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writes:hi im married for last one and half year after the courtship of long 8 years now i have 10 months son. for my husband i left everything he also love me butafter some emotional crisis due to family problems and other women he dont love me or care for him i still love him from deep of my heart he always screams on me never react on my weal and weoes if i feel sick he ask me to take medicines instead of giving by himself he is not ready to accept me as im he always ridicules me for being fat as after my baby i had put on alot im very emotinsal whenever he talk to me with love i forgot everything but he has not feelings he will only love when he likes he has bercame more possessive for baby and i feel myself as unwanted lifeless article of home to be furnish in society he has number of complaints for me it was never in last 8 years i left everything for my career he is helping me and my family financially for many years it seems that this is one of reason why he dont react or respect . these days he dont understand me i have to justify every feeling i dont want to live neither with him nor anywhere always but whenever i see my baby face i became helpless what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): Children are more deeply affected by divorce the older they are when their parents do it. If you know for certain you would like a divorce, I would do it now while the child is still very young. However stay near to your husband so he can have access to the baby and it has somewhere to go if you need some time out =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): I am not the best person to answer this, i am sure others will give better advice. However i am going to try.
For me it sounds like you are in a downward spiral with him, you feel not worthwhile and upset and that makes it worse.
However against this, you have shown yourself to be bright and intelligent and he saw something in you. These things don't always go away - they can hide for a while. You have also shown courage by writing here. I think you have more tools than you realise.
I think you need to talk to a professional - especially if you are on medicine. I don't know how counselling works for Iceland. I would talk to your doctor first maybe and explain you need to talk to someone, he\she can then hopeful guide you.
Hugs.Star.x.
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