Is there a possibility that I can get back with her?

A male age 36-40, *chup writes:

We been couple for 2 years and we broke up because my parents didn't agree with her. Every day we always met each other, we are like the best couple in church. So I told her that I'm sorry I can't take you any more, but I still love you. Her heart was broken, but I still be with her all the time, cause I know that I love her so much. So we still love with each other but we are going out without my parents knowing about it. BTW im 24 and she is 22. So everytime we in church I always hang out w/ my guys friend because i dont want my parents dont know about us. But the third year I only see her once or twice a week, because I was busy with my family and school. She feels lonely and she want me to be with her everday. She even said that she need to see me once at least a week. But we still talk and hang out. One day she ask me if I'm going to take seriusly (marryng her). I told her that I'm not ready. I think she is tired waiting for me.. so one day she start dating other people, I got so mad and jealous, I know we are not official couple anymore. So i want her back, i wanna become his gf again, but she said she cant because she is seeing this guy. I become desperate and cry in the front of her so i can take her back. I even talk my parents that i've been lying and i love her so much and I cant even do anything anymore. My parents told me if she is the right one for you then go for her. I was happy when my parents tell me that. So I ask her again and tell her that I love her more than anything, and we could work things out because my parents agree about it. She said she cant because she is seeing this guy, she said he is really nice and care about me. I beg her to get me back and telling her alot of promise (i know i shouldnt do this i make mistake). She tell me that she still miss me when she went out with this guy. She said she cant go back with me yet because she is with him. We still talk and she went out with this guy for 3 weeks she told me hes not the right one for me. (i was happy he was just a rebound). I ask her again this time but she said she doesnt have feeling for me anymore. Probably if I waited for her not begging her back prob she come to me again. Now she date a lot of guys.. I dont want to ask her again to get back with me i know she will say no.. i tried to keep her distance so she can miss me, but lately i'm the one that call her (she still pick up the phone). and she never the first one that call. Now I'm the one that feeling like her before. I cant even hold my self to talk to her at least a week. I tried couple days not to talk to her it worked but my heart tell me to call her. a week later she told me she has a bf that recently. I've been depresssing for the last month.. But i got better at it.. I'm getting healty again and look up to my self.

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