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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

What should I do here for the best? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Well I feel kind of silly asking strangers for help but I don't know what else to do or who else to ask. I was a single parent for a couple of years when I met my current partner, at first it seemed like the ideal relationship, he showed interest...

I think I have schizophrenia, but I don't know how to tell my family...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hey people fellow advice givers, well, I have schizophrenia, and I just don't know how to tell my parents, I mean I have not been diagnosed with it but I have researched alot about is and I am really convinced that I am,and i want to tell them, but ...

Everyone knows we're lesbians but our parents, should we tell them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - my best friend erin (yes she is a girl) and i have been dating for a little. we've fooled around and made out. everyone who knows us knows that we are gay. they've seen us make out in public. the only people who dont no are our parents. we dont no ...

Is it bad to fall in love with your own aunt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Please HELP, I am a young guy and I fell in love with my mom's sister and we both are in love for 2 years, we did everything (kissing, licking, pressing) but not sexual intercourse, is this bad to fall in love or to marry own aunt? This is not a ...

Have I been single for too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hi, As a single parent of 2 teenagers still reeling from the effects of acrimonious and lengthy, energy-sapping divorce I have lost all sense of self and fun and ability to enjoy life. Since the failure of this relationship I have had problems with ...

Years of seduction

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi I am an Egyptian brother, 26 years old my sister is 21 now. I started to like my sister a few years ago, but till now had only mildly flirted with her by undressing in front of her or uncovering ******* and body while asleep when shes watchi...

Really like my long distance fella, but falling for his closeted sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - k so I am in the most incredible relationship with this guy and things are fabulous. We have a bit of distance between us so we see eachother whenever we can. All is great. He has a sister (17) (fyi I'm 19-20 and he is 21-22) n e ways, His sister is ...

How do I let my sick Dad know I've forgiven him for cheating on my Mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - um...hello i need your help my dad and mom divorced because of my dad's cheating, but now he is suffering because he has poor health, he thinks i'm angry at him, but the truth is i can't find the courage to tell him i've forgiven him a long time...

Your comments are appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My b/f has been very much involved in the behaviour management of my 17 year old. My son is very intellient but very rude and argumentative and drives me mad and I have had to get social services and counselling organised for him. I turned to my ...

Should I give the green light to my friend to have sex with my mom?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hello… My friend wants to have sex with my mum. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mum thinks my friend is cute. My friend said that he has liked her since we both were in high school. She is in her 4...

How do I explain to my friend's nieces that she killed herself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My best friend of 5 years committed suicide 2 weeks ago. I understand why she did it, she had alot of trouble in her life, and was in every sense of the word an orphan. The only family she had left was her nieces, who were put into foster care ...

Why do my family not let me be my own person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - hello, i just wanted to ask why is it that my family do not want to see me happy, i come form an asian family and all i ever want to do is be happy, however whatever i do that makes me happy is something that makes them sad, for example im 17 and i ...

Is there a possibility that I can get back with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - We been couple for 2 years and we broke up because my parents didn't agree with her. Every day we always met each other, we are like the best couple in church. So I told her that I'm sorry I can't take you any more, but I still love you. Her heart ...

Our families won't accept we're getting married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I’m 26 years old and have been engaged for 6months to my partner of 4 years. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with this man who is truly the love of my life and want to start planning the wedding, but both of our families are against it. ...

I really dig my friends younger sister, go for it or...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Ok, heres the deal... My friend (who is a girl by the way) has a 16 year old sister and I am 19. I like her and she seems to like me but I've been a bit hesitant so go too far with it because I'm not sure how my my friend (her older sister) would re...

I think I may have a problem and that is why I keep on lying to my parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have posted questions on here before about me and my mums bad relationship, which is basically down to me lying about my older boyfriend when we first got together, then lying again a few weeks ago when I applied for my passport so that I could go ...

I want to leave my husband but yet we have a baby and I don't leave because of the baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hi im married for last one and half year after the courtship of long 8 years now i have 10 months son. for my husband i left everything he also love me but after some emotional crisis due to family problems and other women he dont love me or care...

I need to get my daughter and I out of my husband's house because he hits us, but I have no clue how!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my husband for three years now, been married to him for two. We have a one year old daughter. My husband started verbally abusing me seven months into our relationship, but I didn't really think anything of it until just two weeks ...

Should I wait and see what his intentions are or should I get out before I really fall in love with him and lose him and his kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and everything is going great but, he says he does not want a girlfriend. He treats me like his girlfriend we go out on the weekends and stay at each others houses overnight and sometimes for the ...

Worryed my dad will sexually abuse my niece as he did me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have a problem with my own dad. He sexually abused me when I was 10 years old. I am afraid he is attracted to young girls. I know he has bathed with my niece who is 8 years old, and everytime she is over, he has her on his lap. I wasn't abused by ...

My g/f's grandmother died..is she taking it out on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Yesterday night my girlfriends grandmother died. I want to be there for her but she's really not letting me. She tried to avoid me today... But she ended up talking to me. Overall she's been very mean to me... I don't bring up her grandmother ...

I am deeply in love with my cousin and I don't know what to do cause he says he likes me too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I am in love with ma cousin I moved in with ma cousin because living on campus was very expensive but he had only one bedroom apartment since he couldn't tell my parents that so he would sleep on the couch and me on the bed. But at some point he...

I don't want my sister to watch porn, what can be done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - i caught my sister watching porn and masturbating !! she is 15. it has shook me inside and i cant see it happening and leave this matter though i understand its normal.what should i do about it ??? i dont know why but i dont want her to do it. ...

He cheats because he doesn't want to get hurt...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who has been thru alot he fears being cheated on so he hurts me first. he cheated on me and got the girl pregnat we are now back together but i fear it may happen again. he admits he has a problem and that he wants help and needs ...

I can't stop snooping because I worry he will cheat, please help me me keep my family!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm going to start off by saying I feel like I have really accepted that part of him, soemtimes anyways. But I just cant stop snooping. I worry all the time that he is cheating, why you ask becuase I was with a guy before him who ...

I'm meeting my boyfriend's parents, should I bring flowers for his mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Is it a good idea to bring something for the family: the mom? I'm meeting my boyfriend's parents this weekend but he just said we'll go out for dinner at a restaurant. It was going to be at his house but he changed his mind and wants to take us...

We plan on getting married, but I want kids and he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - We plan on getting married someday he doesn't want kids and I want a big family and always have! How can we make this work?...

My husband supports his 33 year old sister who is perfectly able! How do I tackle him about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - My husband is only twenty four years old and he's very established for his age and he works very hard. But he takes care of this thirty three year old sister and he has been. Does anyone think this is weird that he would fully support her five ...

I'm in love with an older friend of the family, and seeing someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I know this sounds crazy but it is a problem I am dealing with. I have been in love with someone for several years now that is a friend of the family. He is older than me and it is a secret affair. I feel that I am very much in love with him and my ...

I'm meeting his parents. Should I bring his mom flowers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hi Cupiters! I am going to meet my boyfriend's parents this weekend! It's a dinner at his house. I was wondering should I bring the mom flowers, or is that too much? I just think it's polite. I mean I won't go as far as bringing a dish because I...

The old lady deserves better than this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - I am almost 81, my wife is almost 88. Mona has 6 grown children from a previous marriage. Since we met 17 years ago we have always professed our love for each other. We have never wished not to be together. Although there never was any cause to...

How do I tell family I'm pregnant again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - how do I tell my grandpa I'm pregnant.i live with him and iv gotten prego before and he would be really dissappointed when he finds out I am again...i don't knoe how to tell him...what should I do...

When a guy takes you to meet his parents, is he thinking long term commitment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is introducing me to his parents this weekend. Does a guy think of it as something long term? I mean not all guys do this, right? By the way we've been dating for over a month now.. Yay!!...

Incest... or love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I think I am in love with my second cousin. But I think this is incest..... Is this true or not? I'm wondering because it varies from country to country and I live in the united states....

I was just wondering if this is an anorexic diet???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

24 February 2009 (?) - heyx I was just wondering if this is an anorexic diet: eating 200 calories one day, 400 the next, 600 the next, 800 the next, and the next day fast completely, and then repeat the cycle all ova again on this day system. Also, everyday doing 10...

My mom and I don't get along..how can I emancipate from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do!!!! I'm done with all of it an I want out and I want out now!!! I f*** up my life every chance i get but I'm not acting out for attention. I'm acting out to get away. I love my mother to death but for as long as i can ...

Mum fell out with me because I went round to see my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I have a friend who lives round the corner from my Mum's boyfriend's house. Mum decided to go round to see him one night so, by the way, I dropped in on my friend too. I had a fab time with my friend and spent almost four hours there! When I went ...

Crush on my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - i am in love with my cousin. I am 17 years old and she is just going to be 17 in couple of months. We chat with each other quite often. see movies together. hold hands but still she only treats me as a cousin. I don't think she likes me in that way. ...

My boyfriend insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years insists I'm always picking on his 13 year old daughter. Am I crazy? I have three kids of my own ages 10, 9, and 5. My girls adore him ages 9 and 5. My 10 year old son is neutral my boyfriend does nothing with him. On t...

If my girlfriend's grandmother and my grandmother are sisters what does that make us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - If my girlfriend's grandmother and my grandmother are sisters what does that make us?...

My boyfriend is doing my head in!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend went nuts at me for phoning my sister, I owe her money thats why I phoned. But then he starts going off about me wasting my credit on people that arent worth it. It's my money he doesn't do anything to make money he's on dsp because of ...

What went wrong? Help/Advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I was talking with this girl for about 1 month and a half. Around the 2 weeks we were making-out, kissing, and holding hands, but we were not a couple. Then she tells me that I can't see her at all any more cause of her mom. She said her mom was ...

New marriage - identity crisis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am having an identity crisis. For 49 years, I was single. I lived first with my parents, then alone. But, I felt at home. I recently married, moved in to the house my husband shared with his ex wife and feel so alone. I hate the house. ...

I want to be with him but I feel unhappy about our secret relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for a year and change. His whole family is not fond of me especially his mother. This is because I dated her other son prior to this one for about half a year. I found out that he cheated on me so I broke it...

How to deal with my mother constant put downs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some advice with how to deal with my mothers constant put downs. I consider myself a good daughter-im 26 and live at home. I have never been drunk,never done drugs,i have never even tried a cigarette. I've always been honest with my ...

I'm very concerned about my sister (16) dating a 19 year old!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - Hello, I am a thirty six year old male and am concerned, having just found out that my little sister, who is 16 is dating a 19 year old man. The worse part is that she seems to be the one going after him and my parents seem to be ok with it, ...

Moving out for a healthy love life or staying at home for healthy finances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I'm 24 and living at home with my parents. This has obviously affected the relationship side of my life. I will be graduating from what was a very expensive professional degree this summer with some daunting debt. I'd like to move out but my ...

I just want to escape North Carolina, but I'm so scared that dream is dying.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My family and I are "immigrants" from Florida who came to North Carolina for "a better life in North Carolina." I did NOT have a better life in North Carolina. Instead, I became VERY depressed and had a really rough time adjusting to the culture. I ...

Should I stay with my horrible boyfriend, or take my kids and go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. he use to tell me how much he loved me, and how he didn't want anybody else but me. i thought he was my soul mate. he came in during a tough time in my life when me and my son was struggling after his dad ...

I am very angry at my mother, can I have your advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hiya, i need some advice as at the moment, i am very angry at my mum. To cut a long story short, i have been with my fiance for nearly 4 years, and we plan to marry next November in a different country and hopefully plan to live in this cou...