I have been apart since he was 4 months old. His father got weekend, overnight visitation about 6 months ago, because he finally completed the 20 hours of supervised visitation. Since then he gets Elijah ...

My family is draining me dry!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - I PAY for everything. My whole family are on the take and I’m sick of supporting every loser I’m related to. My parents say that it’s my duty to make sure that everyone is OK and it’s our culture. But when will it end? I’m 20, i go university i...

I need your opinions please. Why do I find it so difficult to trust people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay, I'll start at the beginning. My father cheated on my mother for almost 2 years when me and my brother where 2. He then left her for the woman he cheated on her with. She was completely heart broken, understandably. We're now 17. He's still wi...

Her mother wants us to break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - i'm in very hard situation with my GF cause we are obliged to brake up and we both don't want to see the problem it with her mom cause she is too afraid for her daughter she don't want her to go out with me because she heared that i broke up with ...

Family making things difficult for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi guys I have been with my boyfriend for around 6 years now we have split up once or twice in that time, the last time was now about a year ago and only lasted for about 2 months, since then we have been absolutely fine, and are living together...

I really want to leave him... but what about my kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have married for 7 years with a 3 year old kid. My husband is a good father but not a good husband. Since the kid was born, we seldom have sex. The last time we had sex was more than a year ago. I confronted him last week. He said he treated ...

Am I really that selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hello! I am 48 years old, separated for 18 months, divorced for 2 months. My older daughters, 31 and 29 are both married and have children of their own. I was married twice. My daughters were from my first marriage, my second marriage lasted 20 ...

I really want to live in the family house! It's my lifelong dream.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - In some years to come I want to move out in the country to a house that has been in the family for generations. I grew up in the house surounded with a big family and relatives. They have houses just nearby or even a smaller house built into the ...

Trying to chose between him and my family! I want them both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I belong to a family who does not approve of love relationship. My elder sister had love marriage and she and her husband always warn me not to follow their foot prints. She even said that if i fall into some relation then indirectly i am murdering ...

Son's ball game overtakes an important task... is it his priority too or just mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I are planing to move in together, I am renovating my home to rent it out and moving to his place an hour away. The past two weekends he was suppose to me help me as time is running short and the list of thing to be done...

11 when I discovered I am a bi.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I was 11 years old when I knew I was bi, I was attracted to a girl yet much with a guy he was my best friend for two years and I told my mom and dad about it too bad for me they weren't able to accept but the fact that they transfered me in the ...

Help!!! How do you continue a romantic relationship with someone who is your blood relative?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 1 year is my half-brother. Apparantly my father "got around" a lot more than I had thought. My bf and I have talked many times about our family and what attracted me to him was how much we have in ...

Should I have another child?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I'm 19 and I have an eleven month old son. Recently one of my friends had a baby girl and she is beautiful. She also has a son who is 12 months. Through her whole pregnancy we talked about her weird cravings and where the baby kicked the most. To ...

I found out my dad's a cheat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Yesterday i looked at my dad's phone because the last while he's been very moody with me an my mam an other siblings, what i found was heartbreaking he's texting this girl and in the texts she's saying she loves him, i dont know what to do, i cant ...

Punishing myself for the sake of my daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - should i give it a try? i am a divorcee mother w one kid. marriage failure was due to family violence and unreasonable behaviour. as i was e one who initiated the divorce, i feel sorry for my kid extremely. i jus wanna shower her w lots of l...

Not in love with my wife, but have a young daughter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - I'm 37 years old, married, and have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. I'm from the UK and my wife is from Hong Kong. We met in HK through a mutual friend while i was working there. Before we got together she was in another relationship and I knew both of ...

My brother terrifies me and is getting away with it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - A couple months ago I got pregnant. I am 14 years old and the pregnancy was in a way my fault. My brother has been doing stuff to me since I was young. i had a misscarrige and the doctor said it was because brothers and sisters arent meant to have ...

Coping with loss; is counselling the answer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - So, I've had a pretty bad couple of years. This year my uncle that I was really close to passed away from cancer and my friend committed suicide. Other things have happened in the previous years all in a row that are just as terrible. The death of ...

Disappointed by my sister. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Wow, okay I need help. I found a note written to my sister from her friend. It was saying how my sister was lucky she wasn't positive and the friend was. And how she wasnt gonna get an abortion. Well, now I know my sisters had sex and for so long ...

B/f's father died, his mom is needy and I'm having trouble being patient!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and for the first 3 1/2 years everyhting was great. 8 months ago his dad died suddenly and he moved home to be with his mum. Since then things have been falling apart. We hardly see each other, partly ...

B/f chooses to go in with his sister rather than me to buy his parents a gift

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

27 May 2010 (?) - Should I be offended if my bf chooses to go in on a b.day gift with his sister instead of with me for one of his parents? I asked him first and he said he wanted to ask his sister first. We've been dating over a year and are in a serious ...

My mother is dying and I'm having thoughts of cheating on my husband..what is going on??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Hi. I need a lot of opinions on this, may be from your own experience, but i really need to understand what's going w/me before i go and spend 200/hour on a therapist. I am in my early forties, been married for over 20 years, and my marriage is v...

My sister is dating someone that doesn't seem right for her. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Help! My sister is dating this guy and he doesn't seem right for her at all. What should I do? Should I tell her or shut up and pretend to be happy for her? The absolutely biggest reason that I can point out is that she really wants kids and pretty ...

My husband has been cheating with his sister-in-law, and won't give her up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included ...

What can I do to show them that my lack of belief doesn't affect the person I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

27 May 2010 (?) - My ex's parents do not like me. I don't think her dad is too fond of me but she said that today she heard her mom say to someone on the phone that she hates me. We are trying to work on our relationship and get back together but I'm afraid this will ...

How to get someone to get help if you cant get them to admit they have a problem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - My wife is very jealous. I get accused daily of flirting with or sleeping with women at work, as part of my commute, even with my cousins. Nothin I say can change her mind, and it's all so absurd to me. I haven't been with any woman but her, we ...

How can I ask my parents to let me sleep over at my boyfriend's house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - hi, i see my boyfriend nearly every day. he shares a house with his housemate and is 26. iam 20 and i have asian parents who are not too strict, they will let me go out till very late with him and let me spend a lot of time with him. i would very ...

Should I go to my partner's son's birthday party when his ex will be there and all the family who all know each other well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - My partner's son is having a surprise birthday party next week. And i will be in the same place as his mother (my partners ex) and my in laws who all know each other and have history and i wont know any one there. I dont know whether to go as i ...

Depression issue or stuck in a rut?

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26 May 2010 (F) - I don't know what is wrong with me anymore...If I have a serious depression issue or if I'm stuck in a seemingly endless rut. I am so irritable with my husband and child almost all of the time. It seems that almost everything that they do gets on ...

My mother and sister are fuming because I didn't let them use my facebook account to look at photos

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - My mother and sister are mad at me because they wanted to use my facebook profile to look at photos of my friends and family. Now they’re not talking to me. I didn’t let her because it’s my account and those people chose to share those thin...

No sex drive whatsoever - 22yrs old raped before

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Well, I have no idea what to do at this point. I've been raped/molested before. Raped at eight, raped at fifteen by a bf, raped again at 19 by a different bf. My crazy, disturbed mother heavily molested me as a kid and physically and emotionally ...

I lust to be with my ex's brother just once...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - So for years now my ex's boyfriend’s brother and I have always gotten along really well, we have so much in common and enjoy the same things. But soon discovered I had a bit of a crush on him, but ignored it due to being with my ex and didn't want ...

I lied and told my mom I wouldn't have sex anymore but now I might be pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - hi..ima start off by saying im 15. i had a bf for a lil more than a year now. my mom found out we had sex and she was upsett. she told me that we shoulldnt anymore, but i did. i felt bad for lying to her and i dont wanna lose her trust. well ...

I feel like I lost my family. Should I tell my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I got totally down, I didnt have anything to eat (1 tuna can for day, no bread) was depressed, lost work, with artistic school couldnt find any employment - all this because of what my mum put me into (I slept with her boyfriend, as a revenge to ...

Can I get a restraining order on my mother-in-law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - To get a restraining order against a grandparent do you have to get both parents to agree to it or can I still get one without my partners consent? Cause his mother is to over bearing. She comes over without permission and takes our son without us ...

How do I fix this disaster with his ex and their kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. When we started hanging out last year he was living at home with his kids and wife whom he immediately left to be with me. I never asked him to, in fact I urged him not to. But he was ...

How can I make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I have met a great girl who I care about she is 31 and I'm 29 she has 4 kids from another relationship I don't have any kids I would like to have a child but she doesn't want anymore children. I want this relationship to work but I don't know how it ...

Should I move out to be with my boyfriend and go against my parents wishes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I turn 18 in a few months, and I am in love with my boyfriend, i would do anything for him. My parents don't want me to see him so for about the past year we have been secretly seeing each other, but its getting harder and harder as my parents don't ...

Her mother doesn't want us to be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - Hi i am ravi I need your help i get marry with my girlfried. we were togather last eight year now she want divorce. because her mother she dosn't want this relation. what should i do ?...

My step- children don't respect me what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - My husband and I have 6 kids. Three are his and three are mine. I am at home with the kids the most so I deal with their behaviour issues and just day to day stuff making sure they get their responsibilities (which are very minimal) taken care of. ...

I'm so lost! My own father and wife have been having a secret relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I just learnt that my Father age @65 and my Wife age @31 Years have been having a sexual relationship for the last one year. Both are doing regularly and chatting with us.We are live in joint Gujarati hindu family with my mother and two chil...

How do I regain his trust and interest in "us"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Well i have a problem, my ex broke up w/ me a few weeks ago he has a really bad perspective of me, he cant stand me. Until today he thought we might still have a future but now he doesn't believe that anymore. He tells me he wont ever change the ...

Attracted to my cousin, what do we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - im 20 years old and i have a cousin who is 21 and she's very attractive which i guess was the first thing i noticed about her and we weren't close at all, before all of this happened we had seen each other about 5 times in our whole life and we met ...

I'm trapped as long as my sister refuses to pull her weight

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - This is more of a family question, hope you guys can help. I'm 27, and both my parents and I are immigrants. I have two college degrees and have been working for the past 3 years. I live with my parents and younger sister. I bought the house...