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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

How do I get my husband to give me compliments again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I have scared my husband away from giving me compliments because as he says he would give one and i would question his answer or get upset cause it wasn't what i wanted to hear. i guess i did do that and i guess i did it for a long time. Long enough ...

After our good living together trial period, everything has gone downhill!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - Ok so im having a big issue here and im looking for advice or peoples opinion on what they think. So, one day after being tired of being alone, and also needing a place to stay, i decided to look online to try and find a compatible match for my ...

Two years on and things are a lot less physical

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hello everyone.. :) Well, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years over. Our relationship are great. He is caring, lovely and responsible. But lately I realise that we have less physic contact, he sure hug and kiss me a lot, but he seldom go ...

We were having a normal conversation and I had a massive urge to tell him I wanted to break up! Has anyone else experienced this? Is this some kind of sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I am 3 years into a relationship with a guy that was, as I thought at first, the "one" but after the rosy glow of new love wore off there were disappointments and at this stage I love him dearly as a person but I don't think I can handle all the ...

How do I forget my ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - Im an asian (oriental) guy living in Dublin. Theres is this one guy that I like (he was my first gay love and he took my virginity), we used to be friends but he abandoned me nearly two years ago for some reasons and moved to spain. Now that hes ...

What is a "hell-bent" heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I was listening to the song by Lee Ann Womack, "I Hope you Dance". In the song are the lyrics: "Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin' Lovin' might be a mistake, but it's worth makin' Don't let some hell-bent heart leave y...

I know this isn`t working but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my Boyfriend for just under four years now. We have been living together for a year and a half and we are now renting out first house together. But things have been going wrong in the relationship and i am thinking i should move on. ...

I had an abortion and am still grieving-but my boyfriend seems not to care, what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I need some help to stop feeling angry with my bf about our abortion. I know readers might judge me for having an abortion, that's ok, I judge myself, I know I did the wrong thing, I feel guilty every day and regret my decision greatly. I'm trying ...

My boyfriend is ignoring me, lately and I have no idea why! Any advice is appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Recently my boyfriend put me on ignore I have no real idea why, he then about a week later reached out via instant message and tried to talk to me by sharing a concern about his father's health and wanting to continue supporting my business ...

Should I jump ship for my old high school crush?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for the past 8yrs and we have been through a lot. He is also 7 years older. i know im not the pretty young thing like i used to be but things feel like their going nowhere. No more spark. not much conversation. not too ...

What is harassment?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - If a girl breaks up with a bloke and stops communication and does not tell him exactly why, is it harassment to continue to write to the girl over email every few days to find out why? I mean if she does not answer, when is it considered harassment?...

I don't want to bring this up as it will start another fight, but the affection and romance has gone from our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I am 24, he is 27. We live together. In the beginning (first year and 4 months), he was always extremely lovey dovey. Always sending cute texts every day, always telling me how much he loves me, etc ...

After 20 years, I am tired and leaning towards just getting the hell out of this relationship! Need advice badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Hello People! I am having a small dilemma that I cannot talk to friends or family about due to the nature of this situation...so I am relying on unbiased strangers opinions. Here we go... I have been with my significant other for 20 years. ...

I feel taken for granted, trapped in my flat and frankly bored.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have always had an up and down relationship but great sex and alot of laughs for the first few years, he is probably the funniest person I know. Having been together for 10 years (bar a year and a half apart) I have always felt ...

He was abusive and I need to move on. Tips please on how to move on and forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: no mention of charges laid against the OP so I am not calling this a crime. Instead I belive the Op was the victim from reading this account. I met this man in 1987... We have been in and out of love, or what I thought was love now I'm...

I want to get over my abusive LDR ex. But I need some ideas please on how to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I'm really sad and depressed. I was with this guy in a long distance thing for almost 2 years. It was never really perfect or ideal but I cared about this person a lot. We would fight. He would call me names but i in the back of my head I would t...

He's changed, and is there any point in being with a Bf who behaves this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - So here's my problem... I'm 15 and have been with my boyfriend for the last 13 months. At first it started out and he was so perfect, but the last few months I've been having doubts. Everything he says annoys me, he's clingy he's turned all c...

I thought that we were 'meant to be'. Wrong, it seems. Am I capable of loving anyone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - Ok so almost 5 months ago I was in an on and off relationship that overall lasted three months. I felt I was in love with him but he was completely unstable. He broke up with me three times and I stupidly went back with him twice thinking we were ...

I don't feel loved nor that I matter to him. What can I do to try to improve things? Because I do still love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together three years. In the beginning while we were dating it was the typical crazy gaga love. It was amazing, I felt like a million dollars and so lucky to have found the love of my life. We bought a house about ...

Broken Hearted. How do I get her to love me??? Or how do I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M) - There's this girl I talked to online for a really long time. we spent forever together and i thought things were going fine. we hung out once and it seemed like it went well but she doesn't want me for some reason. she talks to me all the time and...

I don't know if I can really believe what he is telling me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - Hi, so, I have a problem... Well actually I have 2 different situations that I need help with. I'm really sorry if this is long but I DESPERATELY need some advice! Well, my ex and I broke up 2 years ago. But I still love him so much. And he loves me...

I am confused in this beautiful relationship we have..Please advisee

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 February 2012 (M) - I am 29 years old and in beautiful relationship with this girl (30 years old) I met her 14 months ago and like her so much and she is such a beautiful person and very supportive. She has done a a lot for me, we also have a healthy relationship. ...

Am I overanalyzing his actions or just settling for someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years and although we are both in our careers I feel like things have somewhat changed (or I’m just overanalyzing as I usually do) He’s a police officer and has weird shifts that are constantly ...

My husband blew off Valentine's Day--does he not care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my husband for over 20 years and he has never been the romantic type but this valentines day he completely blew me off! Not even a card! Money is not an issue for us, he had the day off so he had time, and he didn't forget! I am ...

Is my secret lesbian relationship with my best friend doomed?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - Help/ opinions will be really appreciated. Sorry for such an essay but I can't talk to anybody about this. I'm 22 and have always been with guys. Around 3 years ago I met *A now 20 we soon became best friends. Even though she was also 'straight' ...

How do I be fair to my new guy? And get over my ex, but not lead-on the new guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - I'm nowhere near ready to date again. I'm still mourning the loss of this relationship (7 weeks of panic attacks and seperation anxiety--yes, I'm getting clinical help). Last Wednesday someone came back into my life out of the blue after a year of ...

Old flame, old rumours ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - I have reacently been in contact with a guy I knew from late high school, we had been messaging one another on and off for about 6 months. We had said we would meet and catch up. Then I get a message from him that said he had heard a rumour about me ...

Should I pursue my ex again? I cant live without her yet a part of me says its a huge mistake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 February 2012 (M) - Hello I am in a lot of pain. My ex broke up with me after a 4 year relation when I immigrated to USA in Feb 2011. She was my life. She ended up with a sorry ecard and the reason being our lots of differences. The whole 4 years were a period of const...

'Free Spirit?' Or did he mislead me? Should I wipe him from my life?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

10 February 2012 (F) - M led me on for approximately 9 months. It started off as a normal friendship, however it quickly became intense with the knowledge of his life partner passing away a couple of years ago. For reasons unbeknown to me, he chose to get close to me ...

After three years it feels like he's not that into me any more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

9 February 2012 (F) - Lately I have been feeling like my bf isn't really that into me anymore. We have been dating for almost 3 years now and we also live together and I guess were both just in our "comfortable stage". I feel like I'm starting to become more of his ...

I'm scared to start a new relationship because I don't want to hurt my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 20months 3 weeks ago, the relationship had started to go downhill at around the beginning of november, he still felt the same about me but I was starting to notice the spark disappear. In the beginning of December I ...

He's changed and our relationship is going down the drain....I'm so miserable and don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

7 February 2012 (F) - hello everyone, tonight im finding myslef laying in bed with to much on my mind and am really in need of some advice please and thanks in advance. okay so my boyfriend and i live together and have been together almost six years. we have had our fair ...

Is she just being nice or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4670 days ago

6 February 2012 (M) - i have a grilfreind of 6 mths. she is 10 years older than me.we were hot and heavy for each other. then after 4 mths she tells me . she wanted to go back to the way like when we were dating. now she saids that she dose nt want to break up but only ...

He's on line trying to meet new women. His impotence is an issue. Do I break up over his lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

6 February 2012 (F) - My Man of 4 years has severe ED. We have only been able to have actual sexual intercourse twice..We've done other things to keep our sexual connection alive. Nothing has been happening at all in this area for a good 8 weeks and today I found out ...

How can I help my boyfriend overcome his resentment toward me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

6 February 2012 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 17 months. We were living together for 6 months but i just recently moved out because since october, he has been resenting me and has lots of anger towards me. The only times i can think of him bein...

Is too much sex bad for my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have shared a brilliant and adventurous sex life. I have a very high sex drive and he has always been able to keep up until recently he is turning me down more and more. I initiate the sex I'd say 4 ...

He says she's his soul mate. Do I go through with the divorce or wait?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

4 February 2012 (F) - My husband left my and the kids for his mistress. he met her online. She is 1400 miles away. He's been 1 1/2months. He tells me he loves her and she makes him happy but he still loves me. That he's just not in love with me. Not to mention ...

Huge age difference, and now I'm starting to wonder if he even loves me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

4 February 2012 (F) - I am female,28...3 months living with 63 year old american guy,i am confused now because he is no longer treating me the same like before,it was clear before whats my future with him but now seems like i am hanging,i feel like not being love,i ...

How can I cope and continue living with him, broken hearted but apart?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

3 February 2012 (F) - Hi all. I have recently broken up with my bf. We have a joint mortgage together. After much soul searching and advice from a mortgage advisor, we have both been advised to stay in the property together for as long as we can. This is because ...

I think about this guy 24/7 and although he's literally called me every name in the book, I still love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

3 February 2012 (F) - I've been in this ldr for almost 2 years. We met on a chatline and instantly connected! Every time me tried to meet up,something would always happen on both of our ends, so although we had never seen each other we did skype and video chat and send ...

Can I believe her? Did she cheat on me? Where to go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

2 February 2012 (M) - I am currently in a 4 year relationship with my first and only girlfriend. Up until recently our relationship has been great and there's been no scares of infidelity or anything of that nature. It was a true love story, to make a long story shor...

How can I make her open up her heart to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

2 February 2012 (M) - There is this woman who I love so much more than any anyone I came across in my life, for the first time in over a year we begin to talk to each other over some social network site when she invited me. last time we had a real communication we ended ...

Is it possible to get back love after 3 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

2 February 2012 (F) - We were in love for nearly 3 years. We know each other quite well, he brought me to see his family and he also visited my house, see my parents everyweek. I am Capricorn and he is Aries. One day, I got angry because he leave me for getting out ...

How can my Bf be so nice to his friends and so mean to me? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. The past 6 months or so have been great, but before that we had a few issues with cheating and flirting behind each other's backs. We're much better now but the wounds haven't completely healed and I ha...